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Our important decisions in life. Should I start this business? Should I work with this partner? Should I marry this person? Should I move to this city? Most of our decisions are not based on facts 'cause we can't see into the future. They're not laws of physics. It's a belief. I believe it will succeed. That's why we have to master these beliefs or they become our masters. We have to pick them consciously or they decide our life for us.
Back on Young and Profiting is Nir Eyal, a behavioral design expert and bestselling author of Hooked and Indistractable. In his new book, Beyond Belief, Nir reveals the missing link between knowing what to do and actually doing it. Belief.
We don't see people as they are. We see our beliefs about people. That's so like him, or she always does that. And we see this all the time. You know, people who, the longer they stay married, the worse they treat each other. They treat strangers super well because they don't see that person anymore. They see this, this patina that they've built over the years because of their beliefs.
If we know that our brain is basically playing tricks on us and we're not experiencing real reality, what are we supposed to do about it?
We need to have— we know that successful entrepreneurs, they're not necessarily lucky. They make their own luck.
What are some ways that we can try to create more luck in our lives?
Okay, so the first thing you can do—
Yap Fam, what if the real reason you're not reaching your potential isn't your habits, discipline, or focus, but the beliefs quietly running your life? When Nir first joined us on episode 34, we talked about mastering distraction and building better habits. But this time around, we're going way deeper. The hidden stories you tell yourself shape what you notice, how you handle stress, how long you endure, and even how you perform and connect with others. Because belief doesn't just influence behavior, it defines what you think is possible. And if you can upgrade your beliefs, you can upgrade your entire life. Nir, welcome back to Young and Profiting.
Thanks. Great to be back. I'm honored that, uh, you asked me to come back. That's a, that's a big compliment.
Yeah. And I'm, I'm so excited to hear about your new book. You know, I got a chance to read it. I love your work. You, you came on to talk about Hooked and Indistractable, and you're the type of person that comes on and I'm like, okay, we can just focus on the book because it's gonna be interesting enough, uh, because there's just so much to unpack. Like you always write like book books, you know what I mean? So, uh, I'm just really excited to kind of unpack your newest work. Which is all about belief. Uh, so my first question to you is really, why was belief a topic that you felt like you needed to write a book about? And I know that a lot of your books come from you solving your own problems. So what problem were you trying to solve with this new book about beliefs?
Yeah, that's exactly right. You know, they say that research is me-search, and so I don't write what I know. I write about what I need to know, what I want to know. And so when I was struggling with distraction, I wrote Indistractable. And it worked. It, it changed my life. The problem was that I would get these phone calls from readers every week. I do these office hours where anybody who's read one of my books can call me up and ask me questions about, about one of my books. And, uh, every so often a call would sound like this. Somebody would call me and say, hey Nir, I read your book. I really liked it, but it didn't work. And I'd be kind of surprised, you know, I spent 5 years writing Indistractable and, uh, you know, I really went to Great lengths to find the latest research, 30 pages of citations to peer-reviewed studies. And so I say, well, tell me more. Why didn't it work? You know, let's start with step 1. How did step 1 go for you? And they'd say something to the effect of, you know, I read step 1.
I read step 1. I just didn't do it. I said, okay, no problem. Let's skip step 1. Let's talk about step 2. How'd step 2 go for you? Oh, you know what? I read that one too, but also, you know, I just, I didn't do it. And at first I got kind of offended, like, what, why, why not? Here's the answer on a silver platter to this problem that everybody says is so terrible. Distraction, you know, social media, we're all so distracted. Here you go. Here's the answer. And people didn't put it to use. And then I realized, you know what? I do that too. You know, I have tons of books on my bookshelf that I haven't put into practice. I've heard great advice from gurus and experts that, uh, it was in one ear and out the other. Why? Especially today in the age of AI. We all have the answers, right? We know what to do. If you don't know the answer, just ask an LLM or ask Google. You'll find all the answers you need. There's something missing. And what's missing is that we don't understand motivation. That motivation we think is a straight line, right?
