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Transcript of DJ JuiceBox with Xandra Pohl: Monday, November 3rd, 2025

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Good morning, girlies. It's The Toast. It's Jackson Claude, and we're your hosts. It's your favorite show, the fast five things you need to know. We'll start your day off swirly, It's The Toast. They sound amazing. Welcome back to The Toast, and Happy Monday. I'm so excited to be sitting down with somebody who's like Gen Z It Girl. We are extremely young here at The Toast. But somebody we talk about all the time on The Toast because we're just in awe of her. Everyone, it's Zandra. Welcome to The Toast, Zandra.

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Oh, my goodness. Hello, hello, hello.

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I was just saying to you offline, I cannot believe I'm seeing your hairline in person. Your hairline is so insane. It's so straight and full. I can't stop staring at it. You were saying that people online think it's fake. Fake.

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I'm like, it's not fake.

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You were bored with that. Show the camera. That's insane. It's so thick and straight and full.

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I don't know. My mom has the same thing. She hates Janette. Yeah. I remember when people started talking about it online, they were like, your hairline, hairline, hairline. My mom called me and she was like, You know what? That's because of me. I was like, Oh, and there she goes. She made sure you knew. Yeah, she was like, No, that's definitely not coming from your dad.

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That's me. We talk It's great. I love it all the time on the toes because you're just so cool and fun and fresh. When you were on Sports Illustrated and you wore that star dress on your boobs, it was amazing. It was giving Ogie Kate Upton. We're so jealous and happy for you. It's so exciting to be here. We have a very unique audience. We're huge with Gen Z, but a lot of our listeners are I'm anti TikTok. For anyone who's not familiar with you, give everyone your little rundown, your shtick, DJ It Girl, University of Miami, you go.

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Okay. Oh, my gosh. This is hard. How do I... It actually is hard.

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Sorry. That's not a cool question.

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You talk so fast and you learn how to get on your level.

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I'm Okay, so you know what? When I started following you, you were still a University of Miami student. You were getting ready to go out and DJ. When did you start DJing?

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I started DJing when I was 16 years old.

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Damn. So in high school?

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In high school, yeah.

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Where are you from?

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Ohio, Cincinnati. Okay, so that was sexy. That's so random.

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I would have thought you were from New Jersey.

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That's what everyone says. They're like, You give East Coast energy. Maybe it's because I'm a little bitchy. I don't know.

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What was it like growing up in Ohio? That's so random and glee of you.

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Imagine just... It's so glee. It is so glee.

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Did you go to Lime Heights?

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I did not go to Lime Heights, sadly. I wish I did. I was just not a good singer, so maybe that didn't work out for me. But I imagine growing up in Ohio, one of those basic, boring movies.

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Right.

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Very regular. Just the most regular experience, that is what I had. Nothing special, nothing flashy.

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Why did you start DJing?

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I started DJing because I was always in music festivals. I love going to them. I had such an amazing time. I went to Lollapalooza. I think it was my junior year summer, going into my senior year, and I saw Allison Wendell performing. That was the first female DJ that I ever saw, and I was like, Wow, that's what I want to do. That's who I want to be. I just thought it was the sickest thing ever. I've never saw a female DJ.

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It is really cool. I was telling you a little bit before. I also in college, actually a little after college, I had a brief career time as a DJ. I thought, first of all, it was fun, and I love to party. I was like, Well, I can also get paid. It's actually really hard to DJ. Let me tell you, I took lessons. There was a place here, I think it's still a business called Scratch Academy. I didn't know where to start. That's true. What did you teach yourself from YouTube videos?

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Yeah, all YouTube videos.

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I was like, Let me just buy the equipment. What's that thing called?

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A board?

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No, but what's the one that everybody has?

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Like the 100, the small one? Like the baby one?

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Yeah, it had the turntable. It had one turntable. Oh, yeah. I went to class and I took a bunch of lessons and I got one or two gigs, and I realized very quickly it wasn't for me because I think a lot of people think, and myself included, that you could just drink and get fucked up and party, but you're working, right? It's actually most people do it live.

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Yeah, most people.

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I see a lot in your comments, people are always accusing you of not mixing live, which is offensive to women.

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It's so annoying, but it's just something that I'm just used to at this point. The top comment, DJ Pressplay, or what is the other way?

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Dj Pressplay. They see that Paris Hilton, too. I see that all the time in her comments. It's so uncool.

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I mean, they'll say it's any female ever, but it was so funny. I actually posted a video playing Levity. They're these crazy dubstep DJs, and they also did a with Cranked Out. I posted something to the remix, and everyone was commenting like, Oh, my gosh, DJ press play. Then Levity, who's one of the biggest upcoming DJ groups right now.

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Oh, my gosh, this is so hard talking. By the way, I do talk really fast, and I think I'm moley.

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I'm trying to keep up over here. Oh, my God.

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For a lot of people, they're really surprised at how fast-paced the podcast is. I apologize. I'm going to slow down.

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No, you do not need to slow down. I'm going to keep up with you.

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I have some questions for you because I've been following you for so long. You came up for me when you were doing your makeup your door and you were TikTok famous in college, which I feel like is the most cool, fun thing ever. Did everyone on campus just was talking about you guys? What was it like? Because I experienced it on the internet, but you were actually experiencing it in real life. Instead of having to go to class and stuff.

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At that point, I was a senior, so I feel like everyone... It's a very small school. University of Miami is very small, so I feel like people think it's this massive school. But it was only weird. The freshmen would only say things, but everyone else were like, We've been seeing these people for the past three, four years. We really do not care about them.

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How long were you TikToking and making Get Ready With Me? It's before. Because I remember when it all started. Everyone has an era, like their Emily Moriko era, where everyone's talking about it. And literally, my older sister Olivia, who has two kids and is not to be rude, sorry, Olivia is 34. She was like, Are you seeing Zandra? It really took off to the point where everyone was talking about the University of Miami Girls getting ready. Olivia was explaining. Olivia was the one. She was like, And Zandra, she's a DJ. And she gets It was just a cultural moment where everyone was talking about it. I feel like I've been following you since that moment. I have so many questions for just what it was like. And now you're just like an it girl and you're DJ and you're a Sports Illustrating. It's amazing and we love it. But I feel like When it was all happening, you had to be there almost to experience it. It was so fun to just... I think a lot of people, myself included, were just living vicariously through you guys because it was like, I haven't gotten ready in pregame.

