Transcript of It’s Our 2024 Annual Giving Show!

Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. George Campbell, Ramsey personality number 1 best selling author is my co host on this very special edition of the Ramsey Show. Today is your favorite and 1 of our favorite shows to do in the entire year. The entire show is dedicated to giving. We're going to take calls from people who tell us the story of having received or having having given, at some point in their life just to inspire generosity because we teach you to live like no 1 else so that later you can live and

Give like no 1 else.

There we go. Look at that, dude.

I I nailed the pop quiz.

That was it. You never knew the answer. I think

Real nail biter.

Give you the look give you the look, and you just pick it up. That's what

happened. Just thinking I should have brought some tissues because they usually, these stories make my eyes leak.

Yeah. I'm I cry in an Applebee's commercial, so we can be predicted that I'm going to have a problem. But, yeah, the the story some of them are are that way, and some of them are just yeah. That was a good thing. It's okay.

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You jump in. The phone number is 888-825-5225. It's all giving all day or receiving. All generosity all day. Greg is with us to start the show off.

Wichita, Kansas. Hi, Greg. Merry Christmas.

Merry Christmas to you guys.

Absolutely, man. So tell us what your generosity story is.

Yeah. Yeah. I think this will be better than an Applebee's commercial. That was it. And,

It's a low bar, man.

I know. Well, you said it. So, yeah. I'm a youth pastor in Wichita, Kansas. And about 7 years ago, 8 years ago, I was meeting with a guy and discipling him and, just we were getting into a place where we're starting to share personal prayer requests.

And 1 of ours from my family was we had a daughter that was a few years off from going to college. And we started saving, but we had a desire to see them. Both of our kids graduate debt free. And, the plan was we pay 50% after scholarship, and they would pay 50% after scholarship. And, beginning to go, hey, how are they gonna do this?

And so just praying about, our kids taking their mowing business to the next level. My son was mowing 3 3 yards that he could basically put a mower in the back of a minivan and go a few doors down or a neighborhood over. But we're praying about, buying a truck and a trailer and a mower at some point, but the truck was definitely outside it felt outside of our reach. Well, 3, 4 months after, we began to pray, I got contacted by my friend, and he said, hey. My wife and I would love to stop by the church today.

We just have a brief meeting with you. And I was like, hey. I'd love to do that, but I can't today. We have a meeting at the church called Perspectives. And they're like, hey.

We'd love to come. It literally will take, like, 2 minutes. And so it was, like, 9:30, 10 o'clock at night. They took me to the back of the church, and they said, hey. Check that out, and it was a 2013 black Ford f 150 with a trailer and a brand new, John Deere 48 inch, 0 turn mower on the back and

Which cost more than the truck. Oh my gosh. Wow.

Wow. That is wild. Yeah.

That's crazy.

Blew us away. And, God's generosity through them. But then just the way the mowing business took off, we actually had somebody give us 10 yards. They were moving and normally, they might sell it. And they said, hey, we just we want to give these to you and your kids.

And so they started with about 15 yards. And during the next 6 or 7 years, made over a $100,000, and we're able to graduate college debt free both of them.

Wow. I love it. Those kids are gonna turn out.

Yeah. Now I'm wondering, do they need college at this point? There's some budding entrepreneurs right there. Will they stay?

That's awesome, man. Very cool.

They they they loved college and are, you know, still growing. But, yeah, they've they've turned out well. And not only did they graduate college debt free, but they just they worked hard, and I just saw their generosity through this.

That's amazing.

Just mowing free for people and mowing for a pregnancy crisis center and

So they

just they paid it forward like crazy then.

Yeah. And just as cool to see what what God has done in their life as they look back and just can't help but notice this generosity.

Yeah. The fingerprints. I love it. I I gotta tell you, that that is the the best kind. I I my 1 of my favorite.

It's not the best kind overall, but it's 1 of my favorite kinds of giving. And when you can you know, they gave, I don't know, $20,000, we'll call it there. Okay? That turned into hard work and a 100 that plus $1,000. So when you can give Hey, David.

Into something and it causes, you know, something 10 x or 20 x or 5 x to happen because of the giving, because of the generosity, that's a super cool

Well, and that checked off about 4 boxes on the Ramsey plan. We're talking about number 1, generosity. The kids are going to college debt free, and they started and launched this debt free business and grew it. That's entree leadership right there. I mean, you got your start mowing lawns way back in the day, didn't you?

12 years old. Yeah.

Can Can you imagine if someone did that for you? You might have a lawn care business right now. I'm not getting into this.

Dude, I cut so much grass. By the time I was 19, God told me I never had to do it again. I'm just saying. Oh, man. I hate it.

But, yeah, the, that's still it's just a wonderful form of giving where you allow someone, to, you know, take the gift and 10 x it with their work or with theirs, whatever. There's some other way to expand the giving. Yeah. Beyond just a 1 and done kind of thing. And so that that's a beautiful, beautiful picture.

Yeah. You're right. That did check a lot of boxes. 1 of the boxes, teach kids to work.

Oh, that's right.

That was another box.

There was no entitlement here. The kids worked hard. They learned a lot.

They were great kids.

How do you do that? That's magic trick.

They were busting it, number 1. Number 2, they're in agreement that we're gonna pay you know, we're gonna pay for cash for college. Number 3, then they're generous with everything. These are great

kids. Yeah. These kids are not gonna be the Grinch when they grow up. They're gonna remember this for the rest of their life.

Well, and they're never gonna call the show and say, you know, I haven't been able to find a job in 4 months. That that won't that won't be them. They'll never make that call because they'll always be able to do something.

That's right.

Because they're not afraid of that.

And you

know their kids are gonna go to college debt free. And so the ripple effect of this thing is massive.

It's a generational gift, and it's a 0 turn John Deere. Who knew? I like it. 2 of Dave's favorite things? I'm telling you, man.

That's an expensive tractor. That was a nice gift. Nice gift. You paint green on them, they go up a lot. That's that's a pretty big deal.

So good stuff. Very cool. It's the annual giving show here on the Ramsey Show.

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It's our annual It's our annual giving show here on the Ramsey Show. George Campbell, Ramsey personality, number 1 best selling author of the book Breaking Free from Broke. He's my cohost today as we take your calls on your stories of generosity, either receiving or giving. And, we're we're fired up about that. Interesting thing, the folks at Every Dollar, I just talked to our team over there, our our budgeting app is 1 of the largest, best run, best budgeting apps in the world.

It's called Every Dollar. You give Every Dollar a name. You can download it for free and get control of your money, and that way, Christmas won't sneak up on you next year. But 1 of the things we're able to do since we obviously, the app is ours. We're able to look at the app and see what's happening there.