If I want the benefit, I do the behavior. Simple, classic economics. But there's obviously something missing. And the thing that's missing is belief. That, that motivation is not a straight line. It's a triangle. So you can know what to do, the behavior. You can even know the benefit, right? Why you want to do it. But if you don't believe in either the outcome or that you will do the behavior, it's not going to happen. So for example, if you don't believe that your boss has your best interest at heart, right? Maybe you're not going to, you don't trust them to give you that promotion or that raise. Well, then you're not going to work that hard. Or much more often, if you don't believe in your own capabilities to do the behavior, you're going to self-sabotage with what we call limiting beliefs. So if you don't understand how to choose your beliefs wisely, no amount of information is going to help you. So I wanted to write the book that appreciates that and teaches people not just positive thinking, because we know that there's a huge negative side to positive thinking the wrong way, but rather gives people the tools to actually understand for the first time, what are my hidden limiting beliefs?
Because we all carry around these hidden limiting beliefs. We can't see them. That's why they're hidden. And then how do we turn those limiting beliefs into liberating beliefs so we finally do what we say we're going to do?
Yeah, I love this and I feel like it's such an important conversation for entrepreneurs especially. We have got so much to learn about how to make sure that we are believing in ourselves, uh, that we're believing in the right beliefs or like following the right beliefs. Um, and I just feel like it's so impactful. One of the things that, um, was really eye-opening to me to kind of warm up our, our listeners about this concept of belief and why it's so important is a study about rats that you put right in the beginning of your book. Uh, the book by the way is called Beyond Belief. And, um, it's this 1950s rat study that was just so interesting. Tell us about that.
Sure thing. Yeah, so this study really blew my mind and here's what it showed. So, uh, it's a little bit depressing, but that's okay. 'Cause, 'cause the rats are already dead, so it, it already happened. So we can learn from the study. So here's what happened in this study. Kurt Richter, uh, who is this, this scientist, he took these rats and at the time he wanted to figure out how long a wild rat could swim for in water. So he put a rat in a, in a cylinder filled halfway with water and he sat there and he timed how long the rat would keep swimming. It turns out a wild rat swims for about 15 minutes before it gives up. Okay, 15 minutes. Then he wanted to have a little intervention. He wanted to do something to see if he could increase the amount of time that the wild rat kept swimming. And so what did he do? He took a new group of, of rats, put them in a, these same exact cylinders filled halfway with water. And he knew that after about 15 minutes they were going to give up. So right before they were about to give up, he reaches in, he pulls out the rat, dries it off, lets it catch its breath, and plunk back into the water it goes.
And now he sat there and timed how much longer the rat could swim for. He did this a few times. He conditioned the rat. and he wanted to see how much longer they could swim. Now you, you've read the book already, so you already know the results and, and people guess there's gonna be some kind of surprising outcome. There certainly is. When I ask people, how much longer did the rat persist? What, what was the effect of this conditioning? Right? And by the way, what changed here? Nothing changed in the experiment. Nothing changed in the rat's body. Something with the conditioning had changed. What changed? Now that they knew that salvation was possible. That they might be saved, what, how would their performance be affected? Well, some people guess twice as long. Some people guess 3 times as long. If somebody's really optimistic, they might say 4 times longer. The rat went from 15 minutes to an hour of swimming. Wouldn't that be amazing? That would be unprecedented. If you could persist in your business 4 times longer, if you could spend 4 times longer making those sales calls or doing that difficult task, wouldn't that be amazing if you could turn on a switch and persist 4 times longer.
But the rats didn't persist 4 times longer. Not even close. They didn't swim for 30 minutes twice as long or 4 times as long at 60 minutes. They swam for 60 hours. Not 60 minutes. Whoa. 60 hours.
I thought 60 minutes in my head when I was remembering the story. 60 hours?
60 hours. They went from 15 minutes. To 60 straight hours of swimming, they became 240 times more persistent. So why do I tell this story? We're not rats. I tell this story because it illustrates the power of belief. Now, we can't ask the rats, did they change their minds about something? But that's the only variable left. Same bodies, same experiments, same conditions. We think that what happened was that now that the rats knew that salvation was possible, that their efforts would matter, that something might happen if they kept swimming, They might get saved. And so that greatly increased their, their perseverance. And it, it seems like magic, but really it was there all along that that persistence was always there. And that's exactly the same case for us. For many of us, especially entrepreneurs, you know, I, I've started 3 companies. The most important factor, you, you, you, you back me up here, right? You've talked to thousands of entrepreneurs. What's the most important factor for an entrepreneur's success? Is it intelligence? No. Is it background? No. Is it having the right resources? No. Is it having the right network? Having the right information for what to do?
