Transcript of David Pollack: Standards Over Feelings | Re-release

2 big things happened in my life that I always like to share.

50/40/10 by David Pollack.

You can outdo 50% of the people in this world by showing up more, showing up with a good attitude, showing up ready to rock and roll. 40% is the next step in the right direction with the right effort. I'm beating 90% of people, but we got 10% left, Mick.

To you, why standards are important.

Don't worry about how you feel every day because your feelings change every day and What people say change and the task changes, but that doesn't change who you are and what you bring to the table every single time. Will you succeed all the time? No.

I tell people leadership is a 4-letter word, C-A-R-E.

Yeah, I think first of all, if you have influence over one person, you're a leader. So everybody got that crazy person in your family that likes you for no reason. So you're— everybody's a leader. Dude, I've failed all along the way. I mean, I have failed so much more than I have succeeded. And I like to share those because those are real. The 3 H's is hard, it's hot, and it hurts. Welcome to Mick Unplugged, where we ignite potential and fuel purpose. Get ready for raw insights, bold moves, and game-changing conversations.

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Here's Mick.

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another exciting episode of Mick Unplugged. And today we're about to get personal. With a really good friend of mine. We're talking about a ton of accolades. SEC Player of the Year 2 times. We're not talking about one side of the ball. We're talking about Player of the Year 2 times. Defensive Player of the Year 1 time. All-American 2 times, 3 times. You name it, he is that guy. Number 1 or first-round draft pick. But what's more important to me, he's a man of God, he's an amazing father, and he's an amazing husband. And to me, that solidifies the man of who he is. Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor to bring my friend Mr. David Pollack on to Mick Unplugged. David, how you doing, brother?

Mick, way to sell me, dog. Golly, I'm not worth a million bucks, but I feel like it right now.

Hey, you know that $5 you sent me? It goes a long way, bro. $5 still goes a long way in my world.

I appreciate it. Thanks for having me on.

Man, I'm honored to have you here. You know, I've got a connection to Georgia. One of my uncles played football at Georgia in the early to mid-'80s, was the running back like right after Herschel. So shout out to my Uncle Tron because I'm a Bulldog first, right? So growing up— Tar Heel second. Tar Heel second, absolutely. All I knew was Georgia, right? So me and my family, we're talking my Uncle Wayne and my Uncle Randy, my cousins Torrence. I gotta give everybody their shout out now because they'll kill me if I have David Pollack on and I don't talk about Torrance and Randy Jr. and Dexter. So I did my job. Now, David, it's about you.

Covered, covered. Now I guess I'll do mine now.

Yes, sir. But David, man, like, we can go so many places. You have an amazing journey, an amazing story. But for me, it all starts with you being that man of God first. And I would love for you to just talk about Not necessarily your spiritual journey, but that moment that you knew, God's my everything. Yeah.

I didn't grow up with it at all in the household. And I had 2 great parents, Mama and Daddy, Kelly and Norm. And they did everything for me, loved me, supported my dreams like crazy. But church just wasn't something we did. And 2 events happened, 2 big things happened in my life that I always like to share. One, it started with an invite. And I think that's what we all have the ability to do. My neighbor across the street, he was like, hey, man, we're going to the church. And I was like, yeah, okay. And he's like, we're having this lock-in. I was like, double out? Church? And you're going to lock me in the church? I'm out, bro. No way. And then he said, this is what got me, Mick. He said, we play sports and stay up all night. In right now. Punch that ticket. And I was like, I get to stay up all night and do that? So that's the first time I'd ever heard about God. I never heard about God really in my life. And I'm sure there were examples of people that tried, but I wasn't ready for it.

And God put this moment in front of me. So a simple invite got me in the door. And then I had a teacher named Mark Watson who was my physics teacher. And Mark was so chill and so even, calm, cool, nice. And he had a Jesus sticker on his computer, and he played praise and worship music at a public school in between classes.

Wow.

And I'll never forget, man, I had the good ability to annoy just about anyone. And I had so much energy and I was all over the place. And Mark was just like, oh, it's okay, chill. And just had a really different spirit about him that I was like, this dude's different, man. So I tell people all the time, it started with an invitation and then a life worth emulating, a dude that was living out the gospel that was so crazy and so different and unique that I said, that's different, I want that. And then when you spin it forward, going into the summer, so that was my junior year. That summer we had to read 200 pages for outside reading for English. And I went to my English teacher and I said, hey, I'd like to pick the Bible. And she was like, why? And I was like, I don't know. I just, I want to read it. And she was like, well, I can't because I can't sit down with you. I don't know it. I said, Mr. Watson can. And I went to Mr. Watson and he said, absolutely. And Mr. Watson sat down with me.