We can tell in the charity or generosity category of the budget that people using every dollar are giving around $50,000,000 a month. 30 to $50,000,000 a month. So that's gonna be, you know, somewhere around a $500,000,000 this year. And, we just started looking at this and started tracking it, this year. And, so as we start tracking it and start encouraging it, we're we're pretty sure that every dollar users, will be easily giving a 1,000,000,000 a year away.

Wow.

And we don't know where it goes. We don't we're not getting in people's business. We don't we don't have categories for it. For it. It's just the people that they have that in their budget, in their charity line, and it's running 30 to $50,000,000 a month right now.

Americans are some of the most generous people in the world. I know we hear about all these things negative in the press or this or that, but and all these things out there. Everybody's got an opinion. But when you actually get into the numbers, the amount that Americans give to each other to causes inside the country and outside the country, there's not another country on the planet that's even close or ever has been in the history of humanity. This is the most generous group of human beings that has ever walked the face of the earth right now.

Now people don't talk about that, but that's the actual data. That's the numbers that we know about generosity nationwide. And just with our app, we can tell, you know, that easily 500,000,000 just on that 1 thing there, easily.

And I bet the people that aren't giving would like to give more, and that's the power of the budget is you got to find the margin to be able to give, to be able to look up and see those opportunities. Yeah. And so that's the best part about it. Well, that's why we put the giving line item first, not every dollar budget.

You're exactly right. And, you know, live like no 1 else. So later, you can live and

give like no 1 else.

There we go.

Got it.

We can get this down, George. Almost like a routine here. Grace is with us in Waco, Texas. Hi, Grace. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

Tell us your generosity story.

Hey. Thank you for having me on. Sure. Yeah. So let's see.

About 8 years ago 2016, my mom tragically passed away. Mhmm. I was just graduated high school. My whole community just, rallied around me. They, you know, supported me.

They, you know, did fundraisers and, got me a pretty big lump sum of money enough so I could buy my first car and my first laptop so I can get to college. It was just absolutely fantastic. So that that in itself is absolutely amazing. Now fast forward 6 years from then, so 2 years ago, me and my we were fiances or my fiancee then. We're married now.

We were trying to set up for our wedding and trying to just pick up extra shifts and really didn't want to go into our marriage with any debt, especially not from our wedding. And so, unfortunately though, we had racked up about a $2,000, give or take a few, and, randomly, 1 of my mom's friends from whenever she was alive, they she messaged me just 1 day randomly and just said, hey. I there's a bank account that is for you that we set up that has the money in it, and, you know, I I don't know why, but they hadn't they hadn't given it to me. I think they had just forgotten or something had happened. Anyways, long story short, it ended up being the exact amount of money that we were in debt, on our mom and my credit card, and so it was just amazing.

People had given money and put in this put it in put it into an account for us, and then 6 years later, it was still there, and it just just shows how good god's grace is, that it's never ending.

Amen. Amen. The timing on that's amazing and the amount matching up. The whole thing. That's Mhmm.

That's the way the story should go right there. Yeah. Mhmm.

Yeah. God's hand. Very precise.

Exactly. Exactly. Very fun. Very fun. And I'm sure that inspires you guys to be keeping your eyes open for generosity as you now that you're married and out there running around doing your own thing.

Right?

Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Yeah. Anytime. Anytime.

We just it's it's really not even a second thought sort of thing. It's just like, if I have this, then somebody else needs it. Absolutely. And we just had our first first child about 7 months ago. So even then, having a child and just seeing how giving people were for her and just for us, and it's just it's amazing how, how kind and generous people can be, and it does.

It has it has moved us in ways that, I don't think people will ever really know.

Right.

We just have to repay repay what we can as often as we can.

There you go. I love it. Way to go, Grace. Good job. Thank you for sharing that.

That's good. Love that 1. Christy Sue is with us in Saint Paul, Minnesota. Hi, Christy Sue. Tell us your generosity story.

Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas. Know how you I don't know how you do this every day. I'm so nervous.

You'll be alright. We've never lost a patient.

Alright. Thank you.

So there's a couple layers to this onion. So, when I was growing up, my family was plagued with addiction, alcoholism, and mental illness, and my mom left when I was 10 years old. And I was with my dad then. My sister and I were with my dad until I was 13, and at that point, again, there is, those layers of addiction, alcoholism, and mental illness. And he brought us to stay with our aunt and uncle for what we thought was going to be the summer and then that, ended up being about 3 years.

And then I went and I was in a couple of different homes after that. And so as you can imagine, I was just at the age of 17, I was just bitter and angry. And, I had a teacher. I ended up in a home economics class, and I had a teacher that just took me under her wing and could see that I was angry and bitter. But I was still a good kid.

I didn't get in trouble or anything like that. And she showed interest and she wanted to come to some of my sporting events and was, like, genuinely invested in me as a person. And now as an adult, understanding that she had 3 other kids that were around my age, so she was juggling all of their activities too, and she still, you know, made that time for me. It was super precious. And, like I said, I didn't really get into trouble, but there was 1 day before prom I got pulled out of class by a prince by the principal, and he gave me an envelope that had nearly $200 in it.

And he said, hey. Have a good time at prom. And I begged him to tell me where this $200 came from, and he he wouldn't do it. And to this day, I'm still very good friends with this teacher. Her name is Nancy, and, she still won't admit that she was behind that $200, but it was

it was But she was. It was Nancy.

Yeah. And, you know, it wasn't just that. It was the seed of compassion

that she

planted in me, and that has just really changed the trajectory of my life. I could have certainly followed the path of my parents and I didn't. I ended up, going to college. I'm in law enforcement now and, you know, what I went through with my parents really helps me be more compassionate to the people that

I deal with on a daily basis.

Yeah. Sure.

And then, you know, her her compassion touched me in such a way that I wanted to give big. So God placed it on my heart in 2021. I donated my kidney to a stranger.

Wow.

And, in that, I called Nancy. My husband and I were kind of keeping it close to our chest because there's a lot of things that can go on with the surgery like that, it getting rescheduled or things like that, but I really felt that I needed to share that with her. And, she said, so you're you're just donating to anybody? And I said, yeah. I didn't know anybody that needs a kidney, so I just was gonna donate to whoever.

And she said, I I know someone that needs a kidney, and it's my best friend from 7th grade. And so, because I knew before the donation, the National Kidney Registry has a program. They do, like, has a program. They do, like, paired donations and things like that. So I was able to give her friend who I'd never met a voucher so that she could then get a kidney.

So I donated in February of 21. Her friend was able to get her kidney in October of 21. And And then because that was so rewarding, May of this last year, I actually donated 63% of my liver to a stranger. So

My goodness, lady. You just keep going. That's amazing. Wow. Well, thank you for sharing that, Christy Sue.

Merry Christmas. I've been doing this show for over 30 years, and some of the saddest calls I've taken are from situations that are completely preventable.