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You guys literally party so much. Every single night. It was just like, How is this real? Then you took a really different approach from some of the other girls and you were DJing, and it was so cool to watch your rise. Now you do DJ festivals. You're here in New York for a show. It's so fun to watch. I apologize for my fast-paced questions. I've just been wanting to talk to you for a while.

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I know. I feel like people would always send me a close for the podcast whenever you talk to me, and I was like, Wait, I love that. I need to go.

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Well, we also, much like a lot of the internet users, we are obsessed and curious with a lot of the drama with the girls in college because you and Alex came up together. I feel like you guys don't necessarily have bad blood, but you don't fuck around as much as you used to. I'm like a troll. I'm always in your comments, and I like to see what people say. Because like I said, they're always accusing you of not playing live, and they're always accusing you and Alex of having bad blood. It must be really annoying to not be able to move past that. I'm a part of the problem now because I'm bringing it up. It's all in your comments all the time, and do you feel like you can't move past it?

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I feel like there's certain things. There's no bad blood. There's no problems. I feel like you're in college and you're really close to people, and then you graduate and everyone's going their own separate directions. That's life. I'm still close with a bunch of my other college friends, but it's People are always going to be curious. People are always going to bring stuff up. It's always going to be a part of my story. But I feel like, I don't know, I'm doing so many other amazing things, and I live an amazing life and have an amazing friend. Whenever people say that, I'm like, I get where you guys are coming from, but it's really just not that deep.

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Okay, that's really good to know. Yeah. Does it feel like you're... How old are you? Sorry, if that's okay that I- I just turned 25. I hate you. Okay, and you've been TikToking publicly. People have been paying attention for what? Like three years?

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I'm trying to... Halfway through my senior year is when things...

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That's just such an important time in a young girl's life, right? There's lots happening. You're dating, you had a boyfriend, you guys broke up, and then everyone is wondering, Danielle, am I Adola? How does it feel to have these public moments documented? I started a girl with no job in college, but I didn't have as interesting of a life as you did. Me and Ben met when we were 18, and we've been together for 100 years, and now we have a baby. You're experiencing all these canon events as a young woman in front of so many people. How does that feel? That's a big question.

00:08:51

It's interesting. It's one of those things because you want to be reckless, you want to do all those things. But when you know that there's so many people watching, you You do have to check yourself. You do have to grow up quicker in a way and just understand that there are repercussions for your actions. I feel like that's what I've learned because I feel like all my friends were dating, going around, doing all this stuff. At first, when I had a boyfriend, I would go online and I would just talk about stories about us because it's really hard to understand how many people are watching. I know. And how many people are invested. I feel like I was really good about it for the most part. I mean, there was definitely moments where I was like, Was that necessary to tell? Yeah. But I mean, I- Those are things, though, that you really have to learn the hard way.

00:09:36

You will get to a place where you know what the right balance to share is, but you have to fuck up before you realize that you don't have to share everything.

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Exactly. For the people that I've been talking to you recently in the new dating and all the new stuff, I've been holding back a little bit.

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Yes, we did notice that you were not being clear with us whether that was Danny Emandola's dancing with the Stars apartment, but we knew that it was, and that's okay. We knew that it was, and we were happy for you. I feel like that was part of people being Guys, be cool. Be cool.

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Everyone just be chill about it. Just like, Can I have my moment? You know what I mean? Do I need to spell it out for everyone?

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You gave us what you gave us, and we saw it and we understood it.

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Yeah, I was like, Just please bear with me. Are you dating right now? Dating as in?

00:10:18

Are you seeing one person specifically?

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No.

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No, but are you seeing multiple people? Love that.

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No, not really.

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If I was 25 and I had your hairline, girl, you would not be able to keep me out of people's DM.

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Not the hairline.

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No, but you must be having so much fun.

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For a while, I wasn't having fun. I'll give you that. Getting over the breakup and just I had to deal with all that trauma. I feel like I was really good at, I don't want to say hiding it. But again, what I said is as soon as you bring things to the internet, then boom, there's no going back. I really took my time with explaining everything that happened in my past relationship, and I had to deal with it personally before I dealt with it publicly. It really took me a long time to get over that and to deal with all those traumas.

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Can I tell you that the internet is so crazy? Because now coming up on my TikTok, and correct me if I'm wrong, is your ex-man, now a TikTokeer, he's dancing. Yes. See, that's him. Okay, that's what I thought. I recognize his face. I'm like, Why do I know this guy? Then, of course, like I said, I'm a troll who just reads comments. I learned everything I say on the podcast. I'm like, I read it in a TikTok comment. That's why I'm always full of You should never listen to anything I say. But yes, the comments did confirm that that was Sandra's ex-man. How do you feel about his new digital footprint?

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There's certain things. It's a little You just got to let people do their thing. Yes, I love that. That's a good response. They're just having their moment. I think when we ended things, I said he pleaded with me to not talk about all his atrocities that he did with me. I said, You know what? For the sake of our relationship and how long... We were together for four years. It was a very traumatic four years. But I was like, You know what? I did love you for a very long amount of time, and you were a big part of my life. He was like, I do not want to be online. Please just let me have this one thing. Can I go and have a normal life?

00:12:26

Okay, that's a fair ask, even though he was atrocious, like you said.

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Yeah, exactly. But it was like we had all the... I don't know. I loved him a lot at one point, even though he did all those awful things. Then I was like, You know what? Fine. You don't want to be in the internet. Don't bother me. I won't talk about you and all this thing. Then all of a sudden, I was like, Oh, interesting. But everyone's doing their own thing, and I'll let them cook. Good for you.

00:12:52

Well, that's an interesting perspective. I didn't realize that. I think it's a fair thing for someone to ask. Jackie and I talk a lot about how in this day and age, people are in relationships, and then they go and tell everyone everything that ever happened in that relationship, bad and good, and sometimes people deserve it, Zack Bryant. But it does feel like now it's a thing people do where they just tell the worst things, the people's worst moments in a relationship and go on a podcast about it. Now, obviously, you're on a podcast, so I'm understanding.

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I'm like, it's happening.