He volunteered his time and he literally sat down and he started to take me through Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. And he was laying out the Gospels for me.

Wow.

And I was like, holy cow, wait a minute, like, go back. What? Like, okay, Matthew did this, and this is Mark, this is Luke, this is John, different accounts of Jesus. And who is Jesus? And started to learn, man, and just fire questions. And Mark was so patient and so kind and just started to answer my questions. And then from that point on, man, my life was absolutely never the same. Accepted Christ, started going to church, and then got to go to the University of Georgia where God put more people in my life to continue my development.

I love that, man. And to me, that's what it's about, right? It's how do we bring others, which you talked about it starting with the invite, but then how do we go deeper and then begin to share that knowledge, that love, that joy with others? And I commend you for that. It's one of the things that I've always loved about David Pollack. You know, again, I talked about the accolades in the opener. Amazing. You are— my Uncle Tron's going to kill me— my favorite Bulldog player of all time, just like many others, right? I'm not the only one. But you are my favorite Bulldog player of all time.

That's dope.

But before I got to know you personally, always understood your journey, always heard stories about you. And that's just who you are. And that's what I love the most, man, is that you are genuinely you, but you are passionate about your love for Christ. You're not ashamed of it. And, and you know where I'm going with this, because there are a lot of people that behind closed doors, they're there, but then they feel like certain opportunities they need to hold back or You know, certain things you've got to hold back. I love the fact that you're always David Pollack, brother.

And I get that, Mick. I understand why. And I'll be honest, like, I've also failed in some opportunities that I think I could have done better with sharing my faith and being more bold. But like, I remember I got invited to the Playboy Mansion, you know, I was a Playboy All-American as a junior. And I remember I turned it down because that's not like what I wanted to be known for or in alignment with. And I remember like that, that all of a sudden it got— it went crazy. And I had so many opportunities to talk about it. I was like, holy cow. And then I started to to go and to do. But like, again, there's a process, man, that I think when we come to faith, we don't automatically know how to share, you know, our testimony and articulately put certain things. But if we go back to my last story and how I came to faith, everybody can invite somebody to church. Everybody can do that. It's the preacher's job then to deliver the word or bring them to someone that they know. And everybody, the most important witness that we have is living our lives, is living out the gospel.

I don't care if you know scripture inside and out. If you don't treat people with respect and you don't love others, if you don't do those things, nobody's going to go, man, I want to emulate that. Mark Watson, he was so different and so unique and he lived the fruits of the Spirit so much that I'm like, I want more of that in my life. And so we have an awesome opportunity to turn people on, and we have an awesome or a bad opportunity a lot of times to turn people off by the way we live our lives and the way we treat them.

Totally agree, brother. Totally agree. So let's go into some of these accolades, but not the accolades, but more of how you got there. Because these are the words of Mick and Mick only, and because we're not face to face, you can't like slap me or anything. You were not supposed to be there, bro. I'm just gonna be honest, like, you were, you were not supposed to be there. It takes a lot of hard work, a lot of consistency, because I tell people this all the time, especially in the business world. Talent's great.

Right.

But it's going to get you so far. And, you know, people always say hard work outworks talent when talent doesn't show up. And I always say, that's great, but when talent does show up and it's mixed with hard work, you have David Pollack. And to me, that's what it's about, right? Like, you've got the talent and the hard work. And when you and I were face to face, we got to meet, you talked to me about this 50/40/10. And I'm not gonna lie to you, I don't think I've slept since because I've been so invigorated by that. And I know that is your message. And so I'm trying to like contain myself. I've been waiting for this moment to share the world the 50/40/10 because I think that makes you who you are. And I know that there are other people that are like you, again, whether it's sports, whether it's business, whether it's entrepreneurship, that have that same thing and you've given it a label and I love it. So 50/40/10 by David Pollack.