Yeah. And what's so hard is I feel like 1 of those, especially the ones that I'm like, oh, it's terrible air. People that call in and their spouse has passed away suddenly, and they don't have life insurance. When you have to think through how am I gonna pay my bills

How am I gonna be next week?

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On the debt free stage, live right here in the lobby of Ramsey Solutions. 1 of our own Ramsey team, Meg Loney is with us, and, Meg, welcome. Hey. You're here for the generosity time, the the generous the giving show. So, let's before we get into that, you've been with Ramsey, what, about 6 years?

Going on 7 in March.

7 years. Okay. Cool. And tell everybody what you do here.

I am a marketing operations specialist, so I make things work.

Marketing operations specialist. You make things work. What the flip does that mean?

All the back end things that a lot of people don't wanna do, I do.

She's being nice, Dave. It's above our pay grade.

I know. She's a scene she's a senior digital marketing analyst. So, yeah, this is mega smart people. That's what we're trying to say.

She's dumbing it down for us.

Yeah. She's trying to dumb it down for her for her CEO who

I tried.

Yeah. Well, it didn't work. I'm I you you didn't get you didn't get down low enough for me. You gotta get the cookies down on the bottom shelf. Alright.

Tell us your generosity story.

So I have my 4 year old daughter, Tilly, is here with us today. When she was 5 months old, she was diagnosed with epilepsy, and we went through lots of medicines. 10 medicines. None of them stopped the seizures. She was having 3, 4 seizures a day, sometimes more.

Man, that's terrorizing.

It was very scary.

I can't breathe just hearing

it. And then ultimately, we went the surgical route. So they found a small piece of her brain that hadn't fully developed or developed properly. And they were like, hey. We think if we remove this part of her brain that it will stop the seizures.

Woah.

And at that point, we had gotten to she was getting rescue meds, like, once a week. So she was having seizures lasting longer than 5 minutes that required some extra medicine to stop them. So at that point, we were kind of like, we gave it to God. We said, we know that we've been praying for answers and you've presented this 1. So we started down the surgical route.

And at that time, we applied with Make A Wish Middle Tennessee

Mhmm.

Which is just an extraordinary organization. And

Yes. They are.

They worked with us to find, like, the best wish for Tilly to have. And so then she had her surgery in October, October 18th. And then in April of 2024, we were able to go on this amazing trip to Disney World and so much more. So they covered they picked us up in a limo. They covered our flights.

They got us a rental car. They have an amazing resort called Give Kids the World Resort, which is only for Wish families. Wow. It is like a small apartment. There were 2 rooms.

Tilly's room had the bathroom connected to it, and Justin and I actually had to, like, leave to go use the bathroom.

Only the best for Tilly.

Right? She had, like, the owner's suite.

I like it.

They provided meals at the resort, and they have rides and a pool. So it's everything in a resort you could want. And then they give you tickets to Disney World with the fast pass or whatever it's called now. So we got to skip the line. Tilly went on her favorite ride, Slinky Dog Dash, 3 times in a row because they're like, yeah.

Just go back on it. We went to Universal Studios, and she had a blast. And they give you a debit card so that you can get buy meals at the parks. You can buy souvenirs. It was just bigger than we could have ever imagined.

Like, even starting with, like, dreaming with them, it was bigger than we could have even imagined. And it was just an amazing way to kind of cap off that journey. Yeah. So because of today as of today, she is 14 months seizure free.

Yeah. Praise god.

That's amazing. Wow. That's awesome. She's clapping too, which I love.

That's it. She's yeah. Amen. Everybody clap. So, the Make A Wish, Foundation has an incredible reputation of making these dreams come true like this.

They do a great job. Do you did they find out about you or do you apply or how did how did you make the connection on that?

So I actually made the connection when I was in, 1 of the epilepsy groups on Facebook, just a support group, and I saw someone had mentioned that their child was able to get a wish. And I was like, I thought that Make A Wish was only for children that had cancer or had a terminal illness. And I did a little bit more research and I talked to our epileptologist and he was like, yeah, you should definitely apply. So we did So

they have an application process that they use. Okay.

Yes. They have an application process.

Okay. So you did apply and then it takes a few months or whatever and they get back to you or what?

It wasn't even a few months. It was maybe a week or 2. Oh, wow. They just kind of verify everything that's going on. And I know they do like to move quickly so that they can help all of the children that apply, that meet kind of the criteria.

So they are super quick and they meet with you. They came to the hospital when we were in the hospital with Tilly during her first surgery, because we were in there for 9 days for monitoring.

Mhmm.

So they came out and they saw us there, and they took us out for ice cream. They did all sorts of things even leading up to the wish.

Wow. Wow. That's cool. That's cool. I can't think of anything better to do than make sure, a child gets a wish like that.

That's pretty incredible. Very cool.

And we love hearing how she's doing today.

Yeah. Absolutely. And the end of the story is a great 1.

Yeah. It's amazing. And she's a wish ambassador now. So she helps to raise funds now for other kids to have their wishes granted, which we love to be able to then give back to the organization.

Yeah. That's good. Good. And you did today because you just told the world. Yeah.

I would love if all the donations to Make A Wish could just take off because these kids deserve it all. They go through so much more than anyone should have to, let alone being 3, 4, 5, 6.

Amen. And obviously, you were part of this team here during all that time. Right?

I was. And the generosity from Ramsey during all of it was just amazing. There was never a question of, like, oh, you need more time off? You have another doctor's appointment? It was so much grace, and I can't imagine working anywhere else during the time that we went through that.

Wow.

And the team also, that 9 day stay at the hospital, the team also, raised a lot of money. They gave us, like, a $1,000 gift card to be able to buy food so we didn't have to eat hospital for 9 days in our home.

Amen. A worthy cause. Hallelujah. I like that. Good stuff.

Very cool. What a great story through a really painful and scary terrorizing time. I mean, when your kid is sick, it just takes your breath away. That's a whole different thing. It's 1 thing to get sick.

It's a whole another thing to have a kid or a grandkid sick, and that's a a process. And then you just go through the slog of of getting getting past it. And now and now we've got a tiger on her hands. That's awesome.

Oh, yeah.

As it should be. She's

been playing and smiling this whole time, totally ignoring mom just being a rock star on the stage, which is how it should

be. As it should be. Very cool, Meg. Thank you very much. Yeah.

Bring her up. Let everybody see her. Yeah. That's absolutely cool.

Watching on, the Ramsey Network app on YouTube.

Oh, cute. Cute. Cute. Love it. Great outfit for the appearance too.

There we go.

It's a great way from Tilly.

The princess. I love it. Very cool.

And now an ambassador. What a cool title at 4 years old.

Yeah, George. I've never been an ambassador. Have you?

No. But I'd like to be.

I think I think we just were co ambassadors just during the segment.

That's right. Just sharing Tilly's story.