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But I actually really respect that you didn't do that. I imagine that was hard when you just wanted to scream it from the rooftop.

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Oh, my gosh. It was a lot, and I I went to therapy and I tried to figure a bunch of my stuff out. But definitely when I'm seeing this and there's a whole another... I mean, it's just a bunch of lies. But like I said, if that is what they want to do, I'm letting them- Express themselves through dance. Yes, dance, dance, dance away.

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Are you a big pop culture girly? I know you love dancing with the stars, right? Yeah, I love dancing with the stars. Because I feel like, were you just there at the taping? Yeah. Got it. Of course, you spent a lot of time there last season. We don't need to do that.

00:13:58

I was behind the And your best friend's with the former winner.

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Yes. And he also ran the marathon. You're in town for the marathon, too. Yes. Because your brother ran the marathon.

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Yes.

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So crazy. I went to see the marathon yesterday, and my friend Emily ran, Slay. Go, Emily. It was so emotional. The second I got to First Avenue to go see her. I was immediately... This happens every year where I'm like, I'm going to run. And I'm obviously not, even though I did run a 5K two years ago. It was my whole personality, and I crushed it.

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Wait, I want to see the...

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I'll show you. I have a medal, too. Wait, I want to see Yeah, it was really sick. So many celebrities are in the marathon. We're going to talk about that. Sandra, what's the longest you've ever run?

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What is the longest I've run? I used to be a big runner.

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Were you? Yes. Do you ever do an official run, 5K, 10K?

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I did a 5K when I was eight years old, and I threw up.

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Not me saying I did a 5K a year ago. You did it when you were eight years old.

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No, wait. I played soccer my whole entire life. That was always a big thing.

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But I actually- You're such a soccer girl.

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I mean, people say that. It's the legs.

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No, I didn't mean physically. I just meant vibe-wise.

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Wait, do I give soccer?

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You're so soccer.

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You know what I mean? I definitely don't give... I hope I don't give... I don't know.

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You What do I give DJ, though?

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Really? Yeah, but maybe it's just- No, people say that all the time, though. I'll go up. The amount of security cars that I've gone up, I'm like, Oh, I'm DJing. They're like, Yeah, I bet. What's your dream gig? Dream gig? I feel like I've done a lot. My dream, dream gig was to do EDC Vegas. I did that this year, which was a lot of fun. But I'd love to do a headline slot like EDC Vegas, which is pretty much one of the biggest you can get. Or Tomorrowland. I really wanted to do Tomorrowland.

00:15:43

I'm familiar with Tomorrowland. So sick. Let me ask you a question because we were talking on The Toast last week about Dictionary. Com released the word of the year, and they made it 6/7. I was with my sister Margot. It was during Halloween, and we were trying to understand what's... She was trying to explain it, but she low-key didn't know. Every time I don't understand something, I ask her because she's young and hip. Can you explain it? I have no idea what that is. Oh, okay. That makes you feel better. I have no idea. I feel like everyone's 6, 7. It just popped up out of nowhere.

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I thought it was somber because he was 6'7. I thought it was because 7'89.

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I'm so confused. I was not... Really? Don't listen to me.

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I know. No, but I still... That's one of the things I have no idea. None of my friends have any idea. We talk about all the time.

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Okay, so even young people don't know. I'm not brain rot.

00:16:23

I'm not brain rot.

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Where do you live? You live in Miami? Mm-hmm. That's fun. It is a lot of fun. When you party professionally, has it become less fun to party regular?

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I'd say definitely it's changed my clubbing experience. Because I work at the club.

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It's your workplace.

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I always say that I have the same hours as a hooker, nights and weekends. So I'm like, You will not see me out and about. But I don't know. It's still a lot of fun, but I feel like most of the time when I hang out with my friends in Miami, we're on a boat, it's a house party. I try to avoid the clubs.

00:16:58

Because it's like how somebody feels when they a corporate office.

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Yeah, or a doctor walking into a hospital. Right. That's how it feels. That's how it feels.

00:17:06

You love living in Miami? You don't think you would ever move?

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I love it. I mean, I just got a house there, so I'm stuck there for good until I find a husband.

00:17:14

Of course. Do you want to get married soon?

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Well, I have to find a boyfriend first. I'm not even talking about a boyfriend.

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I'm just talking about husbands.

00:17:22

Everyone is getting engaged.

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Can we talk about it? I don't feel that way because it's like I'm not in my engaged air. It feels like everybody's having That's how I feel. Oh, my gosh. What timeline are we working with, you think?

00:17:36

Well, my ex-boyfriend. I feel like whenever you have a boyfriend for a long amount of time, you always think that you're going to marry them. I was like, Oh, my gosh. I'm going to I was like, Oh, I'm going to get married young, all the stuff. Now I'm like, Whoa. I don't know. I'd love to find a boyfriend first. That might be nice. That would be helpful. That would help.

00:17:55

To get the husband's age. Now, is your full name Alexandra? Yes. When did you start going by Xandra? It is such a cool name. I feel like-Thank you. I've seen you're super talented, but I think a lot of your charm and your success when you were first, I never heard of anyone as Xandra. It was really like a stage name, especially as a DJ. It's great to have. Where did that come from?

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It came from Honestly, I was looking for a DJ name. When I was growing up, my full name was Alexandra. Then everyone always just tried to short my name to Alex, and my mom was like, I just don't. I named you Alexander for a reason. I was like, Oh, my gosh. This is interesting. Well, yeah, but I was like, Mom, you chose the longest name in history.

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I just named a baby. You always think about what they're going to call the baby. I imagine Alexander, she would have known they're going to call you Alex.

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Exactly. I was like, I don't know. Then I was called AP in high school. I was called April in grade school. When I came to college, I was like, Wow, everyone's going to share my name. How about I just put some... I just choose what it is because I feel.

00:18:55

Honestly, that's so sick. I feel like people, a lot of times, get nicknames that they're stuck with and they didn't choose those nicknames, and it sucks. The fact that you chose your nickname was my dream. When I was in the eighth grade, I really wanted a cool nickname, and so I had everyone call me Juicebox. Nobody called it. Juicebox? Yeah, I thought it was like such. I'm like, DJ Juicebox? That would have been really cool. Wait, that's actually. Dj JB, obsessed. Wait, that's cool. It did not catch on. It's hard to, later in life, get a nickname. But college is a great place to start fresh and be like, Hi, I'm Xandra. I love that it took off for you. I'm so jealous and happy for you.