If you're going to be great and you have big dreams and big goals, it's going to come with sacrifice. And like, I had a mindset. Now listen, I don't know, God gave me this. Like, God gave me physicality and a mindset and a work ethic. Like, that was God-given. And then I slowly started to learn to hone it. And I'll never forget when I was in 8th grade watching the World Cup, and it's the one with Brandi Chastain, the famous one when they won gold. And I'll never forget the semifinal game, they're talking on the broadcast and they said the girls stopped drinking carbonation. Because it hurts their conditioning. I'm in 8th grade, Mick. I'm 14 years old. It's the last time I've ever touched a carbonated beverage in my life, because I was like, dude, if I want to get here, I got to give that up. And so I started to learn at a young age, I got to do things that are different. I got to outwork people. And I do it with my daughter, and I love it, because me and my daughter have this little thing where she loves to work, and she's starting to really embrace it.

And I always say, baby girl, I said, we're working in the dark. We're working in the dark. Like, we're working in the dark. Don't worry about anything else. It will come to light. Like, but you just keep working in the dark. And it's kind of our own, you know, little thing that we've been able to do. But 50/40/10, you can outdo 50% of the people in this world by showing up more, showing up with a good attitude, showing up ready to rock and roll. Like, every time you're there, be where your feet are. There is no elevators to the penthouse, bro. We taking the steps. We are taking the steps. We are going to be here and we are going to do it every single day. I don't care about your feelings. I care about where you are. Okay? So there is a standard that we meet. It's standard over feelings. Like, you're going to be here. This is who you are. This is what you are. And I compare that with football. Like, when I walk in, like, at practice, I'm not always going to be 100%. But there's also times that I stepped in Stanford Stadium, Stanford Stadium, where I was 70%.

But that's where I'm at. So I gotta find it, and I gotta give what I got. And so I had to learn that on the practice field by showing up continuously. 40% is the next step. 40% of people, man, you can outthink, you can outprepare, you can outorganize. It's amazing to have a work ethic. That is a great thing. That is not a bad thing. But if we're climbing this mountain feverishly and we're getting to the top, like, I'm gonna get to the top no matter what, and you get to the top and you go, Oh crap, I climbed the wrong mountain. Like, you did a lot of hard work and you grinded, but you're in the wrong spot, right? Like, I went the wrong direction. So getting organized and realizing, like, with the direction I go every single day matters. So watching tape in football was so huge because you build instincts, you build mental reps, you understand the game, you see things faster. So that was a big part of my success was I think I built more reps in my head and more success by thinking the game. And then when I got in it, it was slow.

It was still. It was easy. Now I could be crazy and I could give in the right direction with the right effort. I'm beating 90% of people.

All right.

I'm not a math major. I played defense and I'm not the smartest in the world, but we got 10% left, Mick. And the 10% left is you are left with those people that worked their tail off. You are left with those people that have direction, that have guidance, that use nutrition, diet, and in my field, Whatever it took to get to there. Now it's who's got this, man? Like, you're left with a bunch of dogs. Who's going to eat your heart with a spoon? Like, who's going to stab until— who's going to give in? Who's going to keep fighting? Like, it's going to suck. You're going to lose a lot of battles, but you better get your butt back up and you better get ready to roll because there's another one coming and another one coming. So that's how I define 50/40/10.

Man, so you can't see it, but just like when I was at your house, I have chills, bro. Like, the leader in me connects with that so well on a business level and an entrepreneur level, because that is it. You're going to outwork 50% of the people, right? You can outthink, you can outprepare, you can outorganize 40% of the people. It's that last 10 to me that separates Who really is committed to it? Who can I depend on? And who can I count on? But more importantly, how can I deliver when no one else does? And bro, so the business side of me, that night when I got home, man, if you could see my wall, it is nothing but— I have 50-40-10 everywhere and I circle 10. And when I wake up, this is no lie. When I wake up, I circle the 10. And I say, what's the dog going to do today? What's the dog going to do that no one else is committed?

I can influence the great Mick.

That's—

I mean, that's great. Thank you, brother.

Bro, I love that, man. Like, and I know that there's a big story behind that. There's a big message behind that. And I don't want to tease the world with that yet today. But when David starts going in on that, you're going to feel just like I feel. I'm sure there are listeners and viewers right now that just got cold chills too, because that is literally the most powerful concept I think that I've heard. And if you haven't started it yet, that— there's a book about 50/40/10, brother.

