This episode of The MeidasTouch Podcast opens with host Ben Meiselas reacting to Donald Trump's public behavior after his midterm defeat, including rambling remarks about the White House ballroom and daylight saving time. Ben then interviews forensic psychiatrist Bandy X.
Lee, who argues that Trump's conduct reflects a psychiatric problem that calls for firm limits and expert evaluation. The conversation covers the 25th Amendment, fears about nuclear weapons, the idea of a battered nation syndrome, and how election results may reflect a battle over values.
Lee's views are her own professional opinions, and listeners can weigh them against other analyses of the same events.
In this episode Ben Meiselas, Bandy X. Lee
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It is happening, folks. Donald Trump's cognitive and physical deterioration is rapidly accelerating; he's having a full-fledged mental breakdown following the catastrophic midterm loss. Just think about what we've observed in the past 24 hours: he's been ranting and raving on social media about daylight savings time, over and over again, and how he doesn't like how dark it is, and he wants it to be lighter, and then he was in the ballroom yesterday. I mean, just look at him here—did he bring his own audio equipment?
I mean, this is supposed to be the President of the United States. How utterly embarrassing. Has he delivered that 20-minute-long remark about ballroom construction in front of a signed steel beam with the inscription "Love"? I mean, seriously, WTF? The Wall Street Journal reporting that aides to Donald Trump say it's just a waste of time to even tell him to stop talking about the ballroom, because that's all he's doing. He's holding these very long meetings like every single week, almost every day, about the ballroom and how he wants to give people tours of the ballroom and the staff.
It's just like, "I know what we can do about it." I mean, he's an absolute lunatic. And then you saw him yesterday talk about the kitchen. "I got a kitchen in the ballroom, and I know how to build kitchens." Play this clip.
And the kitchen is underneath because if I put the kitchen on top—and we have large staircases coming from the kitchen—if I put the kitchen on top, you would lose three walls.
And then he said, "I grew up with you, perhaps not genetically, but in different forms." I literally have no clue what he's talking about at all. I mean, again, cognitively, physically deteriorating, mental breakdown. But also, I mean, doesn't it also seem kind of extra weak right now? It seems like in a state of almost utter submission right now. Here, let's play this clip.
But I want to thank everybody. You're special people. I grew up with you. You know, every one of you, I grew up with you, maybe in a different form, maybe genetically, maybe it was your fathers or your mothers.
What I want to bring in right now, I want to bring in the interview I just did with Dr. Bandy Lee, a world-renowned clinical, social, and forensic psychiatrist. And I want to understand Donald Trump's behavior here, the behavior before the catastrophic loss, the behavior we're seeing right now. This is a really important interview, one of the most important interviews I've done in a while. Let's bring in the interview with Dr. Bandy Lee. Now I want to bring in Dr. Bandy Lee, forensic and social psychiatrist. Dr.
Bandy Lee, great to see you. I want to talk about Donald Trump's behavior leading up to and following this major loss for Trump and MAGA Republicans in the midterms. What I've been noticing about his behavior today is he's kind of playing, it seems, like a victim card a little bit more, and he's coming out a little bit more. I mean, we've always seen this kind of weakness, and it goes back and forth, but I've noticed a little bit more like doddering behavior.
And, you know, he went to the ballroom today again, which is like the safe space. And while he was with the, you know, the press even more so than before, he was like, "Look, you like my helipad. You like my helipad. You like my helipad." And it almost felt part of this, like, victim cocoon that he was kind of playing as he tries to get his bearings. And because the defeat was so massive, I'm just curious, you know, what it is that we're observing there, because that's what I've noticed the day after, at least.
Yes. We're actually seeing the beginnings of what could become possible if we actually set limits on him and try to contain him. He has been, well, quite miserable, ballooning in his expectations all the years that he has been in power, and that's been quite detrimental to him as well as to the public.
And he's actually asking for containment. That's what we do not recognize, that individuals who are violent and dangerous are actually comforted when they are contained. So we're seeing the beginnings of that possibility. We have to keep going for him to be safe and for the rest of us also to be safe, because otherwise, once he gathers himself back to the state where he's going to be fighting for his life, for his psychic life, then it could become perhaps the most dangerous period in American history.
Right. And there was so much kind of discourse out there about, you know, if he loses and if people stand up and fight back against him, well, then immediately the answer is always going to be that he's going to escalate. I think to your point, that is certainly kind of a possibility. But when there are people who are out of control like this, or I'm sure there's better clinical names for it, the reason you set limits, the reason that you have rules and order and you don't let people continue down this course is you have to kind of put people in their place sometimes, for lack of better words.
And he's been so unrestrained and coddled, it's like, you know, this experience is—that's why I've always advocated for it. You just got to be strong. You got to go—you got to just go right at him and just basically say, "Enough is enough." That's intolerable. You can't behave like that.
That's exactly right. We are not doing him any service by catering to his pathological demands. It's really his disorder that's speaking when he says he wishes to be at the top of the world, ruler of the universe. He actually just wishes to be comforted.