00:19:24

That's awesome. Thank you. Well, it was the reason how you do it. If you ever want to re-invite yourself, Yes. Change your Instagram username before you go to college.

00:19:32

Okay, that's actually really smart. I think that also happens when girls get married. If I've known you forever, I'm never calling you your married name. But if you change everything, like shout out to my friend Dana, formerly Holesberg, now Webman. The night she got married, she changed her Gmail. Everything. You know what? I always forget her made a name now. She's Dana Webman. Stop. You're right. It's all in the Instagram handle.

00:19:52

It's all in the Instagram handle because when I came to school, I was introducing myself as Alexandra and people were like, No, you're Xandra. I was like, Whoa.

00:19:59

I love I love that. You're right. I should have changed my Instagram to Juicebox if I wanted it, too.

00:20:03

Yes. Then I guarantee every single person would have called you Juicebox.

00:20:05

Wait, I love that.

00:20:07

It's a hack. It's a hack. It's a hack. It's a hack.

00:20:10

Well, Xandra is here to do the fast five stories with me. What are you currently obsessed with in pop culture? What TV shows are you watching? What are the young kids watching?

00:20:17

What am I? I don't know. I'm really weird. I love law and order SP.

00:20:21

Obsessed. Also, sorry. We have a lot of stories today about Halloween. I just want to say your Pamela Anderson costume was such a slay. Thank you so much. It's hard to be I feel like everybody does the same couple of costumes. Loved.

00:20:33

Thank you. I have an amazing team of stylists, and they basically were like, You're going to be this and this and this this year.

00:20:39

I do feel like you really actually look like her in everyday life, and the costume was such a slay.

00:20:44

Thank you.

00:20:45

We have a lot of Halloween stories, a lot of celebrity costumes. It's not Halloween if a celebrity doesn't offend you with their costume. Now, this year, thankfully, nobody did Blackface, but Julie Fox is being crazy. Zan, I have a question for you. Are you ready for the Fast Five stories?

00:20:58

I am so ready.

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Jackie O famously didn't change her clothes after JFK was shot. She was wearing this gorgeous pink suit. It was covered in blood. Then to make a statement, Jackie O never changed. For some reason, Julia Fox thought that would be a good costume to not only dress as Jackie O, but to wear the blood. Now, of course, Jack Schlossberg is very upset. I agree with him. It was a crazy costume, and I just want to say I'm over Julia Fox, But she's raising eyebrows for her viral Halloween costume. The actress/model dressed up as a bloody Jacky Kennedy Onassis after she survived the assassination of her husband. She wore a replica of the famous pink suit and the pill box hat, complete with blood stains while attending a Halloween party party in New York City on Thursday. So people were very upset. Jackie O'Nass has famously said, No, let them see what they've done to Jack. And I think Julia Fox got a lot of hate, rightfully so. And then she released a statement just trying to play Kate, being like, No, you guys don't get it. I'm here, this is a statement for women. She was like, After the backlash, Julia Fox posted a statement on Instagram defending her outfit.

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She said, It's not a costume. It's a statement. She said, When her husband was assassinated, she refused to change out her blood stained clothes, saying, I want them to see what they've done. The image of the delicate pink suit splattered with blood is one of the most haunting juxtapositions in modern history. Beauty and horror, poise and devastation. Her decision not to change clothes, even after being encouraged to do so, was an act of extraordinary bravery. It was performance, protest, and mourning all at once. A woman weaponizing image and grace to expose brutality. It's about trauma, power, and how femininity itself is a form of resistance. Long live, Jackie O. While I really respect her use of language here to defend herself. I think she really wasn't expecting people to be so offended by this because it really is.

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Was that ChatGPT?

00:29:08

It's very Chat. I do respect her attempt to be like, No, you guys don't get it. Because sometimes when somebody, you get hate, it's a good response to be like, No, you guys just don't understand it. I'm really not buying what she's selling. I'm just going to say it's not a good costume.

00:29:22

There's no reason. I feel like that was such a dramatic time. A thousand %. In history. It's like, I was like, Yeah, Isasmination not cool? Especially with the way... Not cool at all.

00:29:34

A destination not cool.

00:29:35

It's not cool. It's getting the X for me.

00:29:38

It's getting... Yes. I just really actually don't like this costume at all. I do think it's hard to be creative when it comes to celebrity costumes. Heidi Klum is always doing the most, and I feel like she doesn't really need to be doing what she's doing.

00:29:50

The lizard tongue was insane.

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So I feel like it's definitely hard to stand out and come up with a unique costume. Not everybody can be Belly, Conrad and Jeremiah. I get it. That was so I feel like this is just a result of people trying to do the most and have the best, most original costume, so much so that you get to a place where you don't realize you're doing something incredibly offensive. Because I don't think she was trying to be offensive. I think she was trying to be different.

00:30:11

I feel like she's always trying to be different. I feel like that's her thing. That's her shtick.

00:30:15

It's a little annoying.

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It's sometimes be normal. Just be normal.

00:30:19

I agree.

00:30:19

Maybe be Pamela Anderson.

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Just be a little basic. Bring back normal. Be a nurse, okay?

00:30:24

Like a sexy nurse.

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I feel like that is so... It was so cliché that nobody does it anymore. That if you were to be a sexy nurse now, it's original and creative. I hate this costume. I hate her respond. I hate to be like such a Karen. It is tasteless and it is offensive.

00:30:40

I don't like it.

00:30:40

Well, a costume that is not tasteless nor offensive, and I think wins my best costume of the year, besides your Pamela Anderson, was Justin and Haley Bieber dressing their son Jack as a young Justin Bieber. Justin Bieber's son, Jack Blues, adorably channeled his pop star dad in Halloween 2025 by dressing as one of Justin's iconic looks. On Friday, Hailey Bieber shared a carousel of photos of their toddler to Instagram, and she wished followers a happy Halloween. Here is the photo. He's wearing the iconic purple hoodie and white denim jacket. I just want to say there's so many things I want to give Hailey Bieber credit here for. One, she famously does not share her son on social media, so I feel like it's hard to create content with your kids. Everybody's always exploiting their kids for likes, and it works. Shout out to Hailey for making news without ever showing her kid's face. That is such a flight.