For a moment, we were

I feel like I'm part of it now.

For a moment, we act like we had something to do with it. Yeah. Very cool. Good stuff, Meg. Thank you for sharing that.

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Our annual giving show here on the Ramsey show. Thank you for joining us, America. We're glad you're here. George Campbell, Ramsey personality, is my co host today. John is with us in Orlando.

Hey, John. Tell us your story about generosity, and Merry Christmas to you, sir.

Hey, Dave. Hey, George. Merry Christmas. How are you guys?

Better than we deserve, man.

Awesome. So my story is a bit of a 3 part story, but it goes all the way back when I was 13 years old. I lived in Pennsylvania and New Jersey at the time, and I was in middle school. It was the very start of the school year. I was in art class, and the teacher from across the hall runs in and tells my teacher to turn on the TV.

So he did, and it was the World Trade Center with smoke just spilling out of 1 of the towers. Moments later, we watched the 2nd plane hit the 2nd tower. And as a middle school kid, I certainly did not understand what was even going on. And I raised my hand to my teacher, and I said, that's where my that's where my dad works. That's his office building.

I've been there a 1000000 times. And he gave me a look and that's when I started to realize, like, how bad and serious this was. The the rest of the day and the days after are a bit of a blur, but we've found out we know my dad was outside of the buildings when the plane hit and the both planes hit. And, he called home, and he left a voice message on the machine. And he told us how much he loved us and how how things were really bad.

He then went back in to help evacuate and save people that day, and he, unfortunately, was not able to get out himself or, save himself.

Wow.

So things, of course, were very, very difficult for my family and many, many other families after that. But the giving and generosity that took place for my family and other 911 families was was very, very incredible. And that was the first time I saw giving and generosity at such an extreme level. And as a 13 year old kid, I I knew I wanted to be able to give like that someday. Many years later, I met my wife, my beautiful wife, and we struggled with infertility for many, many, many years.

And then that giving and generosity came back into our lives again with love and support and prayers. And even our company that we worked for paid for all of our infertility treatments. Wow. IUIs, IVF, the works, close to $50. And, again, that giving and generosity blew us away.

And then a miracle happened, and we had a beautiful little girl, our daughter. Her name is Journey. We we named her that because it was a journey to have her, through IVF. And then another miracle happened, and we are currently expecting our second in the new year.

Wow.

Again, yep. We have 1 on the way.

Fun.

And, it just it just blew our minds. And, again, that giving and that generosity that kept coming into our life time and time again when we don't deserve it. And, you know, things are just it it's just amazing. And this summer, coming up in the new year, we are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary, and we're doing a big vow renewal. And we are taking all of our family and all of our friends, Turks and Caicos, and we're paying for the whole thing.

We're doing, you know, the all inclusive resorts and, the whole shebang. And, that's that's our giving generosity story.

Wow. So 24 years ago, you were 13. So you're 37?

36. Yeah.

36. Okay. Wow. Yeah. I mean, because 911 feels emotionally to for most of us, like, that we're alive at that time, like yesterday.

Of course. But it

puts up, you know, 24 years ago, you were a kid. And and now you're a 37 year 36 year old man who's taking people to Turks and Caicos. It's pretty cool, man. Pretty cool.

Thank you. And thanks to your team and the Ramsey plan. That's the way we're able to do it. Yeah. Wow.

Wow. And I would imagine I mean, I have, the Todd Beamer story and several of the other stories around 911. I had friends that were writing the books and doing the stuff and and were involved in getting the stories out on some of the heroes that were involved. And I would imagine you kept learning for years about different things with your dad having gone back in time and time again to get

other people out, it sounds like. Yeah. He was the property manager of World Trade 2, and he knew everyone. He He knew everyone in the building. And he was just that light, that that type of personality.

Everyone would say, hey, Bobby. How are you? Hey. How are you? And we have a bit of a timeline of his morning and step by step and everything that and we know people who he've helped, so people who he saved.

And and even though he didn't make it out, he got a medal from, president Bush couple years after 911, and that was it was very it was very special. Yeah. And we got to go to the White House, and it was it was beautiful.

Yeah. Wow. Wow. That's incredible. Fabulous story.

Thank you, John. Thanks for sharing the details.

Yeah. Generosity in times of good, that's fun. But generosity in times of grief and trauma, that will change you forever.

Shifts everything.

That's legacy.

Yeah. And and, you know, and the thing about that is you don't get to choose your timing. If you're the person doing the giving, you gotta be ready when it happens.

You gotta be ready for spontaneous giving.

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And in honor of our giving show, we're gonna do a giving story instead of a question of the day. So today's giving story comes from Morgan in North Carolina. An older couple came into the small bank where I worked to open a checking account. The husband mentioned he was expecting a wire of over $1,000,000. Immediately, my alarm my alarm bells went off.

Someone had contacted him claiming to be the executor of a cousin's estate with documents and a website to create legitimacy. When I pointed out the flaws in the documents, the customer was devastated. He had no car and had planned to get 1 with his newfound wealth so that he could provide for his family. Every year, I collect money and donate items in my papa's honor. I called a friend who has an auto repair shop and asked him for help.

God was working behind the scenes, and he knew someone who is selling a reliable van. The lady who owned it lowered the price to the exact amount we had to spend. We called the couple to let them know we had a surprise for them, and we're heading to their home. The man and his wife broke down in tears when they saw the van. He had just gotten home after walking in the freezing cold to get a loaf of bread.

I'll never forget squeezing the keys in his hand and saying that he would finally be able to provide for his family again. Wow. Man.

And that's like, off the back end of an almost scam. Yeah. He he was getting scammed, and she puts a stop to it as a, you know, brilliant bank employee looking up and seeing, this is not real. You're getting scammed. Because they were getting ready to do a switch on him is what they were doing.

She turned

it from grift to grace. Oh. There we go. Here's the book. If they're gonna make a movie about it, that title's free.

Yeah. It'd be a Hallmark movie if they use that. But yeah. Yeah. Wow, man.

That's good, George. You you got a you tell me.

I got more. The grift that keeps on giving? No? Alright.

We'll be here all week.

That's a really cool story, though.

That is fun. Wow.

And, again, you have to be able to look up and see the opportunity. When you're so focused on your own situation, your own money problems, it hurts your ability to give.

Well, when you have a car and you didn't have a car, you can go to work. Mhmm. And when you go to work, you can provide for his family. That's what he's crying about. I mean, that's real.

So, I mean, you give somebody a $2,000 car, you change their life. You give somebody a $4,000 car, you change their life. And by the way, you can do 10 of those for only 40,000.

That's cool to think about. Is Put that on your bucket list of generosity.

I mean, cars are like you start giving away cars, you're like Oprah. I mean, come on. Really? I mean, even if they're $2,000 cars or old minivans that come from the mechanic.