No, it's persistence.
Yep. It's persistence. Mm-hmm.
Right? And let me, let me ask you this. When it comes to successful people, who fails more? People who succeed or people who don't succeed? It's actually the people who succeed, right? That successful people are losers, meaning they lose more often. Why? 'Cause they try more, they persist more, they keep going. They don't tell you about their losses. You only hear about their successes. But it turns out the successful people are the ones who are more persistent. So it turns out that if you could unlock that motivation to do those hard things and to do it joyfully, to, to not mind to do them, wow, that unlocks so much possibility in your relationships, in your business, in all aspects of life. And how do we do that? We use our beliefs.
So would you say that beliefs are biological and that there's something like happening in our brain when we're believing something that is true? Like what is actually changing biologically? How did the swim so much longer than previously.
This is what's so fascinating is that your beliefs can actually become your biology. Now, not in some kind of metaphysical, magical way. There's no magic here whatsoever. It's that when we change our beliefs, we do things differently. I'll give you a great example of how your beliefs can become your biology. We now know that your beliefs at age 30 about aging, if you have positive beliefs about aging at age 30, you will statistically, according to this study, live 7.5 years longer. Okay? To put that in perspective, 7.5 years longer, that's more than the effect of smoking. That's more than the effect of a, a healthy diet. That's more than the effect of exercise is your beliefs about aging. What does a positive view of aging sound like? A positive view might be, growth and change is possible at any age. A negative view of aging is aging involves inevitable decline. Okay, those are two beliefs. One is positive, one is negative. Uh, aging involves inevitable decline versus growth and adaptation is possible at any age. Now let me ask you, which one of those is true?
That, you know, anything is possible at any age?
Well, both are actually true, and Aging does involve inevitable decline. The point is, is that beliefs aren't necessarily truths, that that's not the deciding factor. A belief is a tool, not a truth. A tool. A fact is an objective truth. A fact is something that is true whether you believe it or not. The world is more like a sphere than it is flat. Sorry, flat earthers, the globe doesn't care what you think. The world is round whether you like it or not. On the other end of the spectrum is faith. Faith is a conviction that does not require evidence. Okay, so that's faith and fact. In between fact and faith is a belief. A belief is a strongly held conviction that is open to revision based on new evidence. Okay, strongly held conviction, open to revision based on new evidence. And the fact of the matter is that our important decisions in life— should I start this business? Should I work with this partner? Should I marry this person? Should I move to this city? Most of our decisions are not based on facts cuz we can't see into the future. They're not laws of physics.
Whether I should start this business, it's a belief. I believe it will succeed, right? And so that's why we have to master these beliefs or they become our masters. We have to pick them consciously or they decide our life for us. And once we gain that power, once we actually learn, not just think positively, but actually which beliefs serve me versus which ones hurt me. They not only do they become our biology, as was the case with a study that increased lifespan, literally increased lifespan. How did they do that? Because when I believe that I can grow and adapt at any age, well, how do I behave? I do things differently. I'm more likely to go take a walk in the park even if I'm a little sore. I go see my friends, I garden, I, I do things that actually help me live longer. So to answer your question, beliefs aren't magic. Beliefs change behavior, and that behavior becomes our biology. And that is the case when it comes to our physical bodies, for our businesses, for our relationships, in all facets, in all facets of our life.
So to your point, beliefs can help us and hurt us. So how can we tell if a belief is useful to us or not?
