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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

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Confidence Classic: Why Growth Starts When Comfort Ends with Heather

What if the hardest seasons of your life are actually preparing you for something greater? In this episode, I share why growth requires stepping into uncertainty, taking chances before you feel ready, and the lessons I learned about forgiveness, faith, and resilience. I break down the mindset shifts that helped me move through getting fired, reinventing myself, surrendering control, and learning to trust that God’s plan was bigger than anything I could have forced on my own. Get ready to embrace these moments and keep growing through every challenge. In This Episode You Will Learn Why growth only happens when you move through UNCERTAINTY. The lesson I learned after getting FIRED and rebuilding my life from scratch. Why taking more SHOTS creates more opportunities for success. How to stop letting rejection define your future. How STORYTELLING can help people connect with your mission and message. Why surrendering control creates more peace and momentum. How FORGIVENESS frees you more than the person you forgive. The shark attack story about courage, healing, and overcoming fear. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Head to quince.com/confidence for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Zazzle - Save 25% on your first order at zazzle.com. Fora Travel - Become a Fora Advisor today at foratravel.com/CONFIDENCE. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

37:35 92 views Published about 1 month ago

Confidence Classic: You’re Meant for More Than What’s Holding You Back with Heather!

Have you ever looked back at a painful moment in your life and realized it was redirecting you toward something bigger? In this episode, I share the setbacks, heartbreaks, career disappointments, and pivots that changed my life for the better. I break down why so many stay stuck holding onto situations you’ve already outgrown, how fear keeps us settling for less than we deserve, and why the universe often removes what’s comfortable before revealing what’s possible. I also share the mindset shifts to trust new opportunities and stop resisting change. Get ready to trust the redirection, and let go of what’s keeping you stuck. In This Episode You Will Learn Why painful endings often create space for BETTER beginnings. The relationship heartbreak that launched a whole new chapter of my life. How fear keeps you settling for situations you’ve already OUTGROWN. Why uncertainty is a sign that expansion is happening. The mindset shift to help you stop resisting CHANGE. The question to ask yourself when life doesn’t go according to plan.  Why letting go of mediocre is the fastest way to make room for GREAT. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Head to quince.com/confidence for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Zazzle - Save 25% on your first order at zazzle.com. Fora Travel - Become a Fora Advisor today at foratravel.com/CONFIDENCE. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

32:38 96 views Published about 1 month ago

Confidence Classic: Why Your Faith Must Be Bigger Than Your Fear with Heather

What if the breakthrough you’ve been praying for is already unfolding, but fear is stopping you from seeing it? In this episode, I share the mindset shifts that can help you navigate massive life changes, unexpected opportunities, and moments of total uncertainty. I break down how faith, surrender, and trusting the process opened doors I never could have forced on my own. I also share why protecting your energy matters, how outgrowing relationships can actually be a sign of growth, and why the people you surround yourself with will either elevate your future or keep you stuck in your past. Get ready to rethink fear, embrace uncertainty, and believe bigger for your future because the best is truly yet to come. In This Episode You Will Learn Why FAITH has to become bigger than fear. The DR. PHIL story that changed how I think about fear and growth. What I learned from JOE DISPENZA about energy, possibility, and belief. How SURRENDER can create opportunities you can’t force. Why fear is actually a GREEN LIGHT to move forward. How to stop white-knuckling life and start TRUSTING the process. Why clearing out old relationships creates space for better ones. How protecting your ENERGY changes what you attract. Why the people around you either support your growth or resist it. How small moments and setbacks can lead to massive breakthroughs. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Head to quince.com/confidence for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Fanvue - Visit fanvue.com today and launch your career! Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

43:49 140 views Published about 2 months ago

Confidence Classic: Your Best Life Is Coming with Heather!

Have you ever caught yourself thinking you’re behind, not good enough, or questioning if you really belong in the room? In this episode, I break down why those thoughts are actually the biggest sign that you’re stepping into your next level and why your best is still ahead of you. I share how self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and comparison show up for all of us (yes, even in rooms where you feel like the least qualified person there). Remember, when you lean into who you really are, you start attracting the right people, opportunities, and momentum. In This Episode You Will Learn A daily practice to shift your mindset and expect more from life. Why planning ahead creates freedom and reduces pressure. How to handle setbacks and stay focused on what is working. Why success timelines look different for everyone. The reminder you need when you feel like giving up. What to do when you feel like you don’t belong in the room. How to rebuild confidence in high-pressure moments. The shift that happens when you start showing up as your self. How to move through imposter syndrome and self-doubt. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your everyday with luxury you'll actually use. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Fanvue - Visit fanvue.com today and launch your career! Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

41:51 150 views Published about 2 months ago

Confidence Classic: Start Creating the Life You Really Want with Heather!