Yeah. If your car doesn't work or you don't have 1, a $2,000 car might as well be a $100,000 car.

And this lady felt like Oprah handing the keys over to that, and he's squeezing those keys in his hand going, yes, I've now got a shot. I've got a chance.

She gave him dignity. She gave him hope.

Absolutely. Both. Very cool. Very good. Every year I collect money and donate items in my Papa's honor.

There you go, man.

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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions. It's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. George Campbell Ramsey, personality number 1 best selling author, is my co host today as we do our annual giving show brought to you by Convoy of Hope. They're a faith based organization that partners with local churches and civic groups to provide relief to people affected by disasters and hunger. This is a trustworthy organization.

They've been doing this for 30 years, and, they do a great job. We wanna honor their sponsorship today by having you guys go to their website convoyofhope.org/ramsay. It's an opportunity for you to support their mission, and they'll show up at places like Asheville, North Carolina, where they were some of the first on the ground, and they'll be some of the last on the ground because they're still there after the TV cameras left. I met Hal, the, founder of Convoy For Hope, a couple of years back at a an event, and he and I got to spend some time together, had an instant connection because he spends his whole life serving people that are struggling in 1 way or another and has devoted what is now, 100 of 1,000,000 of dollars of donations annually of food and all kinds of things all over the world. And, so today, we've got Ed Garvin with us.

Ed is the vice senior vice president, chief partnership officer at Convoy of Hope. And, Ed's a former pastor, joined Convoy of Hope. Matter of fact, Ed and I had spent some time together. We were did an event at his old church down in Orlando at Calvary 1 time. So welcome, Ed.

Good to have you.

Well, it's an honor to be with you today.

Good to have you, sir. So, and we're honored to have Convoy of Hope as a part of our giving show. It fits in just perfectly because when those big trucks roll in, when people are hurting, they start smiling because they know help is on the way. They know they're getting ready to be some food, getting ready to be some water, getting ready to be some chainsaws on the ground or whatever is needed. So very cool stuff.

So talk about how Hal began this 30 years ago and how this thing has evolved because the scale is enormous today. And, you know, this this evolution over 30 years, what are you guys most proud of there?

Yeah. I think of of everything that convoy of hope does, the the fact that we bring lasting change and and move people from desperation to resiliency. That that really is the hallmark of Convoy of Hope's missional footprint.

Right. And in the old days they just started out and it was the the first thing they did was what when Hal first started it.

Yeah. So Convu Hope started in 1994. It actually it was the outgrowth of, how his background is in is in journalism. And he was asked to go to Calcutta, India to, to go straight a book for, some missionaries that were based in Calcutta. And while he was there, he was asked as part of the book to interview mother Teresa.

Woah. Yeah. And so while he's interviewing mother Teresa, she, as 1 would expect, she turns the tables and looks at him and says, young man, what are you doing to respond to the needs of the poor and suffering?

Whew. Just get called out by mother Teresa. That that'll do it.

Mic drop. Well, and in that moment you might think about lying, but

I don't think

we should Mother Teresa.

Yeah. And so Hal was honest and he said, I'm really not doing much of anything. And she looked at him and said, young man, everyone can do something. Just do the next kind thing. And and as a young man, this shook him.

He he took 30 days when he got back to the United States going to some of the major cities in America and and seeing the plight of the poor and suffering, and and out of that, emptied his bank account and started distributing food to the micro workers in California, where he lived at the time. And out of that, Convoy of Hope was born. And now some 30 years later, Convoy of Hope last year alone helped more than 37,000,000 people.

That scale. Yeah. All because Mother Teresa asks a pointed question and that begins the journey. And, so what are some of the different areas you guys have that our listeners can jump in and support? What are the some things they would where they would see you and know you're there?

Yeah. 1 of the things I love about Convay of Hope is that it does have a neighbor's donation strategy. And so we're we're involved all across America. We 1 of the big things that we do is we do disaster relief. We have responded to right at a 100 disasters already this year.

That what that looks like, an example would be, Asheville, North Carolina, that area responding to hurricane Helene. Convoy of Hope has delivered more than 200 semi loads of relief supplies into that devastated area. We are the the the missional footprint of Convoy of Hope reaches around the world. We're currently feeding right at 600,000 children. We do that every school day.

We have more than 40,000 women and girls that are in our women's empowerment program. Globally, we're training more than 35,000 farmers. And so, Convoy of Hope does everything from from children's feeding to coming alongside, rural churches in America and, helping people move from poverty to that place of resiliency.

So it's not necessarily just a a triage to stop the bleeding, but you also come along and help them completely heal so the poverty is in the rearview mirror. You can't have a sustainable programs in these situations. That's important. So we look at, in the Ramsey Foundation, 1 of the things we look at when we're doing giving to organizations, we look at their operations cost and how much is actually going to the need. And you guys are, man, the numbers are you're only doing about 10% for operations.

Everything else, 90% is going out the door to serve the the needy and serve the distressed. How do you guys keep your ops so low?

Yeah. So, so we're, we're blessed by having, an amazing volunteer army, 136,000 volunteers last year, which allowed us like our overhead rate last year was 8.4 percent and we'll probably be somewhere in that area again this year. But, having exceptional partners and an army of volunteers really allows us to make the difference.

That's impressive. So I wanna speak to the person out there who wants to give They're they may, you know, go, I don't know if this is trustworthy organization. How do you get someone who has not given to go, alright, I'm gonna jump into this cause? What is this target demo there? What gets them to give?

Well, you know, when we think about our when we think about our giving, when we think about what we're doing philanthropically, we we really do want to make sure that we're operating with wisdom. And so my encouragement would be whether it's Convay of Hope or any other organization, make sure that you do the homework. And and and make sure that you dig beneath the surface. And 1 of the things that I love I was a so I was a donor to Convoy of Hope for 15 years before I joined the organization on the team. And 1 of the things I love about Convoy of Hope is it's actually more impressive even from the inside than it was from the outside.

And, and if if you look if you look at, the various accountability organizations, you're gonna find that consistently convoy of hope, that we get the highest of marks.

Very good. Good stuff. Ed Garvin, the, senior vice president, chief partnership officer at Convoy of Hope, he spent 22 years of his life serving as a lead pastor. Now he's serving this organization as they serve, distressed and needy and hungry all around the world and in your backyard. They're our sponsor for our annual giving show today.

First time we've ever had a sponsor in 30 years of this particular show. So it and it made sense to have Convoy be that. So we're honored to have you guys along partnering with us, and honored to let our audience know about you guys. Yeah. Thanks thanks for dropping by, Ed.

It was a joy. Merry Christmas.