Well, in the works. It's definitely something that's swirling and we're working on. But, you know, it's amazing. Like, we all have different gifts and blessings. And man, I am ADD, and you can tell probably, like, I'm high energy all over the place. And one thing that's been a struggle for me is like, can you get still enough? And can you sit down? And can you do the things that need to get done? I'm really learning that challenge. Like, that's a challenge for me that I've done more of embracing. More reading. Like, that's something that doesn't come natural. Like, I'd rather work and be physical and go do something and be interactive. And, you know, just with my kids, like, circling them up and making intentional time to pray and intentional time to read and intentional time to talk about things and stuff. So, like, that's something for me that's always a a work in progress, that's an area in my life that I got to continue to grow and get better at.

I love it, man. I love it. And I know you're going to do it because of who you are. I want to tackle, no pun intended, one of the things that you said, standards over feelings. I'm a big believer in standards, right? Like, I personally am not into goals as much as I am standards, because to me, you can't set a goal until you have a standard, right? You know, Mike Tomlin, I said this in a previous podcast, one of the things I love most about him, I'm not a Steelers fan, but he said the tradition in Pittsburgh is the standard is the standard. And I immediately connected with that. And I know you being the person that you are truly connect and not only connect, but embody that. So I'd love to talk a little bit about to you why standards are important. And if you have a story around that, that'll be awesome too.

Mike Tomlin, by the way, There are a few guys in professional sports that when they talk, I listen, and he's one of them. I mean, just, he is liquid gold. I mean, that dude is just, in the way he says things, I'm just like, oh yeah, like I'll run through a wall for that. I can't imagine being a player every day and being called out and being held to that standard. But, you know, I saw so much of it, Mick, in my life, and I just, I see so many people, and I started to like see, okay, well, this is a person that wanna work.

Yeah.

And then I would see other people that would come in and I'd be like, all right, they complain all the time, but they work. And then I saw people that came in and they always worked and they didn't talk and they didn't complain. And you, so you're like, what are the keys? Like, how do we bring this together and understand this? And so we started talking with our football team, man. Like, it's nothing that happened today. Nothing that happened yesterday changes where you are right now. And where you are right now is at football. And if you're at football, I need to be my best. If I'm in school, I need to be my best. And I am going to adhere to this standard that whatever I do, I'm going to run the race and I'm going to be consistent and I'm going to do it in a manner in which to get the prize, right? Like, I'm not just here to participate. I'm not here just to show up. There's such a big difference in life in showing up It's just something like showing up and being there, like showing up and being present.

Just like with the football players, being able to tell them when they started their first day this year, when you walk in, you go to your teacher, I'm here to be a leader. I'm gonna sit in the front row. I'm gonna pay attention the whole class. Like I'm setting a standard. Like this is who I am. This is what I am. This is what I'm gonna be. And I think that takes some thought sometimes, and that takes some, I'm gonna run and I'm gonna go. Well, oh, okay. This happens and it kind of knocks me down. Man, this stinks. I'm where I'm at. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Uh-uh. We ain't staying here though. That's not who we are. That's not what we are. When we show up, we show up with excellence. When we show up, we're gonna punch that clock and we're gonna make sure we fit the standard. So, you know, don't worry about how you feel every day because your feelings change every day and what people say change and the task changes, but that doesn't change who you are and what you bring to the table every single time. Will you succeed all the time?

No. But I know you're going to bring your best effort. I know you're going to compete. I know you're going to fight. And I know it's going to be important to you because you have a standard that you're going to actually hold yourself to.

Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So when you got to Georgia, right, you were a fullback. What was the switch to defense? And then what was that initial moment like when it's like, yeah, Dave, we appreciate all this fullback stuff. We need you on the dumb side of the ball.

I like that you put it that way because you're right. So when I got to Georgia, We started conditioning in the summertime, and I went in early so I could condition all through that summer. And Coach Van Gorder was my defensive coordinator, and he was always like, hey, Pollock, come to the dark side. And I'm like, coach, it's Pollock. And he's like, hey, Pollock, come to the dark side. I'm like, all right, forget it. Like, he knows my name. Like, he's calling me that on purpose, obviously. But he was like, he said he watched me in conditioning in the summer, and it just like— he said you were looking and beat— trying to beat everybody. And he was like, I just love the competitiveness. And so Our defensive tackle room gets decimated with injuries. And I played defensive tackle in high school and running back, so I played both. So coach was like, hey man, we need some defensive tackles. And so they throw me at defensive tackle and I started playing defensive tackle and it was awesome. It was great. It was a new challenge. It was hard. There was a lot coming at you fast.