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She's so cool.

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Oh, my God. Me and Margot, when she hosted with me last week. All we did was talk about Haley. There is seriously nobody cooler, better, more beautiful, more standing, more successful. I just love her.

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She's really... I mean, I've seen her in person a couple of times, too, and her skin, she glows. The road is working.

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She's a walking advertisement for her own brand. I'm a big fan of the road glazing milk. I agree. She is so successful, and she's a billionaire because she works hard, but also because she is the embodiment of her own brand. Sly. I love this costume. I think it's such a cute, funny way to pay homage, Justin's pop star roots. We don't get to see the sun, and I don't want to. I respect her privacy. I want to. But I love that he literally has Justin Bieber hair.

00:32:10

I know. And the little proper... I wish they did a TikTok with him, though, because I want too much.

00:32:17

I'm in the stage now where... Because I also don't show my son on social media, and now my whole For You page is moms and stuff. When I see a mom who doesn't share her kids, I follow them because it's so hard to... You want to make mom content, but you're limited. I think it's a really hard but good choice to not show your kids. I'm always trying to support mamas who don't show their kids. So if you randomly got followed by me, that's why. I'm always following people who don't...

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Who are like, Snaps for you.

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It's hard. You want to share the journey, but it's really tempting to show your kids because That content gets really good engagement. There's a lot of nefarious things going on on the internet. I understand why a lot of moms don't, and I cheer you on. Haley is our leader, our fearless leader. Look at her making news.

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I know. With the back of her son's head. That's all The back of his head is ridiculous.

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This is so cute. Seriously, best costume goes to this two-year-old.

00:33:05

I know. He doesn't even know it.

00:33:07

He doesn't even know how famous he is.

00:33:09

No, he has no idea. Imagine just popping out of the womb.

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I think the Kardashian kids know how famous they are, especially the older ones. North is like, she understands. She knows. That she's a cultural icon. Yes. It must be so crazy to be so famous and not know. I think that's probably Justin and Haley's kids' experience, too. 100%.

00:33:26

That's so crazy.

00:33:27

It's so crazy. What's your favorite Justin Bieber song to play? What gets the people going?

00:33:31

I don't really play a lot of Justin Bieber and myself.

00:33:36

Who do you play the most? You know I have a song if you ever want to play it. It's called Toast. Wait, really? Yeah.

00:33:39

It's really good. Wait, no. It's your theme song?

00:33:41

Okay, well, we do have our theme song, yes, but I wasn't recommending you play that at a club. It's not club friendly. I would never say that. No, no. I imagine that was my intro. I have two songs. One's called Toast and one's called 100%. They're both honestly dance EDM bops. Can I play it for you? Wait, yes. Stop. I'm dying. Okay. I released Toast, which was like my... It really It should be our theme song, but it's not. I don't know why. This was my first song. It's called Toast. It's literally hard to find on Spotify because there's so many episodes of the fucking Toast.

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I love that I had no idea that you were a DJ. I'm learning so many new things about you.

00:34:15

Okay, so my music that I've released, my two songs, it's actually, it's not DJ songs. It's like I sing, too, because I live for singing.

00:34:21

Oh, my goodness. Okay, ready? Yes.

00:34:25

I'll play for you guys, too. I'm dying, Sandra. You have to play that like live, okay?

00:34:31

No, I will.

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It's good. It's like, you like the beat. Okay, like you got the vibe. Wait, no. And then we have another song called 100%. That's like a little bit more Hailey Steinfeld. I actually don't like the beginning of the song.

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Sorry. Wait, you're a really good singer. Oh, yeah. I feel like the thing, Wait, she's really good. She's really good.

00:34:57

You would play this at the club, right? Yeah. Dents up with the boys and the girls. I'm inclusive. Ready? Doing what we do in the world. This would go crazy at Tomorrowland, right?

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Oh, my God. Yeah. You know what that reminds me of? Ogie, there was a song called Gold that I listened to forever and ever and ever and ever ago. By who? Oh my gosh. I forgot her name.

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Is it by Brittany Cole? Is it a Christian song? Is it? Okay. Was it in the movie The Other Woman? Because if you just brought up my favorite song, I would die. Gold. How does it sound?

00:35:30

It sounds like that. The verse, the chorus, has that big opening moment. Okay.

00:35:35

If you have the Christian song, it's not at all what you're thinking of.

00:35:39

Maybe other people know what I'm talking about. We could circle back on that. Yeah, we'll circle back.

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I don't think that's what you were talking about. So, yes, if you're ever looking for a couple of bops to play at Fountain Blue, just know I give you full artistic control. Thank you. Would you ever remix one of my songs, Andrea? Should I? Do you do that? Yeah. Because I know you released your own song, Body Says. That was the one. Yes. Do you remix? I mean, obviously, you'd like to remix while you're DJing, but you should release remixes of popular songs.

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Honestly, you could- I actually just did one of Take It Off, and I made one to Actually Romantic by- Oh, I love that.

00:36:10

Are you a Swiftie?

00:36:11

Yeah. I'd say, okay, I'm not a diehard crazy.

00:36:15

I actually respect your honest answer because I do feel like people on social media will cosplay as Swifties just for likes. It's the only way you can always tell who's a fake fan who joined last year. Exactly. I actually really respect your answer.

00:36:27

Thank you. I mean, I used to go to all the Taylor Swift's concerts growing up. For me, I wasn't that big into Justin Bieber. I was way more into Taylor Swift.

00:36:36

Got it. But as you've grown up, your music taste has evolved a little bit.

00:36:39

Yeah. Well, now I listen to dubstep in my free time, so it's a little bit different. But I do love a Taylor Swift moment, her new album. I love it. But I go through the ups and downs. I wasn't actually crawling to go to the Ares tour, but I do love it.

00:36:54

Let me ask you a question. Dubstep. Yes. Is that music without lyrics?

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That's music with big bass.

00:37:02

Got it. But that doesn't necessarily mean that it doesn't have lyrics.

00:37:04

No, there's some lyrics.

00:37:05

Okay, because music without lyrics, DJ music without... It's some of my least fucking favorite music.

00:37:10

Just chill. Beats.