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George Campbell Ramsay personality is my co host today. This is our annual giving show where we take calls from you to tell your generosity stories where you are receiving or giving generosity, and, do that to inspire everyone out there and and remind everyone out there there's a lot of good human beings walking this planet. They're everywhere. Brought to you by Convoy of Hope today. The phone number here, triple 8-825-5225.

Jocelyn is in Knoxville. Hi, Jocelyn. Merry Christmas.

Hi. Hi, Dave. Hi, George. Thank you for having me on.

Sure. Tell us your generosity story.

I would love to. So just a quick backstory. My grandfather's best friend through school, once he graduated and got married, him and his wife needed somewhere to stay. So my great grandparents let them rent a cabin that they had in Gatlinburg for a couple years. But when they went to move out, my great grandparents then gifted them all that rent money that they had paid just as a a gift to jump start to life.

So fast forward, 50 plus years, my grandma is randomly like, hey. I want you to go out to eat and meet somebody. So my family and I, we got to eat. And I walk up and I meet this older man. He's in his mid eighties.

And we sit down and he starts talking about how him and my grandpa were best friends. My grandpa had passed since then. And he's telling me all these stories that they shared, and he ended with, in his honor and because of the friendship they had, he would like to send me to school. So I got to choose any college I wanted to go to. He would pay for my yes.

He would pay for my tuition, my housing, and also wanted to gift an allowance because he did not want me to work, to concentrate on school. And the only requirements he had was that I keep above a 3 0 and that I would meet with him after every semester. And so that's what I would do. I would drive to his house. I'd pick him up.

We would go eat. We would talk about everything. He would he would we would talk about my grades, how everything was going. And in 2016, I graduated completely debt free from college. And I would like to add, because he did that for me years later, now my brother is about to graduate in May from college with his engineering degree.

And after all his, my my parents will actually have put him through school with

the

help of his what he had got from school as well. So he will graduate debt free.

Wow.

So all because of what my great grandparents did. Now 50 plus years later, we've my brother and I have both it came around to us. So

Wow.

The ripple effect of that is pretty cool.

Yeah.

Yeah. How do you even choose? When the world is your oyster, what college did you end up going to? What did you study?

I actually I went to ETSU, and I got my bachelor's in mass communication. So public relations and advertising is what my concentration was.

From East Tennessee State?

Yes, sir.

Yeah. Okay. Wow. So that was near home, of course, since you're in Knoxville. Right?

It was. Yeah. It was. Yeah.

Okay. Very cool. Very cool. That's neat. So I'm thinking so this guy's 85, and he was 20

So

when they were renting the cabin in Gatlinburg and got the money back from your great grandparents, and he was friends with your grandfather. I got that right. Yes.

And I yes. And I never got to meet my grandfather. He he passed when my dad was actually young. So I believe him and my grandma actually lost the connection there at some point, and they ran into each other randomly and started talking. And that sparked their conversation on, well, do you have grandkids?

And that's how

I met him. Grandmother even know the Gatlinburg story before they bumped into each other?

No. She knew she knew of him. They were best friends, and and she knew him. But as far as knowing that rent story, I'm not really sure if she knew that beforehand or not.

Wow. He was waiting a long time for some payback, and he got the idea talking to grandma and went, I know exactly what

you're doing.

Like this guy. This is class.

Yeah. This is very well done.

Since since this has happened, he did he did pass in 2020, but he has a special place in my heart. He really did change my life. And the ripple effect to that, he he really did make a difference. Man,

that's pretty serious. That is so cool. I love this story because it took so long to unfold.

Yeah. And then my grandparents just has good faith, and, he was a great friend. They did that, and here I am.

Yeah. I

so it was it was something that I will never forget. And, you know, I knew it was a big deal when I was young in my twenties. But as I get older, you know, that those acts of kindness, they mean more and more as you get older.

Mhmm.

You realize how much of a deal that was.

Oh, man. Well, he took that in his heart and for 40 years or whatever, 50 years, you know, he he's carrying carrying it around. I mean, 25 60 years from twenties to eighties.

You're right.

You know? And and then 60 years later has a chance to bring it back around. That's pretty stinking incredible right there. I love that.

I like the long tail on that.

Yeah. Amen. Carla is in Nashville. Merry Christmas. Carla, tell us your generosity story.

Merry Christmas, Dave and George. Thanks for having me on.

Sure.

In January of 2021, our 13 year old son, Brett, was diagnosed with leukemia. And the day that he was diagnosed, we were told he might not make it through the night.

Woah.

Yes. His white blood cell count was 865,000, which normal is between, like, 4,011,000.

Woah.

So they basically described his blood being like sludge, so it was causing, you know, problems with every organ. He spent 19 days in the pediatric ICU at Le Bonheur in Memphis, and then a week of that, he was in a coma. So at 1 point during that, they had they called family in to say goodbye, and the staff was just surprised. Every day, he just kept making it. And so, we had thousands of people that were following.

We had a Facebook page, Brave Like Brett, where people were going to check for updates, and we had people praying for Brett from all over the United States and from over 40 countries.

Wow.

So after that first 19 days in the ICU, he was transferred over. It this is 5 minutes away, but it took that long to get him stable enough, to be able to transfer to St. Jude where he spent the next 300 days. And so when he got there, he couldn't hold his head up. He could barely wiggle his toes.

He couldn't remember, you know, what had happened 30 seconds before, which, honestly, at times was a blessing that he couldn't remember some of those things going on. He just faced overwhelming odds over and over for the next, you know, 11 months while we were there. He had a brain bleed, had lost most of his vision. He had multiple relapses with his cancer. And in August of that year, he received a bone marrow transplant, and his brother was the donor.

His brother, Bond, was a 100% match. And so that was a huge blessing. And we were able to go home in December of that year. So his doctors that were with him from the beginning from the very beginning called him a miracle. And they tears would roll down their face, you know, and they would see him coming back for follow ups.

They had never really even seen him walk, you know, at the time that they had had him. And so Brett is currently he's 17. He's 3 years post transplant. We have moved to Nashville. He is legally blind now, continues to have the short term memory loss challenges, has some mobility deficits, but he's attending high school full time.

He's involved in church, and best bet he's at school. So he is currently cancer free.

Wow.

There this all happened during COVID, so we weren't allowed any visitors. So there were so many people though that were so generous during that time. And so, I mean, we had our next door neighbor mowed our yard for an entire year, just without anyone asking. Just did it. My husband and I were both coaches.

Referees would just sign over their checks, you know, at our ball games. Sometimes they would do that.

So all your financial needs were just miraculously covered by community.

We had lots of help

from lots of different people for sure. That's special.

So glad he's doing so well. That's pretty cool. Miracle comeback. I love it. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Merry Christmas.

So tell us your generosity story.

Okay. Well, first, I just wanna say my name is Landry Johnson. I'm a sophomore at the University of Oklahoma, and now I'm gonna just give a little backstory. So when I was 15, my father, Noah Orlando Johnson, passed away to suicide very abruptly. During this time, I was 15, and my older brother was 17.