So we wanna look at those areas of our life where we feel the muck. Right? That New Year's resolution that you've had for years and years that keeps coming back, that relationship that annoys you and somehow, you know, you can't repair for whatever reason. It just keeps being an annoyance. The little things in life that, that frustrate you. Anywhere that you, you're not being your full self, you're not living to your full potential. And what's fascinating is that everybody has these limiting beliefs. Everyone has them because they're hidden. Because at the time, these limiting beliefs, they feel like facts and we don't recognize them for what they are. They just feel like they're absolutely true. That person is just that kind of person. That business opportunity can't possibly work. I'm the kind of person who can't. Oh, here's the most common one I hear. I don't have time. I'm too busy. Hear it all the time. What is that? Just a limiting belief. And it's not always serving us. So what we want to do is to look for the areas where we're stuck. Not necessarily find more information, but actually assess for ourselves, take out those limiting beliefs, look at them, and figure out are they serving us or are they hurting us?
Now, the hard part is that we can't see these for ourselves because they're hidden, right? Because we think they're facts. It's almost like your face, that we all have faces, but you can't see your own face. The only way you can see your own face is to take a look at the mirror. And that's not always comfortable, because sometimes you see things you don't like, right? Maybe you have a pimple or whatever, you have a hair where it shouldn't be. Sometimes you see things you don't like, and so we resist looking at those limiting beliefs. Why? Because we have what's called a psychological immune system. We resist anything that might change our beliefs because our default state is passivity. We like sticking with our old beliefs. Why? Because then I don't have to do anything. That business can't possibly work. Impossible. These leads are crappy. There's no way anybody could succeed. Well, if I believe that, it instantly becomes true. I don't have to do anything about it. And so it's only if we wanna reach our full potential, we have to unpack those limiting beliefs, take a good hard look at them, and figure out how we can change them to serve us.
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Sure. Yeah. So we talked about how, you need to know, for motivation to persist, you have to know the behavior, right? What it is you're going to do, the benefit, why you're going to do it, and then the belief underlies it all. So it's a triangle where the base of that motivation triangle is, of course, belief. And so you have to believe in the benefit coming, and you have to believe in your ability to do the behavior. Now, how do you do that? Like, how do you pick good beliefs? You know, we've all heard, just believe, that's the key, just believe in it. Well, where's that magic button that I can just alter my beliefs, right? It's not that simple. And in fact, uh, we know that positive thinking, that just, you know, manifesting and visualizing, if you do it wrong, it can actually be harmful. We can talk about, about how to do this right versus how to do it in a way that actually saps your motivation. But the right way to do it is to leverage what I call the three powers of belief. The three powers of belief are the fact that our beliefs shape what we see.
This is called attention. They shape what we feel. They literally shape, they decide our internal states, what we feel inside our bodies. So that's the power of anticipation. And then finally, and most importantly, our beliefs define what we do. We call this agency. So those are the three powers of belief, the power to change what we see, what we feel, and what we do.
So I run a team of about 60 people all over the world. I didn't get to like introduce myself, uh, from an entrepreneurial perspective when we first hopped on the call. And as I was reading about this motivational triangle, I kept thinking, Man, like, how do I instill more belief in my team so they, they get their projects done? How do I, uh, you know, use belief in our performance reviews and try to understand if the team actually believes that it's possible to do what we're doing? Otherwise, we're not gonna achieve whatever we wanna achieve. So what's your advice for people who are trying to motivate themselves, but also trying to motivate others in terms of how to use this new concept of belief or ensuring that people also believe in what they're doing?
We underestimate this greatly as entrepreneurs because we think we have to be very logical and fact-based. And that, that is important. Of course, we, we have to speak from a place of honesty, but when we don't really know, okay, we can't predict the future. We don't know what's gonna happen. This is where what we call company culture really matters. What is company culture? Company culture is just a codified set of beliefs. Okay? This is what we do here. This is what gets you promoted. This is what gets you fired. This is what we value. This is what, what, uh, what we would like to see around here. This is how we are going to succeed. This is how we're, we're going to fail. So we don't wanna do this. We wanna do that. Is any of this a fact? No, it's just a belief. It's our best guess at, hey, we have to have these standards, or we wanna do things this way, or this matters here and that doesn't. This is based on the company and it's not universal. That a company that has one set of values, if you transfer it to a, an industry, it might work in one industry, but it won't work in a different industry.