00:37:12

House, yeah. Well, I love to sing. I like to chant like, Oh, we're in the club. If you're playing music without lyrics in a club, I'm going home. Yeah. Is that a hot take?

00:37:21

It's not. There's just different realms in the music space. It's mostly for people on drugs.

00:37:26

Let's be real. Yes. I'm not in the drug era of my life. Sorry. What are you doing? What do you mean? What do you mean? I'm not doing drugs. I'm so sorry. I'm so crazy. I'm not doing drugs. I'm breastfeeding, okay? Let's be fucking real.

00:37:39

Yeah, no, that's good.

00:37:40

What do you think about Tate McRay? Love. Love, too, but she's in a little bit of hot water. Did you see that video of her with the microphone? No. Okay, so she just had a show and she picked up the microphone to start singing and she was holding the microphone upside down. But the track was still playing. So now there are lip syncing allegations, very Ashley Simpson SNL. Now, I just want to say I don't believe she was lip singing. Yeah. I But the video is extremely compelling. But I think a lot of people don't fully understand how little, even the biggest pop stars sing live. There's so much backing and track. So if you do mess up, there is a track behind you. But that doesn't mean that you're not also singing live.

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Well, yeah. I feel like she's dancing a lot, too. You do need a little something if she's taking a breath.

00:38:17

She's not so out of breath, and you know that she probably would be.

00:38:19

That's annoying to me, though, because it's so obvious that she's such an amazing singer. Have you seen her when she does the sound checks at the beginning and does the whole- A hundred %.

00:38:28

She sings live with her She likes to sing someone else's song and she reads the lyrics.

00:38:32

Exactly. I'm like, Are you guys seriously coming after her for this? Let the girl live a little.

00:38:36

I actually really respect. She puts on a show, right? That's dancing and that's singing. I think probably what separates her from everyone looks pop girly has their thing, right? And hers is totally dancing. So if she's putting on a show, she does need supportive elements. And if she has a backtrack just so she can pop her pussy, I am okay with that because that's her thing. Taylor Swift's thing is her songwriting. Everybody has their thing. And so all the Brittany comparisons between Tate McRay. Yeah, she's popping her pussy and she's dancing, and so she can't be singing at a level 10. I think it's fine. I also think the video is a little misleading.

00:39:07

I need to see the video now.

00:39:09

I mean, everybody has a back track, right? You know music. Everybody has a track and back. Nobody Are you singing completely raw?

00:39:16

No. People don't understand what they're hearing in their ears is something crazy. If their ears aren't working, then they can't sing.

00:39:24

They can't sing, right. I know she's just kicking herself for that little flop because now the video is going so viral. All it takes is one video. It's so annoying. To ruin your whole career. Isn't that insane? I don't think that's what's happening here. Like, table crazy is going to be fine. Oh, yeah. But it is really crazy how just one video taken out of context 10 seconds can literally destroy a person. I know. Tiktok is so great for so many things, but it's also so horrible for so many things.

00:39:46

I mean, it's just so... I feel like before it used to be news and all this stuff, but now it's literally anyone can get online and say anything, and obviously people are instantly going to believe it.

00:39:58

What's the biggest lie you've heard about yourself on TikTok?

00:40:00

Oh, wait, there's been so many. That's so tough.

00:40:03

What's the one that bothered you the most because it was so untrue?

00:40:06

Oh. So many? Wow. That I did a really awful things to my friends. That just never happened.

00:40:18

Oh, I know what you're talking about. I do. Is it about a naked picture or something? Yeah, that was not me. That was not you?

00:40:25

No. Okay, thank you for setting the record straight.

00:40:26

I think a lot of people assumed that it was you. No. Okay, Slay. Yeah, it was not me. I know who it is, but I would never, ever, ever, ever, ever, At that point, it's like, why would I have to defend myself for something that I didn't do? That's the frustrating thing. I feel like it's something you just get jaded with. But at first, when you get a platform and just people start saying things, you want to point out every single thing that people are saying about you, big and small, that's wrong. Then you just have to learn to live with it. Things really do work themselves out. The truth does eventually come out. But I'm shocked that you let that go on for so long. I'm not going to lie. I thought it was you.

00:41:13

No, it was not me. Wow. But yeah, there's just certain things where I was just so focused about my career myself. There was a moment where things got a little crazy there for a second, but I told myself, I will always rise above. I'm I'm never going to talk poor or ill about someone. I'm never going to do something that I would not be proud of later in life. I was like, if I come out and there's obviously things that you want to say or do, but I'm all good now. Everything ended up working out for me.

00:41:50

Wow, I'm really impressed. I can't lie. No, I'm part of the problem because I totally thought it was you.

00:41:54

No, it's okay. I mean, most people- I apologize. No, it's okay. I feel I think it always came up in private conversations, and I'd be like, No, it wasn't me. They're like, Well, why didn't you say something? I'm like, Because what am I going to say? What am I going to do? I was really close with these people. Sometimes people just have moments where they go and they do things and they regret them and then they can't go back. Because then they seem like a bad person. They would never apologize. Then I was just left like, Okay, I guess I'll just take.

00:42:29

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You're going to have to tell them, shop avara. Com, and make sure to tell them to use code toast for 20% off. Fourth story, Megan Markle is upsetting people again. I'm at a place in my life where I'm becoming a Megan Markle defender because people are just coming at her too much and it's annoying. I wish she would come at her husband because he's the annoying problematic one. It's not her, I'm telling you. However, with this new video that she put out, I do understand why people are freaking out. She posted this really cringe celebration video that she propped her phone up and her and Harry and some other lady, I don't know who that was, were watching the Dodgers in the World series. They won a game and they're celebrating. It's just a cringe video. Unfortunately, Megan is just an influencer, and I do believe that she runs her own Instagram account. I'm like, This is what we're going to get from just like, This is someone's mom. She's not thinking about it. When you put out a TikTok, how many times do you watch it before you put it out? Like a thousand?

00:46:37

No? No. You just post it raw.

00:46:40

I'll watch it through once. That's it. For my get ready.

00:46:43

But you don't think about how does this make me look? What thought process? What's your creative process?

00:46:48

I try not to think about it too much because I feel like when I think about it too much, it just feels flat.

00:46:54

You won't post it, right. Well, I feel like Megan just posts things.

00:46:58

She probably needs to take a second I would be like, Wait, I'm married to a prince.