Wow.

Obviously, we're getting ready to go off to college, and it was definitely just a lot going on. Not only did my father take his own life, Before taking his life, he shot my stepmom 6 times.

Oh my god.

And just during this time, it was very hard financially, mentally, in every single way.

Trauma.

But Yeah. Yeah. It was a lot going on all at once, especially for a 15 year old girl. We were also traveling back to and from Oklahoma to Texas to see my stepmom while she was in the hospital. We were definitely very much there for her a lot of it.

But, obviously, hospital bills and all the things like that was it was a lot. And then we found out my dad didn't have life insurance. He also didn't have a will of any sort, which just left me and my brother and my stepmom just in a very hard place because my brother, Christopher, and I were both getting ready to go off to college, and we didn't really have those funds set up because we weren't expecting this to just happen. No 1 was expecting him to just do what he did. So my brother and I immediately just started looking for scholarships and things like that once we got our heads in the right space.

My brother is now at Texas State, and I'm at, obviously, the University of Oklahoma. But during our research, we found a website called Life Happens. And through this website, it's a it has a 100 different scholarships for kids who have lost parents that didn't have life insurance. And 1 of those companies is called Zander Insurance, which is the company that so gratefully and graciously gave me my scholarship. And the scholarship that I got with them, I get it every year, so it's reoccurring.

And it's actually the scholarship that puts me to where I need to be so I don't have to take out any student loans, and I'm debt free from college because of this scholarship. Wow. Truly just a blessing. Yeah. So not only has it opened doors for education, community, leading people, it's put me in a place where my situation as losing my father isn't going to define my future based off that.

Amen. Which is really amazing. You're amazing. Wow.

Thank you.

You come through that trauma and you got a head on your shoulders like this and you're a sophomore in college. You're impressive. I'm I'm proud of your good work.

Xander chose well.

Yes. They did.

Yeah. They're awesome.

Yeah. So what are you studying?

I'm studying healthcare administration with a minor in marketing.

I bet. Yeah. That's perfect. Very good. Very cool.

And you're extremely well spoken, young lady. I'm proud of you. You just came on in front of millions of people and handled that like a pro.

Thank you.

I appreciate that.

And wishing you the best with the rest of college, and, I I forgive my ignorance. I didn't know Zander did that. So that's a really cool program they have.

I knew they did a lot of generosity things, and they have all kinds of different things they do in giving in, that we have participated in. I was not aware of that 1.

That's pretty cool.

That's very interesting. So Jeff

Zander about that next time you guys hang out.

Yeah. We'll send him a clip of this. He'll that'll make his eyes leak. That's a good thing. Because I like watching Jeff cry.

It's funny. So, well,

it's cool to see the the other side. Because when you're Zander, you give out the scholarship. You may not hear from them. So it's cool to see the the progress and momentum and

That's pretty amazing.

How she changed your life because of this, going to school debt free.

For those of you not figuring out what we're talking about, Jeff Zander is Zander Insurance, and he's been an advertiser on the show for we've advertised for him for people to, oddly enough, get life insurance. That's where we send you to to get life insurance, and they shop among a bunch of different companies, get you the best deal. Obviously, Landry's dad did not have that, and that's how this all set up. And that's probably why they give to this particular fund, you know, is is a way to, give back, so to speak. And, so they we've endorsed that company for, gosh, 30 almost 30 years.

And, sent sent people there, by the 100 of 1000 over the years, and then he turns around with, some of the profits from that running that organization and does this. So

what a

great generosity story.

Love that.

Well done, Jeff. I'm proud of you, my friend. Well done, Landry. You handled that call like a pro. You, told that story beautifully.

So that I don't I don't know many sophomores in college can do that.

No. That's pro level right there.

Yeah. Well played.

Teaching her well at, University of Oklahoma.

Well played. Danielle is in Grand Junction. Hi, Danielle. Merry Christmas.

Hi. Hi. How are you?

Better than I deserve. Tell us your generosity story.

Okay. So my husband and I are both educators in a small school. And in 2018, there's a theme I would notice today in the show, but unfortunately, we lost 2 students to suicide, and it was 1 of the hardest things as an educator that we've had to go through. And we decided we are on baby step 6, and we decided to go ahead and, take a goal that we had for baby step 7, and we went ahead and started a college scholarship in the name of my brother. His name, was Evan, and, we give we raise money, and we give scholarships to students, at our high school.

And so far to date, since then, we've been able to give 15 scholarships ranging from $750 to, actually, I'll pause real quick and say that, where we get the funds is, we don't I I have an annual fundraiser in the summertime, and the students at this school will help me to put on the fundraiser, and we sell food burritos and salsa, and the community is extremely generous, and so I'll tell people that, you know, the the food cost a certain amount, but they'll tip me like crazy because they know that every dollar that they give to us will go straight to the college scholarship straight to the kids. And, the reason why we wanted to do the scholarship is because the loss was, you know, felt really real to us, and we wanted to have change in the community, but we also knew that we couldn't that we would prefer that this scholarship be more about going to school without loans than mental health, And so our focus is on teaching kids also on how to go to school without any loans.

Love it. Love it. That's well played.

Yes. Well played.

And you

said you've done how many scholarships so far?

We have given out 15 so far, and we've awarded over $64,000 in scholarships.

I love it.

Based off of yeah. It's really it's it's a community. Like, the community is very generous, plus we have some really generous donors. And how the kids are qualified for this scholarship is they have to listen to the borrowed future or watch the documentary, and they have to come up to us and let us know how they're going to school without loans, and so our scholarship renews every year for up to $10,000, and I'm proud to say quite a few of these kids, I know it's made a difference in them going to school. We changed their mindset, and they go to school without any loans, and that makes me very proud, and it's the only positive thing I can say that came from, the losses that we had.

Yeah. Wow. You ought to be proud. I'm proud of you. Listen to this story.

What a great reminder. You don't have to give a lot personally, but Danielle was bold and said, I'm gonna start this thing, and the community, you know, rallied around it and made it happen.

You just gotta raise it up or have a vision.

Exactly.

And, beautifully done. Beautifully done. And tied to it, the whole debt free thing, they get to see George

That's right.

On borrowed future. That's fun. There we go. I wouldn't call it

a feature, but there it is.

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Hey, Frank. Merry Christmas.

Merry Christmas to you and George, Dave. Thanks for taking our call.

Absolutely. Tell us your story about generosity.

Well, Linda and I began overgiving about 7 years ago. We were, in a restaurant, And on the way in, we noticed a van, a couple of people

in the

van, young children. And they stayed out there. We went in. We had our dinner. And they came in just before we finished our dinner.