So it has to be a lock and key of the right company culture with the right beliefs. For each and every company. Now, if you don't think of those, that company culture, if you don't, if you aren't consciously aware of those beliefs, you're going to get a bunch of crappy default states that are not going to help you succeed. You're going to get just the collective background of whoever you hire, right? This is why founders have such a profound impact because of course people look to the founder, they look to the founder's beliefs, and there's no better example of that than Steve Jobs. In his biography, Walter Isaacson talked about how Steve Jobs used to have a reality distortion field, meaning he would see a future that nobody else could see, right? We call this founder vision. That is nothing more than a belief. It's not a fact, right? Steve Jobs didn't always predict the future correctly. Many times he, he was wildly off, but he always had this vision. And that vision wasn't based on fact. He didn't know the future. He chose a set of beliefs that motivated everyone at Apple. And that's what every single founder has to do with employees.
So your most important job is to build a vision for where you're going to help people see that possible reality. And this is the second power of belief, the power of anticipation. Based on what we see, it defines what we will do.
That makes a, a lot of sense. So when somebody is saying like, you know, I lost motivation, what is actually happening? Like what belief is being impacted when someone's like, man, like I just feel so unmotivated. I have no motivation right now.
Well, it depends which of the three is missing. So is it that you don't know what to do? That's almost never the case these days because if you don't know what to do, just Google it, right? Ask ChatGPT. You'll, you'll figure out what to do. That's not the barrier anymore. It used to be, not, not anymore in the information age. Then you've got the benefit. Right? Maybe I know what to do, but I don't really care about the reward. It's, that's not meaningful for me. Maybe it's not enough, uh, of a reward. So nevermind, I won't do it. Those are kind of obvious. The missing element when people say, yeah, yeah, you know, I, I really do want, uh, to get healthier and I know I need to go to the gym. So there's the behavior and the benefit, but I don't really want to. It's because of some kind of underlying limiting belief, probably something like exercise sucks. Right? Exercise hurts. Exercise is suffering. I take it from a, a former fat person. I used to be clinically obese. I would tell myself stuff like that all the time. I don't have time. This is painful.
I don't like it. Uh, I, I'm, uh, I'm not athletic. What are these? Are they facts? No, they're just limiting beliefs.
Okay, so let's go over the three powers of belief and we can start off like going deep on the first one, which is attention. So. The Power to See What You Believe. So you talk about perception in the book, um, and that essentially you, you even go as far as saying as you believe that we're basically living in a simulation because our reality is just based on our perception. Help us understand what you mean by that.
Yeah, and this is probably one of the most important things if you wanna change your life, is to realize that you do not see reality as it is. It's impossible. The human brain absorbs about 11 million bits of information per second. 11 million bits. That's about the equivalent of reading War and Peace every second, twice. Okay, it's a tremendous amount of information. What does that information look like? It's the light entering your eyes. It's the sound of my voice entering your ears. It's the ambient temperature of the room. Your brain is processing all that information. You're just not conscious of it because Your conscious awareness can only process about 50 bits of information. Okay? 50 bits versus 11 million bits. That means you are aware of only 0.000045% of the information available to you. So because the brain just can't handle all this information, it has to, has to do something about it to, to, to, to help us function in a world where we have so much information entering our brains. It takes a shortcut, and that shortcut is to leverage our beliefs. So we see reality not as it is. We see it through this tiny keyhole of attention that is dictated by our beliefs, and it— that keyhole of attention determines what we can even see as possible, not only in present reality, but also in the future.
I'll, I'll give you an example. Uh, do you like riddles?
Yeah.
Okay, let me give you a riddle. So there is a, a father and a son who are driving. In the middle of the night on a deserted country road. There are no lights around, completely pitch black. And all of a sudden, a deer jumps in front of the car. The car smashes into the deer. It's a terrible car accident. The father is killed instantly. The son is in critical condition and must be rushed to the hospital. When the son gets to the hospital, he's placed on the operating table. The surgeon barges into the operating room, takes one look at the child, and says, I can't operate on this boy. He's my son. How can that be? If you— do you know the answer?
No.
