Transcript of Should I Get ANOTHER Sugar Daddy?

Baby, number two, what's your problem?

Open in line, should I get another sugar daddy? Insane. I, 22-year-old female, started waitressing at underground poker games about four years ago.

How did-Underground poker games at 18?

Yeah.

How does one fall into that line of work? Yeah, she got recruited. Started with just one game night a week, then quickly grew to six games nights a week.

She's working. For multiple different people running the games.

But I was always loyal to the first game I started at, we will call this P's game.

Then J, I hate when we do the Jp element of PQRS.

I can't keep up, but anyway, I'll try.

Just call them Patrick and Jordan.

All right. But I was always loyal to the first game I started at, we'll call this Patrick's game.

Then Jordan, another game owner started wanting me to work his more. I slowly started to realize Jordan might have a bit of a crush on me. Mind you, Jordan was a 46-year-old man with 29-year-old wife, one kid and another on the way. Jordan started to give me little presents at every game I came to. He would offer me his car to go get groceries for the games. He drove a brand new Cadillac Escalade. He started texting me after hours and wanted to get me more stuff. It started to make me think of what I should do.

Should I take advantage of the situation or is it too morally wrong?

When I decided to get milk mean?

Bro, I saw it. I was like, what are you reading? That's all about brefles. All right, sorry. Well, I decided to milk it as long as I could. Pause. As this was advice from all the game players because they hated the arrogance of Jordan. This sugar daddy relationship went on for about six months. He bought me Louis V purses, over 60 pairs of Jordans, gave me over $1,000 in cash every time I saw him, which was 2-3 times a week and multiple other things.

Damn. Damn, indeed. Damn. This all was great, but I was very unhappy.

I didn't actually like him, and it felt like my heart was going more numb by the minute.

I couldn't stand to do this act anymore. I realized the money isn't worth it in exchange for who I really am. So I cut it off. Then I began falling in love with... What do we say his name is? Patrick. Patrick.

Then I began falling in love with Patrick, 32-year-old male who owns the game I started with.

Patrick was amazing in the beginning, very supportive, actually helped me grow and learn on my own until it all switched. After about three months, he became very hateful and jealous about my past. Even though he knew everything when we got together, he would call me names and slurs and tell me I didn't value or respect myself. So how was he supposed to? Damn. This was such a shock for me because I had finally fallen for this man, or at least the man he was. But of course, I didn't leave when it started happening and it turned into a toxic cycle of him saying mean things and then apologizing the next day, only to do it again the next night.

Flash forward two years, I finally break up with the jerk and have an existential crisis of sorts.

I had just graduated college with no life plan, so I quit all three of my jobs, poker games, social media management, and waitressing. I decided to pack all of my stuff in a U-haul and drive 20 hours across the country to start fresh. Now, I've started a new job, a real one, finally, and I'm making a bit of money, but not near as much as I was before. I lay in bed sometimes and I wonder if it would just be easier to go back to that life. Find another to just give me things and not have to fight so hard on my own to make it. Before, it was my heart that was stopping me, but now it feels like I'll never date again because of what I saw in those poker games. All those men were cheating on their wives and girlfriends. Even the ones who seem so faithful would still flirt with women. It really tainted my views on men and what they do behind closed doors with their buddies. Should I give up on relationships and just find a man to provide or stick to my guns and ride it out? God damn, dude.

That's That is heavy. That is heavy. At 18, to get a taste of a lifestyle of being provided for by getting bought Louis Vuitton bags, 60 pairs of Jordans.

That was my bag. I didn't know there was that many pairs.

60 pairs of Jordans, a grand every time they see her. Two to three times a week.

Three bags a week. Minimum. That's too much.

Between 18 and 22.

And you're still getting paid for running these poker games.

To then start your life over again and work for I have a better term, 9: 00 to 5: 00. Of course, you're going to consider getting a sugar daddy again because you've tasted the sweet soft life.

You've tasted it. You were in there. I had a conversation with someone that we know who is an influencer per se.

Okay. And they were contemplating. She was contemplating doing OwnFans at one point. Okay. And I was like, actually don't.

Because you're going to make more money than you know what to do with. And then it's got to turn back. Yeah, and then you're fucked because you're going to do two strong years of just little bits and bobs, and you're thinking, Oh, this is a nice balance. Then a man's going to say, Here's 10 racks. Shake something now. Yeah, get a glance off. Stop with it. Get a glance off with his Teezy Teezy, start shaking something. Ten racks. You're going to do it. You're going to do it. And then it escalates. And now you can't go back to the vanilla stuff anymore because man are dropping 10 racks, 20 racks, 30 racks, 50 racks and said, Now, What's up? Let's go. What are you saying now? I'm trying to see that squelch you put. What's going on? Money talks. Then after two years, bro, you've ravaged your body for bags, and now your lifestyle is at a point where you physically can't return. You can't pay rent with this implementer money anymore. You're making 200K a month spreading cheeks. There's nothing you can do. That's too much money. That's too much money. There's literally nothing you can do, bro.

So this, again, similar, 18, three bags a week before salary.

Yeah, she's not experienced life enough to be thrown into that deep end.

Yeah, bro. That's rough. And now she's like, I don't even know if I want to be with a man. I just want to sugar Daddy.

Yeah.

Now, figure out, there's good men out there. There are good men out there, of course. You're just...

You're in the wrong surroundings.

You're literally talking about the guys that were doing underground poker. Literally, that was a first time on a school night.

Yeah.

So this is not the men that we're looking for. Yeah, factual. Get out of the basement and find some wholesome men. You got a nice good job now. And also with the Sugar Daddy shit, that will end as well.

Facts.

Because you're young now, you're 22. Facts.

That will end.

When you hit 27, 28, Donny's not dropping you three racks anymore. That's not even old, but like-They want a 22-year-old. If he's looking for a 22-year-old, he ain't going to be paying a 32-year-old four grand a week. He's just going to find a new 22-year-old.

At the same age as his wife. Yeah.

He wants a young thing. Yeah, facts.

Yeah, so just don't bother.

Literally don't bother. You said you're making good money. Yes, it's not what you were making before, but you should have invested that shit in a nicer result. Facts.

That's all I was thinking. You should have saved some.

Clearly, shit.

Yeah, 18, though.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It's hindsight. Hindsight is 2020. I wouldn't save shit either.

Charge the sugar daddy stuff and just get a wholesome man. And if Pia's If P is something that you're into, find a man with P. Just let him be your man. If that's part of your prerequisite that you're suffering like this and you just want to be taken care of, there's good men also that can take care of you.

Sell your fucking Jordans. Yeah. A pair. A shop of Jordans. Sell 45 pairs of Jordans. I'll guarantee you be calm for a year. Yeah.

Damn, bro.

Donnie had 60 pairs, James.

That's a lot of pairs.

I spent P's on Jordans, and I probably own or have owned less than 20.

Maybe just over 20.

Like J4s?

Or Js in general? Jordans.

Ones and fours. I only have ones and fours.

I think we're the same as well. 60? Less than 20, for sure. Maybe like 15.

It's annoying because I want to count it now, but who's got time for that?

Facts.

60 is ridiculous. Ridiculous. Sell some fucking Js. And sell that Louis V bag.

Yeah, that's going to hurt.

It will hurt her.

Yeah, that's going to hurt.