And so I started at fullback, moved to defensive tackle in camp, and then had a pretty decent freshman year. And then before my sophomore year, like, I moved to defensive end. So you're talking about 3 positions in less than a year on campus. And so it was a lot that came at you, but Coach Van Gorder saw me and kind of my attitude, and he was like, I think we can work with that. He was like, he always said like, you're more of a defensive player, like your mindset and your mentality, you need to be over here with us.

Yeah. What he was saying was you're a little crazy, right?

Yeah. That's true.

You tried to be politically correct there. He was saying you're a little crazy, you're a little off.

You gotta be a little crazy to play football. Like, you gotta be a little crazy to like beating people up and banging your head against other people to enjoy it. Like, yeah, yeah, 100%.

Yeah, an amazing career, George. All the accolades that I mentioned aren't even a tenth of all the things that you accomplished at Georgia and being a leader. And that's, again, one of the many things I love about you is that you are a leader as well too. And not only that, but you take pride In being a leader, you take pride in, hey, the buck stops with me, or everyone's counting on me, right? Can you talk about how that shaped your career professionally, outside of sport, and your family as well? Because I think that's something that a lot of people don't spend enough time embodying, is you're a leader and there are people that count on you, and there are moments where it's you. And you've got to rise to the occasion. Again, I'm not just talking sports there. Can you talk a little bit about that?

Yeah, I think, first of all, if you have influence over one person, you're a leader. So everybody got that crazy person in your family that likes you for no reason. So everybody's a leader, okay? And everybody has influence and opportunity to use it. And I would say this, when I was younger, I did it by example, 100%. And I didn't know how to communicate with people. It wasn't a strength of mine. And my definition of how I led was a direct reflection of how I liked to be led and how I responded to how I was led. So I was fire and brimstone, and I was, get your butt to the ball. I didn't use those language because I wasn't a believer when I was younger a lot of times. And so I used a lot worse, but it was by challenging, it was by insults. You know, that was what I thought was leadership. That's what I saw from my coaches. And so that's what I kind of emulated. As I've gotten older, I've really learned the value of understanding who you are leading, because not everybody's going to respond the same way. And it took me till having kids, Mick, to figure that out.

I had a son who was totally different than me. He's my wife's personality to a T. Nothing bothers Nicholas, nothing. And he's just chill, and everything's fine, and it's going to be okay. And I'm like, what is this alien? Sweet baby Jesus, what am I doing? Like, God, what did you give me? And so really, like, coaching kids and 6-year-old kids with football and 7-year-old kids and starting to see the different personalities and really what makes people tick and then pour into them individually. And then you realize, oh man, you can get to know. And now I think more than ever, like, understanding they've got to know you care about them. They have to know you care about them. When they know you care about them, you really have a position of authority with people and you can speak to them. And then nowadays, I think with kids especially, just, they got to know the why. Back in the day, Nick, back in our day, back in your day, Daddy said dig a hole, you freaking dug a hole. Like you went and dug a hole. Yeah. Now, like if I said that to my 16-year-old son, he'd be like, why?

Why am I digging a hole? I'm like, man, I said go dig a hole. You know what I mean? So I think teaching them, first of all, showing up, Being an example, understanding who you're leading, leading with humility, leading with character, and leading with standards over feelings. Like knowing that I got a guy that like, when that dude checks in, man, he's the same. If everything's raised to a 10 right now, he's still the same. If it's at a 1, he's the same. So those are things that I've learned along the way. I wish I'd have learned them when I was younger, and I think I'd have been a lot more effective. But I think God's still teaching me things in my journey of learning how to lead kids to middle schoolers to high school kids to grown-ups.

Yeah, I love that, that parallel that you talked about us growing up. Dad, mom, whoever tells you to go do something, you just go do it. Probably gonna do it wrong, but you're gonna figure it out. And I think our parents expected us to just kind of figure it out right now. And I can say this with my sons, and they'll, they'll laugh at me. I'm not, I'm not talking bad about you, Jay and Cayman, but You tell them to go do something, you get the why, then you get the how. And then it's like a whole bunch of questions. And then they go to YouTube. I'm like, dude, just figure it out. Then they go to YouTube. Look at it, and then just figure it out. But like, it's different, man. And so you're right, as a leader, you have to understand those things. And you hit it on the head. I tell people leadership is a 4-letter word, C-A-R-E. And if you start there, if you start with care, everything manifests the way that it's supposed to be because it's a new era of life. And to me, it's about humans showing humans that you care and then everything else will follow.

But if they don't believe in you, that you care for them, their best interests and their journey, like nothing else will happen.