Have you been holding onto something you know isn’t right for you, but you’re too afraid to let it go? In this episode, I talk about the shift that happens when you stop settling and start choosing what you actually want for your life. I share what it looked like for me to move through uncertainty, make hard decisions, and stay committed to the vision even when things didn’t go as planned. Get ready to let go of what’s no longer working so you can finally step into what’s possible for you. In This Episode You Will Learn Why getting clear on what you don’t want is the first step forward. How negative thinking can block opportunities. The role of belief, energy, and “signs” in making decisions. How your words and mindset shape what you attract. Why small changes signal readiness for bigger opportunities. How to retrain your mind to see new possibilities. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your everyday with luxury you'll actually use. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Fanvue - Visit fanvue.com today and launch your career! Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

33:13 130 views Published 2 months ago

Confidence Classic: Stop Letting Others Steal Your Energy with Heather!

Ever notice how some people stay positive no matter what’s going on around them? In this episode, I share how choosing joy and gratitude can completely shift your experience, even on the most chaotic days. I also open up about overcoming self-doubt, learning to embrace my voice, and why being fully yourself is always the winning strategy. Tune in and start choosing joy no matter what’s happening around you. In This Episode You Will Learn How to choose gratitude even in stressful situations. A mindset shift that changes your entire day. How your energy impacts the people around you. Why you don’t need to engage with negativity. How the energy you give comes back to you. How to shift the way you see yourself. Why you should never dim your light for others. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your everyday with luxury you'll actually use. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Keeper - Get 60% off Keeper personal and family plans at keepersecurity.com/confidence. Fanvue - Visit fanvue.com today and launch your career! Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

28:40 150 views Published 2 months ago

Confidence Classic: Master CHANGE Without Losing Control with Heather!

What do you do when everything changes and nothing goes your way? In this episode, I share how I handle uncertainty in real time, from navigating a shifting real estate market to lessons I learned the hard way during the last recession. I break down the 3-step process I use to move through fear, stay grounded, and find opportunity. Plus, I share the mindset shifts, mistakes, and strategies that helped me rebuild, pivot, and grow stronger through every unexpected turn. Get ready to shift your mindset, take control, and start seeing opportunity everywhere. In This Episode You Will Learn Why staying calm is your biggest advantage in uncertain times. The recession lesson that changed how I lead forever. What lifeguard training taught me about handling fear and pressure. How to train your mind to look for opportunity instead of panic. How to stay optimistic even when results aren’t going your way. Lessons from rebuilding my speaking business during uncertainty. How to position yourself as valuable in business and life. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your everyday with luxury you'll actually use. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

42:41 140 views Published 2 months ago

Confidence Classic: How to LET GO and LEVEL UP Your Life with Heather!

Holding on to something that’s not working anymore? That might be the exact thing blocking what’s next for you. In this episode, I share moments from speaking at the Mental Toughness Forum with leaders like Ben Newman and Ed Mylett that reinforced one simple truth. I also break down the B.A.K. framework to help you shift your beliefs, take messy action when it’s uncomfortable, and pivot your focus toward solutions. I even caught myself reflecting on how powerful this shift is after watching it play out with my own son. Get ready to let go, trust what’s ahead, and go get what’s waiting for you. In This Episode You Will Learn Why holding onto “mediocre” blocks your next level. The quote that stopped people in their tracks at the Mental Toughness Forum. How to reframe heartbreak and tough endings fast. How gratitude helps you reset your mindset in minutes. The mistake most people make when starting something new. The fastest way out of a negative spiral. Why who you listen to determines how fast you grow. How letting go builds resilience, confidence, and leadership. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

33:21 130 views Published 3 months ago

How to Negotiate, Lead, and Win in Any Situation with Chris Voss

Feeling unsure how to navigate your career or money decisions in 2026? FBI Negotiator Chris Voss is back sharing the exact mindset and negotiation strategies he’s used in the highest-stakes situations. From layoffs to tough conversations, he breaks down how your inner dialogue, not your circumstances, is what determines your outcome. We dive into why “no” is actually your advantage, how to avoid the biggest negotiation traps, and the emotional intelligence skills that separate top performers from everyone else. I even found myself rethinking how I approach difficult people and high-pressure situations. Get ready to negotiate with more confidence, clarity, and control. In This Episode You Will Learn Why 20% of deals are "ghosts" and how to spot them. How to handle difficult decision-makers without losing the deal. The 3 emotional mindsets that make you unstoppable. A question that instantly builds connection. The “no-oriented” question that opens doors. How to think about job loss and career uncertainty in 2026. Why AI won’t replace great negotiators. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Chris on Instagram & LinkedIn

56:51 220 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: The Steps to Reinvent Your Life Starting Now with Heather!

