Transcript of People only change when they feel like changing | Mel Robbins #Shorts

People only change when they feel like changing and when the conditions for changing are present. That's important because if somebody doesn't want to change or they can't change due to some condition in their life right now, they're not going to change. There's too many relationships where you're wishing someone would change and you're working against the fundamentals of human wiring, which is people have to feel that they are in control of their own lives. When you say, let them, and you don't play that game, you just shifted the dynamic. As things shift and it impacts someone else, now they have to question, If what I used to do doesn't work, maybe I should try something else.