Nope. They're not going to give you their best.

Nope. Nope. You know, David, I could talk to you forever. I feel like there's a, there's a lot that we haven't uncovered yet. And I don't want to hold your time because I know you are a very busy human being, but I do want to talk about another thing I admire about you is your ability to overcome, right? Because life is never easy. Life never goes the way that we plan it. We can plan out the most amazing tomorrow. And in about 10 minutes, we got to reshift, right? But you've had to do that with a few things, right? So we're talking about football career. We're talking about— how did you say it? What happened at ESPN? You were let go.

Fired.

Say that again.

Fired. My mom, my mama, Nick knows this. My mama would be like, man, you were let go. And I was like, stop. She goes, stop telling people you were fired. I was like, mama, they told me to go away and not come back. So you can spin it however you want, mama. Like fired, let go, whatever. They said, go away. We don't want you anymore.

So yeah, unfortunately, Nick, I got a lot of experience with that.

And I think, I think sometimes people, just like you introduced You introduced me with so many accolades and things that I've been successful at. Dude, I've failed all along the way. I mean, I have failed so much more than I have succeeded. And I like to share those because those are real. And I think God has used every single one of them. Like, you don't have the success without the failure. And so for us, learning how to deal with failure, learning how to deal with adversity is huge. Kid, teenager, adult, senior citizen, like, we have to understand. If you're not in a storm, if you're not in adversity, it's coming. It's not if, it's when. And so, you know, for me, I got it in high school. When I was a sophomore in high school, I didn't play varsity. I didn't play JV because I was kind of stuck between 2 worlds. I had a dream. I told you, Mick, I had a dream of playing in the NFL. I was giving up all these things, got frustrated, got ticked off in a moment, and I quit. Just dropped— I quit. And guess what? I had a coach.

Eddie Shaddix, who believed in me and saw something in me before I did. And he's like, hey man, just come work out. We'll do some curls and we'll get pretty for the girls. I'm like, deal, cool, I'm in. And then all of a sudden I grow, and then all of a sudden I get stronger and stronger and stronger. And now football's really fun when you're the hammer, not the nail. And so, like, he believed in me, but I had to face that adversity to learn to work and to grow and to get bigger and stronger. And then it was— I knew what it was like to succeed. But I also knew what it was like to fail. And same thing at Georgia, switching 3 positions in 3 years, or in 1 year, 1 calendar year. I think nowadays it's easy, and some of us are like, no, I'm this. I think my goal is this. I think I'm that. You have no clue. There are going to be things that change along the way. Are you willing to see it, adapt and adjust, and be great where you're at? If you're in a job right now and your job is to get coffee, Do it to the best of your ability.

Like, crush it. Do it to a point where somebody looks at you in the company like, man, they do that with joy. They do that with something a little bit different, man. Like, that's how we've got to approach those things. Because when we hit that adversity, when it comes to you, how do I respond? What does my response look like? Because here's what I've learned from adversity. Every single daggum time. 17th pick in the NFL draft. I'm making my NFL dream come true that I dreamed about since I was 6 years old. I'm doing it, like, exactly what I wanted to do. One play, bam, broken neck.

Yeah.

Done. Gone. Like, you know what I learned in that one moment? I learned that that one moment led to 2 years of rehab and 2 years of recovery and a lot of grind. And I went from a healthy body that was strong as crud, that could do anything I wanted to do, to a guy that could do very little with a halo in my skull. And couldn't lift weights. I benched 455 in college. When I got out of my neck brace and I got cleared to lift, I benched 135 twice. And it looked like this, shaking like this. What's inside of you? What's next? Am I going to quit? Am I going to roll over? No. Every day, what can I do today to get me better? What are my goals today? And really, that's when it started developing for me, for every day counts. That was my mantra. And I started texting myself the night before, and I started just saying, I will not go to bed without these 3 things done. Like, this is going to get done. And that was— most of those, by the way, then were physical, because I was trying to get my body back to some semblance of normalcy.

And then it turned into spiritual, and then it turned into family-related. As simple as like, hey, I'm going to tell my baby girl today 3 times that I love her. And it's a small goal, but I had to start developing those systems and those small goals so I could get wins. So now, man, Man, here's the thing. We serve a God that is so big and so great, and a God that tells us in the scripture that he is for us. He didn't say he's for us when you're getting a raise, or he's for us when things are going the way you want them to go. He's for us all the time. He wants good things for us. And so when I go through a challenge, man, and something's hard, good. What is God going to teach me in this moment? There's something that I need to learn in this moment. There's something that's coming my way. My NFL career, gone. College GameDay, fantastic. This is awesome. Got to travel the country and go see all the different schools and got to do things that I never thought I would get to do. I got to do that.