Have you ever had a moment where something didn’t go the way you planned and you immediately assumed it was a problem? I’ve been there more times than I can count. In this episode, I share a story about my son that completely shifted how I look at challenges, growth, and what’s truly possible when you stop focusing on problems and start finding solutions. I also break down steps you can take to change your life, from creating a plan to practicing gratitude and choosing joy even when it’s not easy. Get ready to stop waiting for things to get easier and start becoming stronger and more confident with every step forward. In This Episode You Will Learn How to SHIFT from focusing on problems to finding SOLUTIONS. Why stepping outside your COMFORT ZONE creates growth. How breaking your ROUTINE unlocks new opportunities. The importance of taking OWNERSHIP of your current situation. Why GRATITUDE can instantly change your perspective and energy. How to stay PRESENT while still working toward your goals. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

35:40 160 views Published 3 months ago

How to Stop Delaying Happiness While Pursuing Big Goals with Jess Ekstrom

What if “making it” doesn’t solve your problems, it just gives you new ones? In this episode, I sit down with Jess Ekstrom, the founder of Headbands of Hope and Mic Drop Workshop, to break down the belief that once you “make it,” everything will finally feel easier, happier, and complete. We talk about the pressure of constantly chasing the next goal, the illusion that success will solve your problems, and how to stop tying your happiness to future outcomes. Jess also shares the idea of choosing problems you actually want to solve, defining your own success fingerprint, and shifting from achievement-based thinking to mission-driven living. Get ready to rethink what success means and start creating a life that feels good now, not “someday.” In This Episode You Will Learn How to STOP chasing outcomes that promise a problem-free life. The PURPOSE TEST to evaluate if your goals are aligned with you. How to define your SUCCESS FINGERPRINT based on your values. How to shift from singular goals to a MISSION that keeps you motivated. Why attaching your happiness to a FINISH LINE keeps you stuck in a cycle of delay. How to ZOOM OUT and evaluate if your daily actions align with your life. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Pre-Order Jess Ekstrom’s new book Making It Without Losing It and get the FREE audiobook + BONUSES: https://jessekstrom.com/makingit/ Check out Headbands of Hope and support their mission: headbandsofhope.com Learn how to become a paid speaker with Mic Drop Workshop: micdropworkshop.com Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Jess Instagram & LinkedIn

57:52 160 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: Break Free from Limiting Beliefs with Heather David, Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist

What if the thoughts holding you back aren’t even yours? In this episode, I sit down with certified clinical hypnotherapist Heather David to talk about how limiting beliefs are formed and how they silently shape your confidence, decisions, and identity. Heather breaks down how to revisit old experiences, separate from them, and step into your power in a completely new way. Tune in if you’re ready to stop judging yourself and release what’s been holding you back. In This Episode You Will Learn Why LIMITING BELIEFS are formed in childhood. How your SUBCONSCIOUS mind influences your confidence and behavior. How TAPPING instantly calms your nervous system. How HYPNOTHERAPY helps uncover and reframe past experiences. Why you don’t need to RELIVE the past to heal from it. How to reconnect with your INNER POWER and self-trust. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Heather David on Instagram & LinkedIn

41:08 180 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: Stay Focused, Ignore the Noise, and Trust Your Timeline with Heather!

Have you ever looked at someone’s success and thought, “How did that happen so fast?” In this episode, I talk about what success looks like behind the scenes and why comparing yourself to what you see will only slow you down. I share a story from my own life that proves how what looks like an “overnight win” is usually years of setbacks, delays, and persistence that no one talks about. I also break down how to reframe criticism, use it as fuel, and stay focused on your path instead of getting distracted by someone else’s opinion. Get ready to stop comparing, stay in your lane, and keep showing up. In This Episode You Will Learn What you DON’T SEE behind someone else’s results and wins. How COMPARISON can distract you from your own progress. Why staying in your own lane is your biggest ADVANTAGE. How to stop giving your POWER to negative voices. When to IGNORE criticism and when to LEVERAGE it. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

36:27 170 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: How to Move Through Fear and Thrive in the Unknown With Heather!