00:47:02

A former prince, right.

00:47:03

A former prince. I guess you'd probably look at this.

00:47:05

She posted a black and white Instagram story of her shrieking in delight and then ran over her husband, Prince Harry, who was sitting in a reclining chair with his feet up. Then after bending down to give him a hug and a kiss, she continued to jump up and down with her close friend Kelly in excitement. Oh, my God, she squilled, and Harry just like, like, chuckled. Now, the thing is, if you were to watch this video and you don't know who these people are, you would think that this is a man who hates his wife. Like, he's so not... She's being cute and funny and sweet. One thing about me, I'm always going to see the worst in Prince Harry. I cannot stand this, man. I don't think he... Like, I think Megan gets all the hate for their relationship when it's him. If you watch a documentary, it was him who didn't protect her at the Royal Family. It was him who should have hired her as stylist. It was him who should have taught her all the rules. But no, he just threw her in. She's sitting next to Queen Elizabeth as his Canadian/American.

00:47:49

Of course, she doesn't know what the fuck is going on. And so all the hate that got sent her away, I blame him 100%. And so she's the one posting them on Instagram, so she's the one getting the hate. But watch a video. He's so mean. She's excited about something. It's like that Taylor Swift quote about cake pops. When someone's excited about something and you make fun of them instead of getting excited with them. It's such an annoying fucking thing. You could tell he feels annoyed with her. Now, again, it's just a 10-second video. Maybe we shouldn't look so much into it. There's a window into their marriage. Sorry, this is what she gave us. We have to now. I'm looking into it, and what I'm seeing is not good. I really, really don't like Prince Harry, so I am always just going to see the worst in him. But this video is not great for him. I'm sorry.

00:48:29

But she looks fine, though.

00:48:30

Yeah, she's like, She's like a happy-go-lucky, fun-loving girl. I feel bad.

00:48:33

I loved her in suits. She was the biggest baddie ever. I don't know. But when they got married, I thought it was the coolest thing. Then everything fell apart. Really bad. I was like, Wait. I know. She was on top of the world and everyone thought she was so hot and so cool. Then I feel like that's such didn't... Princess Diana didn't-Yes, there are a lot of parallels.

00:48:55

I do wish that it had worked out for her. That's my biggest gripe with the whole situation and why I hate Harry because it would have been so cool for there to have been an American divorcee, half Black woman in the royal family. Why couldn't... I think everyone had a part to play, but Harry doesn't get enough shit for not working out on his behalf. The tabloids were bad, and I don't think everyone was super nice to her, but Harry should have protected his wife more. I agree. I watched the Netflix show. I'm not obsessed with this era for her. I think she's free-falling. She has a shopmai. It's weird.

00:49:25

Yeah.

00:49:26

Do you think it's weird she has a shot, my?

00:49:28

I mean, a little. Don't you think Why don't you have better things to do?

00:49:31

No, and you're royal. Why do you have a shop?

00:49:32

Yeah, you're royal. You're a Duchess. You are a Duchess, and your children are princes.

00:49:37

Princess.

00:49:38

Princess.

00:49:40

It's just weird.

00:49:41

Why are you trying to get... That's for other people.

00:49:44

Except we did get her jam. Oh. My husband ate it. He said it was fucking amazing. My husband has a very high culinary bar.

00:49:52

For jam?

00:49:53

For all things. He comes into the house. He doesn't realize. I got sent this in PR. I'm like, We're not supposed to eat it. We're supposed to save it. It's from a princess. Fuck. He's like, Did you eat this apricot jam? I'm like, Did you eat this apricot jam? He posted it on his Instagram. He's like, I don't know where this jam came from. It's so good. I'm like, It's royal. You're like, It's royal jam. I'm not supposed to eat it. But he said it was so delicious. For real. Did you try it? I'm not a big apricot, girl.

00:50:15

Sorry. They should have sent strawberry.

00:50:17

1,000%. Obviously, the person packing the PR doesn't know that I have the palate of a sixth grader. Yeah.

00:50:22

They're like, what?

00:50:23

Our fifth and final story is about all the celebrities who ran the marathon. So the marathon was yesterday. Like I said, I was on TikTok all night crying, and I swear to God, I will run it. Not anytime soon, but I will. A lot of celebrities ran it, which is just another reason to do it. You never know who you could run into. So true. Here are the celebrities and their times. Now, what was your brother's time?

00:50:41

My brother's time was 4: 10, but he had a lot of problems on Mile 12, and it was a whole thing, and everyone was-What problems? He was just... Oh, my goodness. He thought the whole right side of his body started to go numb, and he's run 12 miles every single time. He was running with his best friend, and they were supposed to do 3: 15.

00:51:00

Oh, that's what they were pacing for.

00:51:01

Yeah, that's what they were pacing for. They were good. Then he just lost all feeling.

00:51:07

But he finished.

00:51:07

He finished, yeah. He finished that at 4: 20, 4: 15.

00:51:12

My friend Emily, who is her first time, she ran in 4 hours. That's my benchmark for these people because honestly, some of these times are all good. Anthony Ramos, everyone knows him from In the Heights, original cast of Hamilton, 4 hours and 44 minutes. Okay, 44 minutes and longer than my friend Emily. That's not so good.

00:51:30

Everything, M1. Literally.

00:51:32

Baseline. So these two guys, I don't know them, but they are deathcap for Cutie. Ben Gibbert and Dave Pepper, 336 and 354. Okay, that's really good. Yeah, that's good. But I feel like it's easier for men to run faster. There are biological differences between men and women. Sorry, there are. Claire Holt, Slay, 3 hours and 39 minutes. Everyone knows her from H2O. Naur, Emma Naur. Clear. Clear. Exactly. A lot of people from Broadway, including Jordan Litz, he's in Wicked. He ran it in 3 hours and 40 minutes, and then he did Wicked that day.

00:52:06

I heard. I think he did two. Yeah. How do you do that?

00:52:08

That's insane. That's how I'm like, yes, all people are created equally, but we're really not. That's insane. Carl Radke from Summerhouse, 4 hours and 4 minutes, 4 minutes longer than my friend Emily, but that's still really good. Then a lot of people from The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, Tyler Cameron, 5 hours and 38 minutes. That's long. Not me saying that. It would literally take me a whole day to run 26 miles.