Okay. Think about it for— I'll say it one more time. Okay. Think. I'll say it one more time. I'll say it a little faster this time, but, but same basic story. Father and son on a dark, deserted road. They're driving father and son together in a car. All of a sudden, a deer jumps in front. They smash into this deer. The father is instantly killed. The boy is rushed to the operating room. On the operating room table, the surgeon barges into the door, into the operating room, takes one look at the boy and says, I can't operate on this boy. He's my son. Now, just so, don't feel bad if you don't know the answer. 83% of people don't get this puzzle. 83% of people don't get the answer. Do you have a clue?
I don't know. It's his stepfather or something?
That's an answer. That is an answer. Okay. But that's not the answer. Okay. Can you think of any more? The answer is—
I would say it's his mom.
Bingo. You got it. Yeah. You're in the minority of people who got the answer. That's exactly right. Very good. 83% of people can't figure it out. They can't see the possibility that the surgeon Was the boy's mother, because typically 80%, statistically 80% of surgeons are men, 20% are women. That's a reality, right? That's a fact. But we can't see it. We can't even imagine that possibility because of our prior beliefs, because our prior experiences. So when you think about something as simple, like, and when you, once you know the answer, like, duh, of course it's, it's the boy's mother, obviously. And by the way, men and women, this does, you know, if you don't get this, if you're listening, don't feel bad. It doesn't mean that you're sexist or anything. The same proportion of men and women don't get this puzzle. So it's, it's, it doesn't mean that. It just means that your prior beliefs have a tendency to predict future events. So if you've seen that most surgeons are men, you will predict that most surgeons will be men in this scenario that I just outlined. So why is this so important? Think about what this means for you as an entrepreneur, that if you can't even imagine a potential future, if you can't see a reality, you can't work towards it because you don't believe it.
So what great entrepreneurs are able to do, they suspend reality. I mean, think about how ridiculous it is when you started your company, right? And you probably told people about the company. Did anybody say, no, I don't think that's gonna work. I think it's a bad idea. Did anybody do that to you?
Yeah, 100. Especially, uh, people who were closest to me actually.
Right, right.
Yeah.
They, they, what did they say to you?
Um, you know, keep your stable job. This is so risky. Um, you know that It's just risky.
Right, right. 'Cause it, it probably is not gonna work. They couldn't envision how it could work. What are you gonna do, a podcast and load your video? Yeah. Okay. Yeah, sure. Good luck with that one. Right? Uh, because for them, they couldn't see what you saw because you believed not only in your abilities, you believed in this opportunity and that shaped your reality. You could see something that other people just couldn't see.
Yeah. And isn't it true that not only like does it impact our beliefs, but actually visually how we see our reality. I know that there was this checkerboard analogy where basically you just see what you, what you're anticipating to see, not necessarily what is reality.
Yeah, that's exactly right. Yeah. So if you, if you go on Google and, and type in checkerboard illusion, what you'll see is that there's two squares, square A and square B, and square A looks much darker than square B. Very obvious, right? And everybody who looks at this says, yes, absolutely. Square A is definitely darker than square B. But if I put a strip of the same color overlapping square A and square B, you'll see that a square A and square B are exactly the same color. Now that's very interesting. It's kind of an optical illusion. What's crazy is that even when you agree with me, yes, square A and B are the same color, when you look at it again, it's still looks like they're different colors. So your brain is lying to you, is literally lying to you, and not allowing you to see the truth. Even when you know the truth, it won't allow you to see it, reality as it really is, because of your prior understandings, because of your, your prior conditioning. And so that, this is why, you know, how the power of, of attention changes so dramatically what we are actually able to, to see in our environment.
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We need to have practices in place that constantly remind us that we're wrong, that we need to have what's called intellectual humility, that if we want to get the best out of ourselves, We have to see reality not only as it is, but as it could be. So we need strict practices in place to force us to see these opportunities, to see what's, what's available to us. And so this gets us into this subject, uh, that we call entrepreneurial alertness. Entrepreneurial alertness that we know that successful entrepreneurs, they're not necessarily lucky innately. They make their own luck. They make their own luck. It's a beautiful study where they took people who were self-identified, people who called themselves lucky or unlucky. Okay? It was a label they assigned to themselves. They believed, is it a fact? No. They believed they were either lucky or unlucky. Then they gave them a very simple task. The task was, we want you to look at this newspaper and simply count the number of images. 1, 2, 3, 4. How many images are in this newspaper? Okay. People who believed they were lucky, it took them about 11 seconds. People who believed they were unlucky, took them 2 and a half minutes.