Yeah. And that's why I think when we talk about an oversight agenda or what comes next, I think people need to actually understand the psychic moment that we're in now, which is, don't let him get away with it. I mean, because now is actually the time in this moment where from a clinical, from a social, from a forensic, psychiatric level, now is actually the time where you push and you don't let up by kind of your talk.
Talk to us about the paths and the way this could go, which is actually if there is robust pushback and oversight, what that path looks like. But if he feels he can kind of get away with it, what does that path look like? Explain what these divergent paths—or maybe there's more than just two paths—but what does that look like?
Well, I think at this point it is critical that mental health experts be consulted because we're dealing with a situation that is beyond normal, beyond a situation that most people have dealt with, and certainly should not be turned into normal politics. We cannot expect him to respond normally to an electoral loss. For him, it is catastrophic.
And if he loses the will to live, then we're very close to him taking the entire world down with him because of the technology he has available at his disposal. And I've been speaking about how easy it is for an American president to launch nuclear weapons without any kind of way to counter it, to assess his capacity, or whether or not it's the right order.
There's only a way to check whether or not the order was given. And of course, during the Trump administration, he has made nuclear weapons vastly easier to use. And additionally, he's highly attracted to nuclear weapons. Someone who feels powerless will simply wish to go for the biggest bomb if none of the other bombs work in this lost war against Iran and his diminishing support from the public, then he will wish to demonstrate his power.
And that is the fear because once he does that, that would be the end of humanity.
So there is the importance of setting the limits, which I think in the past 24 hours you've seen and you've observed a side of him that hasn't been seen. I mean, we've seen the cognitive deterioration, but, you know, there was this extra feebleness and the doddering around and the this and the that, you know, in just a bit of a different way. Because as you say, there's these limits being set. Like, how do you—if you were to give guidance right now, though, you know, to the Democratic kind of leadership and to the people and to the various—there are now checks and balances that could exist in the House and the Senate.
So what does that actually look like, though, to continue to set the limits, though, to kind of let him know and put him in his place where he is, but also being mindful of this kind of existential nature? Where is that balance? How do you think of it?
Yes. I think setting limits has to do very much with addressing a psychiatric situation as a psychiatric problem. I have been calling this a presidential psychiatric emergency for quite some time now, and yet no one is willing to even describe it as a psychiatric issue. But now we can because there is the option that the 25th Amendment gives.
Section 4 of the 25th Amendment allows for a body to be formed by Congress. It doesn't have to be the Cabinet. The Cabinet is an option, but another body can be formed. And having the House and the Senate—Democrats have been pursuing this since the very start of the first Trump presidency—a commission can be formed of physicians and former presidents, former high officials that can evaluate him, that can assess his fitness or dangerousness without having to go to a White House physician who is also a military subordinate and beholden to Donald Trump.
That doesn't work. So it would form an independent body capable of assessing the president's capacity to serve in office and also the kind of assessments and treatments that would be necessary and that could include hospitalization.
I've cited you before quite frequently, actually, when you talk about battered nation syndrome and how when a family member has a psychiatric condition and you normalize that, you take on those traits in a way and you become ill by normalizing it, and that inflicts a trauma. And you've explained that writ large when a nation tries to normalize the behavior of a psychotic leader, it has a similar result where all of reality becomes bent.
And then from the outside world looking in, we all look crazy, we all look psychotic because even if we know that the leader is that ill, when we use normal language to talk about it, even those who aren't directly in the cult still exhibit the normalization of the psychotic behavior. I want our viewers to hear you describe that, you know, and then how do we in this moment where Trump has suffered this devastating and catastrophic loss, what can the nation do now specifically to try to get out of this battered nation syndrome and get back to reality?
Yes. A battered nation syndrome is a situation where we ourselves have become paralyzed, immobilized, and actually help with our own abuse. And that comes from learned helplessness after having been in this situation of being traumatized and harmed for so long. We've never had so many deaths from COVID-19 mismanagement alone.
More Americans have died than all its wars combined, including the Civil War. So we're quite a traumatized nation at this point. We have to break out of this conditioning. And the first step is to face reality for what it is, that in fact we have a highly mentally impaired person as president and that he needs treatment, he needs behavioral management, and we need to be safe from his dangerousness.
So addressing it as a mental health problem that it is, consulting with mental health experts who do this work on a daily basis, recognize what we are seeing and know what level of intervention is necessary. I've stated multiple times that he needs to be institutionalized. He has met all the criteria and for the public to be safe.
There is no better solution than containment. And this is something that the people need to demand. The people don't recognize the power that they have because they're in this battered nation syndrome, as you described. They've also taken on his symptoms. Trump contagion is another way I've described it, that when you have a mentally impaired person in an influential office for a prolonged period of time, people start taking on his delusions, his violence proneness, his detachment from reality.
And this is what we need to break ourselves away from by recognizing that what we're seeing is a psychiatric problem.