00:52:30

I think he was walking for-I think he was helping his girlfriend, Tate.

00:52:33

I saw something that he was helping his girl. I think he was helping his girlfriend, Tate. I saw something that he was helping his girl. I agreed. I saw that, too.

00:52:35

I wish I was like, That's very cute.

00:52:37

It's totally fine. You know what? I'm being a bitch. I brush it off. I'm being a bitch.

00:52:41

Sorry. That was actually me to me. No, no, but you never know.

00:52:44

You're right. You're right. You're right. Joey, I think your friend.

00:52:46

I can't say his last name.

00:52:48

Grazadeh. Grazadeh.

00:52:48

But at some point it's like Grazadeh.

00:52:50

I was going to say Grazadeh, so I'm glad that I asked you. He did it in 4 hours and 29 minutes, 29 minutes longer than my friend Emily. Matt James, he's like a professional. He did 3 hours and 31 minutes. That's really good. Joe Amabille, grocery store Joe, 3 hours and 49 minutes. Then Tanner, I don't know who that is, 4 and a half hours.

00:53:06

That's Joey's friend.

00:53:07

That's Joey's friend.

00:53:07

Tanner Cotard.

00:53:09

They did it. By the way, their times are 3 seconds off. They obviously did it together. Then three people from Love Island, nick, who's dating Alindria, 4 hours and 42 minutes, 42 minutes longer than my friend Emily. Brian, who I hate, 4 hours and 32 minutes. Then Elon, the cutie Jewish man from Canada, obsessed 3 hours and 20 minutes. That's the way.

00:53:29

He's a big I didn't even know that. I don't know. I feel like he just looks like a runner.

00:53:34

I feel like whenever people talk about certain reality shows, your name gets thrown around a lot, like Summerhouse. Would you ever? No. No. I could do any show? No. Not dating, just any reality.

00:53:45

Any show? Possibly. I mean, there's ones I feel like I would always talk to Kelsey about. She was like, You should be on The Bachelor. Then she was like, You should definitely not be on The Bachelor.

00:53:55

Yeah, I feel like you shouldn't actually.

00:53:57

No, I'd be like, No, no, no, no, no.

00:53:59

The only show I could see you doing, because I do feel like you have a similar vibe, although you don't live in New York, is Summerhouse. Really? Yeah, because it's about fun young people going to Hamptons for the summer. You do go to the Hamptons for the summer. I think they could use a fresh energy like yours, and you're a DJ, and they're always playing music. I don't know. I just feel like it would be a good fit.

00:54:16

I'd be playing music for all the parties. They invited me to a ton. I'm not telling you. I run into the people. No, I run into them all the time.

00:54:25

There's a connection. It wouldn't be a random casting. Think about it.

00:54:28

I don't know. Maybe I'll think about it. Maybe. I don't know. I don't know how well I do.

00:54:31

Do you think you could live in a house, though? You always stay in your own house in the Hamptons. How do you then stay in a house with other people?

00:54:36

No, I don't think that's the thing.

00:54:37

You're spoiled.

00:54:38

I'm so spoiled. I'd be like, No, I'm just going to- I'm going to stay at my house, but I'll see you guys tomorrow. Yeah, I would be like, Oh, see you guys at the pool party? Because that's what they always do. They throw these parties.

00:54:47

They throw pool parties. They don't really go out a lot. It's hard for them to get permits in the Hamptons. I think they stay in Sag Harbor, and the township's really don't like that there's a show, so they don't give them permits to film anywhere. That's why they're never filming anywhere besides the house and random restaurants. They can't go anywhere cool.

00:55:02

I feel like, yeah, no. I don't think they do. Because I imagine the big cameras, it ruins the vibe.

00:55:07

It ruins the vibe. And you know, and all these... It's like small town energy, even though it's become an influencer hotspot.

00:55:12

Yeah, but the Hamptons hate when people come. It's like, I literally, even when I go there, I've been going there since, I think, five years or something because my ex-boyfriend had a house there, so I went there every single summer.

00:55:23

And then when we broke up- It's the type of boyfriend who has a house in the Hamptons, though. Say what you want, but it's nice.

00:55:28

No, it was nice. And then when I broke up with him because he chewed on me, I was like, You know what? There's one thing I'm not losing out of this relationship, and it's not Hamptons summer.

00:55:36

It's the Hamptons summer. It's not Hampton summer. Yeah. Now you rent your own house? Yes. Also good. Which is like- Independent woman thing.

00:55:41

Because he did it with his parents, and his parents were there. I was like, Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like, No, no, no. I'm too grown for this. I can't be hanging out with your parents anymore.

00:55:50

I have to tell you, you slayed your first time at the Fast Five. I knew you were a little nervous. You absolutely crushed it.

00:55:54

No, I was scared. No, no. Not scared, but I was like, You talk really fast. It's a lot of pressure. It's a lot of pressure. It's a lot of pressure. It's a lot of pressure. Getting on the pace. Yeah.

00:56:00

You're really keeping up. I'm really proud of you. I'm trying to. Are you doing more shows? Where can people follow you? Come see you? Promote. Do your thing.

00:56:07

Oh, my gosh. Okay. I have a song coming out very soon, which I'm very excited about. So go stream it. Go check out my Spotify, my Apple Music. My name is Xanderapohl. X-a-n-d-r-a-p-o-h-l. I don't know why I spelled it out like that. No, it's cute. I have so many shows coming up. I'm going so many places, and I'm really excited to share with you guys all the aspects of my life. Yes. Yeah, it's going to be fun, guys.

00:56:32

Thank you so much for doing this. You crushed. You guys, thank you so much. We'll see you in the Toast on Monday Morning Show, where we deliver the fast five stories that you need to know every Monday to Friday on YouTube. So if you're watching us on YouTube, please feel free to subscribe and give us a video of a thumbs up. We're also available as a podcast, anywhere podcast can be found. So it's Spotify, Agent, Stitcher, public video, Ironbase, go to all the places, ladies and podcast. Find us The Toast. Leave a five-star review, bitch, about how beautiful, standing, and wickedly talented we are. Hope you guys have an amazing day, and we are back tomorrow with another fabulous co-host. We'll see you then. Love you. Bye.

00:56:55

Bye.

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