Gone. I'm not crying because it's over. No, I'm smiling because it happened. I'm so thankful that that happened. I got to do that. I can't imagine what God has for me next. Whatever it is, I know it's good. And all those situations, man, I can take all those different individual adversity moments. And I can tell you, like with my neck, and I'll close with that, like with my neck, I'm a better dad right now because I broke my neck. I'm a better husband because I broke my neck. I'm a better friend. I'm a better son. Like, because God said, slow down, be still. And my relationship with God was one way when I had time. Like, I'll talk to you. Yeah, yeah. I got a little bit of time between team meetings. I got a little bit of time. I'm running here, running there. I got a little bit of time to talk to you. It's really hard to hear from God when you don't sit still and listen to him.

Yeah.

Like, a relationship requires talking back and forth and communication back and forth. Show me your girlfriend that you have when you don't communicate with her. I would argue they don't exist. It doesn't happen. So I really The Bible says, be still and know that I am God. And I got to do that in those situations. And then God's taken me to the next step and the next step and the next step and teaching me all these different things about me, about my family, those in my life who are in my life for the right reasons. And it's really gotten me ready to be a dad, man, and to be able to handle some of those moments with my kids with adversity and to show them and to teach them what it looks like and how we've used those things in a positive way and how God brings those trials. and those tribulations for us to grow, for us to learn, and to depend on Him. And He will get us through every single situation.

Brother, I could do this all day. I could literally be inspired and moved by David Pollack all day. So I just want to thank you, number one, for taking the time. But like I said earlier, man, just thank you for being the dude that you are.

Well, thank you, man, for having me on. Thank you for— you drove all the way to me, you know, not too long ago. Spent some time with me, helping me on this speaking stuff. So I'm getting my organized Nick plan on, okay? Like, Nick has a schedule, and he's helping the ADD dude kind of, all right, let's streamline this. Let's think about this, think about this. So I appreciate you, big dog, and I love the message, man. Just keep— we're keeping this, spreading the good news, man. The good news of Jesus, the good news of leadership, and plugging in and helping our communities get better.

Amen to that. Amen to that. And before we wrap up, What do you have coming up next? I know you're, you're getting out on the speaker circuit so people can get access to you, but where can people find you, follow you, and what do you have going on?

Yeah, man, we got a good bit going on right now. It's crazy what, what God does again with different turns. I wrote a children's book. Like, we already talked about the dumb people are on defense, so dumb people don't write. So sat down and got still and wrote a children's book about the whole message you just heard, by the way. It was very much in that vein. Like, life is hard. That's what I use in the book, the 3 H's. It's hard, it's hot, and it hurts. Football does. Life does. And so, it's the won't quit kid. And so, it's literally a story of perseverance and teaching parents, like, how do we help them when they say it's hard? Like, structure the next day and let's go attack today and let's build these little goals. So, it's kind of very similar to my lifestyle, but the speaking, you know, you can hit me on any of my social stuff with X or with Instagram or whatever they are, whatever those fun socials are. And I have my website now, davidpollack.com. And the speaking is fun, Mick. You know, I've talked to you about that. And I just love being able to share my message and my failures and adversity and successes and some of those ways to get in touch with people because I love being around them.

So I think no matter what I do, whether it's coaching and commentating or whatever, speaking is something that will always be a big part of my life.

You got it, man. I'll make sure we have links to all of that in the description and show notes. And for all the, the organizations, the nonprofits, your next speaker needs to be David Pollack. I put my stamp on that for sure. Like I said, I know a lot of you listening and watching have got chills through various moments of this conversation. That is how he leaves every audience, and he leaves you on fire with action plans. So he's not just going to talk to you about a story. He's gonna give you things that you can start doing that moment to have a better life, to have better structure, to create standards. And David, that's why I love you, brother. So thank you.

Appreciate you, my man. Thank you so much for having me on. And thanks to y'all for all your help as well.

You got it. And for all the listeners and viewers, remember, your because is your superpower. Go unleash it.

Unplugged. Keep pushing your limits, embracing your purpose, and chasing greatness. Until next time, stay unstoppable.