You know, what we saw with Darlene Graham, Lindsey Graham's sister who lost the race, for example, is we saw her originally begin as kind of a mild-mannered, you know, she's a Graham, so there's probably a lot of issues there, but fairly, you know, just kind of normal, sweet, nice person. But by the time the campaign ended, you saw her kiss my ass and saying all of these, you know, horrific things. And she, you know, just to watch that evolution.
And then she was running against, though, a pediatrician, Dr. Annie Andrews, who was actually pitching people on love and empathy and getting out of it. And the people of South Carolina chose the path out of it. I think that's a good sign. I mean, from a psychiatric standpoint, you had those two models. You had the battered nation manifesting, and then you had the kind of counter to it. And a lot of the races that I feel like we've seen, James Tallarico, Ken Paxton, Adam Hamilton, Roger Marshall, I could keep going on, but you had that dichotomy.
And that's why I said this election didn't feel all that political. It felt about values and principles. Or you could also say a deeper psychic battle in a way, huh?
Yes. All those things are in battle. When you have a mentally impaired person as president, then the nation becomes polarized between those who are mentally well and others who are taken up by his symptoms because he's going to divide the population into those who are detached from reality, who buy into his compulsions, and those who are tethered to reality.
I have to ask you a final question where we saw on the campaign trail Donald Trump continue to talk about the, for a lack of better words, ass or asses of men. And he kept on talking about men, you know, handsome and your ass and this person's ass and that person. And he focused on John Husted, a football player. And it seemed like that was someone who Donald Trump almost wanted to be the jawline, the look, and the football player.
And it seemed, you know, some people were saying homosexual disinhibition, you know, is Donald Trump harm, you know, is he gay? You know, was he in, you know, was he struggling with these feelings as a kid and he suppressed it? You know, I know it's very difficult to diagnose it based on what you've seen and in general it is, but like, what is that? Like, from what you've seen in the field, why was he continuing to talk about a man's ass over and over again in a way that looked that he was sexually attracted to the man and he wanted the crowd to know that he seemed to be attracted to this man's backside?
Well, it's all the things you mentioned. Disinhibition, impulsivity, his desire to be seen with, to be seen as affiliated with someone who is strong and athletic, and his recognizing that he is beginning to decline. In fact, is steeply declining. And so he will desire physical strength and admire it in a way that comes out sexually, but it's more developmental than erotic, I would say, just because of his emotional age.
And his emotional age, I think you've said in other interviews, is what, two? You know, that there's been like arrested development of he acts like a two-year-old, right? I mean, that's his behavior. Truly, it's like someone who's never progressed past two and a half, and that's what's being projected out there.
Yes. According to his history, that's about the age when his attachment was interrupted severely. And usually with that kind of trauma, one has arrested development. In any case, somewhere five or under where he cannot conceive of abiding by laws or agreements or even thoughts of other people.
And he abides by the rule that might makes right. That's why he's always obsessed with garnering more power.
Final question on that topic. We talked about the impulsivity and the global threat, nuclear weapons in his hands. Also, when he starts a war, the way a petulant little child may start a fight, you know, there's a lot of problems with that in general. And from what we've heard in Iran, they had teams of top-level psychiatrists and psychologists and clinical people really study the behavior.
And it does seem that a lot of their responses and how they've dealt with the escalation ladder has been rooted in an understanding of his arrested development, that he is someone who responds to things as though a petulant two-year-old to five-year-old is. And it seems that they know exactly what to say and how to say it and how to kind of inspire the fear and that they're actually directing these messages in a very psychiatric targeted way that hits him and scares him and messes with the emotions.
And when you have someone in power who isn't mentally fortified against that, it seems that you're also able to have outside forces, whether it's Iran or Russia or whoever, you know, Kim Jong-un or to know exactly how to poke and how to prod and how to freeze and how to destabilize and traumatize. So I'd love to get your thoughts on that before we go.
Yes. I've been impressed with the sophistication with which they have dealt with him, unlike we who actually invented the personality profiling of leaders and have commission devoted to it in the CIA. And yet, in the most critical time when we needed that kind of an analysis, we have not availed ourselves of it.
In fact, we have done everything possible to block expertise in this area. We've never had an era where we've had a whole class of experts excluded from the media, from public discourse, and that is mental health. And of course, there was a specific intervention done by the American Psychiatric Association in order to effectuate this. And I warn that our being the most critical expertise that's needed at this time, that if we go silent, then nothing else will work.
And that's what I said in early 2018. And that is the result.
Dr. Bandy Lee, thank you for your time, your critical analysis, and your courage because you were putting this out there, as you say, before anyone was. And I know that's impacted your life and your career and so much, but you've been spot on. And it's always incredible when we have you here on the show, when you're on with Anthony Davis on The Weeknd Show where we see you all the time. And Anthony's incredible. And I admire watching that show when you're both around. I always admire the show in general. But thank you for your time. We appreciate it.
And thank you for all the good work you do.
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