They finally came in. They talked with the owner and the server. They've been trying to bargain for 2 buffet payments for a meal to feed them 2 and their 3 kids. And so we're in earshot of this, and we heard what was going on. And finally, the owner finally agreed to have the minimum take some stuff for the kids.

But then we went over to the table. As we finished our dinner, we went over to the table, and we wished them Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday. And we told them that we will buy all 5 of their meals. And we told the server that it was going to be on us, so we're going to pay for it. And we then emptied our pockets of whatever cash we had, which is just over $100 or so, and we gave it to that couple.

They they definitely seemed to be, maybe passing through, definitely destitute, and, looking for a need. So we responded.

Absolutely. Well done, sir. Well played. Well played. The good news is they got a full belly, and you got a great story for the rest of your life.

Absolutely. And and that changed our life after that. We we were we had already been millionaires a little bit before that. And we said, you know, we're just not giving enough. We have no children.

There's no 1 for us to leave this to except our nieces and nephews, which we do help on occasion. And we said, we need to just give better, give more, give better, better tipping, better involvement with certain causes, charities and veterans associations because I'm a veteran and we need to boost up the population.

Yeah. Well done, Frank. Well done. I like it. I like it a lot.

You know, and the interesting thing is, folks, Frank's story is, Merry Christmas to you, Frank. Frank's story is, just a reminder. All you gotta do is just lift your eyes up just a little bit and look around the room. There's somebody somewhere in the room. I mean, all the time.

There's you at the gas pump, at the wherever. I mean, you're there's there's

If you just start listening and start looking, you will find so many opportunities to give. It's amazing.

And, you know, where occasionally a $100 makes a big difference. You know? Just a $100. I mean, you got a million. So I

mean, you know Well,

and just the the surprise element of kindness is just so shocking in today's culture that it really does change a person's day, their week, maybe even their year. And here's what's interesting.

The power of giving, what it does is it it reshapes when you give, regardless really of what you give to. But the more personal it is, like Frank's situation or some of these stories we've had, in the last, you know, last couple hours here are just incredible. The, when you give, it reshapes and changes you permanently. You are moving along the spectrum from selfish to selfless. And, generous people are highly attractive because they're they smile more.

It's hard to find someone who's depressed, who's generous. If you're outrageously generous, these are some of the smileiest people you'll run into. It it you know, it's hard to find someone, you know, if you're out landishly generous, it it spills over into your marriage. If you're crazy generous, it spills over into your parenting. You're the 1 that holds the door for someone.

You're the 1 that picks up the groceries when the bag drops out the bottom of it and stuffs rolling all over the parking lot, and you help and stop. That is it reshapes who you are because you become, by definition, other centered rather than self centered. Selfish. And, that's the beautiful thing about these stories is it reveals that someone was looking outside of themselves. George, we've had some great stories written in too.

Pick 1 of them up.

Oh, yeah. This one's from Carl in Knoxville, Tennessee. Here's what he had to say. My wife is vision impaired. Every time we buy tickets for a concert, we always have to buy as close as possible so she can somewhat see the show.

A lot of times, that includes using third party vendors to get the better tickets. The Eagles had a concert at Thompson Bowling Arena in Knoxville, April 1, 2023. We bought a pair of tickets for around $1200. A week or so later, we found a better pair of tickets for $1100. We decided to purchase the second set and turn around and sell the first to recoup our money.

To make a long story short short, we tried for over a month and could not sell our tickets. We drove to Knoxville the night before the concert, and the day of the concert, we decided to eat at 1 of our favorite restaurants in Knoxville, and it was about 3 or 4 hours before showtime, and we still had the 2 extra tickets. That is when my wife and I decided to give the $1200 tickets to our server. She was a grandma and raising her 2 grandkids and a very nice lady. We asked her if she had plans that evening, and she said no.

We then asked her if she liked the Eagles. She said she did, and we asked her if she'd like to go to the concert for free. Woah. It took us about an hour working with her phone and hours to transfer the tickets on Ticketmaster, but we did get it taken care of and even gave her a big tip on top of that to cover her parking. The concert was fantastic, but my wife and I enjoyed blessing her and her husband even more than the concert itself.

It was the first concert she had ever been to, and the Eagles is a great first concert to go. Absolutely. She texted us after the concert and told us she and her husband had a wonderful time and thanked us again. Best $1200 my wife and I have ever spent.

Biggest tip that waitress ever got too.

That's the truth. And I know, Dave, you're a big Eagles fan. And you're and, you know, being a Knoxville, fan, it's all there. This is a very Dave story. If I had to make 1 up

I had nothing to do with the story, but it does yeah. It's all around

me. If I said, Chad GPT, give me a generosity story that Dave will love. It's gonna involve the Eagles and Knoxville.

You didn't do that. That's not a made up

This is a real

AI story. That's a real story. It's just really happened, and I had nothing to do with it, I'll just say. But, yeah, that's pretty incredible. That's fun.

And, you know, it it's interesting again, this whole thing, the formation of character comes out in this. That's pretty stinking cool right there. This 1 is way honey, what happened to work today? I got a $1200 tip in the form of Eagle. That's wild.

And she never did concerts.

That's wild. Yeah. That's very cool. Very cool. Hey, folks.

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So good stuff. Good stuff. Folks, I can't inspire you enough. I can't remind you enough the power of giving. And, what it how it loosens up your view of life, how it changes your peripheral vision, how it changes, the way you walk through this life versus, you know, being so inward focused, you become outward focused.

And it, it just makes you highly attractive. So 1 of the reasons we love to teach on and preach on and encourage generosity any possible way we can. That puts this hour of the Ramsey show in the books.

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Okay. Now, here's a sneak peek of what the new episode is all about, and don't forget to click the link in the show notes to download the app. What's up, Kelsey?

So I've lived with crippling anxiety for as long as I can remember. How do I stop it from constantly coming up in different areas of my life?

What does crippling anxiety mean? Paint me a picture of that. Alright. So you're ready to jump in?

I'm ready to jump in.

So we're gonna check-in with Kelsey 30 days, 60 days, 90 days.

I cannot even function because I am just crying. My mom left us when I was 4.

I truly felt like for

a while I had no family.

She's experiencing things that really hurt a long time ago. Tell me about this boy.

He triggered me a lot. Scared of losing Paul, scared

of doing the wrong thing, scared of not being enough.

It just feels like it would be exhausting to be Kelsey. It is. Whenever somebody's playing whack a mole with their anxiety, when it just keeps moving, that tells me the underlying system's not okay.

How do I get my inner child out of this relationship? Because I feel like she's running the show.

1 of 2 people that's supposed to never leave took off.

How is this

how is this burden?

A new burden. That's right. To the 1 person who should carry all of it. Did you ever tell that little girl that it wasn't her fault?

I don't know what to do.

Do you either have to choose to let this guy love you, or you gotta choose to let this guy go?