What if the uncertainty you’re facing right now isn’t something to fear, but the moment that’s meant to move your life forward? In this episode, I share what it looks like to step into the unknown, even when it feels uncomfortable, uncertain, and completely out of your control. I break down how your decisions signal what you’re willing to accept and how choosing yourself can open doors you never saw coming. Get ready to stop resisting uncertainty, trust yourself more, and step boldly into what’s next. In This Episode You Will Learn How your decisions SIGNAL what you’re willing to accept. The power of WALKING AWAY from what no longer serves you. How to REFRAME fear into excitement and possibility. The connection between SELF-WORTH and the choices you make. Why stepping into the UNKNOWN builds confidence. How to TRUST that things are happening for you, not to you. How to recognize when it’s time to MOVE ON. Why better opportunities show up after you make a bold decision. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

32:48 180 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: Stop Waiting for a Breakthrough and Start Building One With Heather!

What if the reason you’re not where you want to be yet isn’t because you’re missing an opportunity, but because you’re looking for a shortcut that doesn’t exist? In this episode, I break down what it actually takes to build success, grow your brand, and create momentum. I share behind-the-scenes stories from building my podcast, launching my speaking career, and creating new revenue streams during one of the most uncertain times in my life. Tune in if you’re ready to stop searching for shortcuts and start building lasting success. In This Episode You Will Learn Why there is NO MAGIC SHORTCUT to success. How to create a repeatable CUSTOMER ACQUISITION strategy. Why TESTING and TRYING different approaches lead to growth. How to turn SMALL WINS into bigger opportunities. Why you only need ONE YES to change everything. How to LEVERAGE opportunities when momentum shows up. How to innovate and ADAPT during uncertain times. Why putting in the REPS is the only path to mastery. The “BELIEF + ACTION + KNOWLEDGE” framework to drive results. Check Out Our Sponsors: Quince - Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence for free shipping and 365-day returns. NerdWallet - Don’t risk your business on unreliable lenders. Go to nerdwallet.com/confidence to find the funding you deserve. Whatnot - Visit whatnot.com/sell to start selling. Upwork - Visit upwork.com right now and post your job for free. Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

50:10 180 views Published 3 months ago

Confidence Classic: Step Into Your Worth and Stop Holding Back with Heather!

What if the problem isn’t your skills, but how you see yourself? In this episode, I share a coaching story that will challenge the way you think about confidence, self-worth, and how you show up. I break down how one executive transformed her confidence in just weeks once she became aware of her blind spot and how you can do the same. Get ready to see yourself differently, raise your standards, and start showing up like the person you already are. In This Episode You Will Learn How staying in the same circles creates BLIND SPOTS. Why investing in yourself is the fastest way to LEVEL UP. How to recognize when you’re UNDERVALUING yourself. The mindset shift that helps you SHOW UP with confidence in any room. Why your NETWORK is your biggest asset when creating new opportunities. How to position yourself as the RIGHT FIT for any job or opportunity. The strategy to stand out from the SEA OF MEDIOCRITY. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

42:33 210 views Published 4 months ago

Confidence Classic: The Method to Solve Any Problem Fast with Jeremy Utley

Have you ever felt stuck trying to come up with a great idea, and the harder you think, the worse it gets? In this episode, I sit down with Jeremy Utley, Director of Executive Education at Stanford d.school, to break down the science of creativity and why breakthrough thinking isn’t reserved for “creative people.” Jeremy explains why the best innovators, such as Steve Jobs & Benjamin Franklin, focus less on finding the perfect idea and more on generating a higher volume of ideas. We talk about how creativity really works, why bad ideas are actually the gateway to great ones, and how changing your inputs can unlock entirely new solutions. Tune in to learn how to unlock your creativity, generate better ideas, and start creating breakthroughs on demand. In This Episode You Will Learn Why anyone can learn the skill of BREAKTHROUGH thinking. The reason the quantity of ideas leads to HIGHER QUALITY ideas. How new inputs and environments trigger BREAKTHROUGH thinking. Why great innovators seek DIVERSE perspectives and conversations. The concept of an “idea quota” to BUILD your creative muscle. How REFRAMING a problem shows unexpected solutions. The mindset shift that helps you GENERATE breakthroughs more consistently. Why writing down your ideas is critical to capturing your BEST thinking. How your subconscious mind can help SOLVE problems while you sleep. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Learn more about Jeremy Utley: https://www.jeremyutley.com/ Learn more about IdeaFlow: https://www.ideaflow.design Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Jeremy on Instagram & LinkedIn

49:00 230 views Published 4 months ago

Confidence Classic: Why Getting Fired Was the Best Thing for My Career with Heather!

What do you do when someone disrespects you at work, and you need to stand up for yourself without losing your composure? In this episode, I unpack one of the lessons I’ve learned in business and life. I share the story of the day I was unexpectedly fired after 14 years at my company, and how choosing to respond instead of react completely shifted the power dynamic in the room. I also talk about dealing with workplace bullying and what to do when you’re treated with disrespect at work. Tune in to learn how to stay calm under pressure, stand up for yourself with confidence, and turn moments that feel like setbacks into powerful turning points. In This Episode You Will Learn Why the most powerful people RESPOND INSTEAD OF REACT in difficult situations. How to handle a bullying or condescending coworker with CALM confidence. The communication TECHNIQUE I use in difficult conversations. How to recognize and shift POWER DYNAMICS in meetings and tense situations. The LESSON I learned the day I was fired after 14 years. How to PROTECT your confidence during tough times. How to APPROACH workplace conflict before escalating it to HR. Why stepping into uncertainty can open the door to GROWTH, REINVENTION, and SUCCESS. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn

39:18 220 views Published 4 months ago

Why Your Personal Brand is a Non-Negotiable in the AI Era with Melanie Borden

What happens when someone searches your name in AI? In today’s digital world, your personal brand is no longer optional. In this episode, I sit down with personal brand strategist and founder of The Borden Group, Melanie Borden, to break down why leaders, founders, and professionals must build a visible digital footprint to stay relevant in the AI era. Melanie shares how she went from having zero digital presence to building a personal brand that attracted inbound opportunities, media features, and launching her own company. Plus, we talk about the steps you can take right now to position yourself as the go-to expert in your industry. Tune in to learn how to take control of your digital reputation and future-proof your career in the age of AI. In This Episode You Will Learn Why a PERSONAL BRAND is a NON-NEGOTIABLE in 2026. How AI tools like ChatGPT and Perplexity are changing how people RESEARCH and EVALUATE leaders. The mistake professionals make that keeps them INVISIBLE ONLINE. Why you don’t need 100,000 followers to create an OPPORTUNITY. The steps to FUTURE-PROOF your career before layoffs or industry shifts. How to use LinkedIn strategically to build CREDIBILITY and attract opportunities. The difference between PERSONAL and PRIVATE content online. How to OVERCOME IMPOSTER SYNDROME and start sharing your expertise online. Why your stories and experiences are your MOST POWERFUL leadership asset. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Get your copy of Melanie’s book Theatre of the Mind HERE! Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Melanie on Instagram & LinkedIn

57:04 260 views Published 4 months ago

Confidence Classic: Why Plan B Is Holding You Back with Matt Higgins

What if I told you it wasn’t failure holding you back, but leaving yourself a way out? If you’ve been hesitating, overthinking, or keeping a “just in case” backup plan, this episode will challenge you to rethink risk, trust your insight, and commit fully to the future you want. I sit down with entrepreneur, investor, Harvard Business School executive fellow, and Shark Tank guest shark Matt Higgins to talk about the mindset behind the “Burn the Boats” philosophy, why seeking validation often signals fear rather than strategy, how processing worst-case scenarios eliminates hesitation, and why anxiety can actually become a performance advantage when used correctly.  In This Episode You Will Learn How seeking APPROVAL can delay the decisions that move your life forward. Why processing the WORST-CASE SCENARIO reduces fear and increases action. The “BURN THE BOATS” mindset that forces real commitment. How OPTIMAL ANXIETY improves performance instead of limiting it. Why speaking to yourself in THIRD PERSON strengthens confidence under pressure. How shedding SHAME builds stronger leadership and connection. The difference between acting on LIGHTNING vs. waiting for validation. Why having a PLAN B can reduce motivation and follow-through. How going ALL-IN attracts support, momentum, and opportunity. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Matt on Instagram & LinkedIn

53:49 200 views Published 4 months ago
Description of Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Looking to take your life to the next level? Each week Heather sits down to share with you the techniques and strategies to create your confidence, pursue your dreams and leapfrog the villains you’ll meet along the way. After successfully shattering the glass ceiling in corporate America, Heather is now a best-selling author, professional speaker and entrepreneur. She is currently pulling back the curtain to expose what it takes to get ahead in business and life so you can claim the greatness that you deserve. Find out why USA Today, CNN, and Steve Harvey have all featured her and most recently seen as a guest lecturer at Harvard.