Why the gap? The gap occurred because on page 2 of this newspaper, one of the pictures, one of the images that they were counting said there are 48 images in this newspaper. Collect your prize. The people who saw themselves as lucky saw that opportunity. They could read the image because they were seeing something that the unlucky people couldn't imagine existed. They couldn't see it. It was right there in front of them, but they, just like you can't imagine that the surgeon was the boy's mom, people couldn't see what was right in front of 'em. The same exact image, the unlucky people couldn't see it. It took them 2 and a half minutes versus 11 seconds. This is exactly what happens to us every day. Because if you believe opportunities won't happen to you, if you, uh, uh, believe they will happen to you, you're right. You see reality differently. And so we have to institute these practices, and there's a few that we can all implement that force us to provoke luck. That in fact, luck isn't chance. It's something we manufacture for ourselves.
What are some ways that we can try to create more luck in our lives?
Okay, so the first thing you can do is to show extreme amounts of gratitude. Extreme amounts of gratitude. So this comes from Tina Seelig at Stanford, and she has this practice she shared with me where she has a stack of thank you cards and she has this daily habit of whenever anyone does something nice, makes her feel good, makes her feel appreciated, just has a pleasant sensation, she wants to thank them. Whether that's saying it out loud, whether that's writing a little thank you card, whether that's sending an email, never ever miss an opportunity to, to say thank you, to show gratitude, right? Whether it's. The, uh, the someone who serves you at a restaurant and does a nice job, whether it's, uh, your child that you thank them for being extra polite to you, or whatever, your spouse, giving them an extra hug, or an employee or a colleague. Always be, be gracious to people and show them how appreciative you are. Now, why is that good? It's not just good karma. Turns out that you are provoking luck. How does that happen? Imagine when, when you send someone a handwritten thank you note, which takes Maybe 30 seconds.
When that thank you note lands on their desk and just so happens to land next to a business opportunity that they're thinking, well, who would be someone I should share this with? You're top of mind. So you're, you're kind of pollinating opportunities. You're creating these opportunities. You're provoking luck. So that's one thing we can do. Another thing we could do that we have to get into the habit of doing is intentionally exiting our comfort zones, finding ways to do things that are a little weird, a little uncomfortable. Because it turns out that, you know, motivation is in large part about discomfort. It's about overcoming something that's difficult because what spurs us to action is that we want something and wanting itself hurts, right? So if the more we can get comfortable with the pain of doing something, the better we become at it, the less resistance we have, right? It's just like practice. The first time you learned to ride a bike, it was very difficult. You kept falling over. Oh, it was so hard. And then it, it became easy peasy. First time you learned to drive a car, first time you learned to do anything.
It's difficult until it's not. And so what we find in the research is that people who consistently push themselves out of their comfort zone, they take opportunities that maybe were a little uncomfortable. They talk to people that was a little bit uncomfortable. They do things that push themselves slightly out of their comfort zone again and again and again. Turns out they not only provoke luck, they become more lucky. They start seeing opportunities where they didn't before. For example, uh, oh no, I can never just walk up to a stranger and have a conversation. I just did this on the plane ride over. I'm in LA. I just, I just took a flight from Spain and, uh, uh, I had a conversation in the flight, uh, in the, in the galley, right where they had little snacks and drinks. I talked to this wonderful lady who lives in LA. We had this great conversation. Now we exchange information. We might do some business together in the future. That would only happen if I was pushing myself, if I was looking for opportunities to push myself out of a comfort zone. That was something I wouldn't do before is just talk to a random stranger for an hour and a half on a flight.
That, that's, It's super weird and uncomfortable, but you know what? It provokes luck. It makes those opportunities. And then the next thing, and this is probably the most important of the three, is to relish failure opportunities. That people see failure as a sign that they're doing something wrong, and that's not the attitude of successful people. That in fact, successful people relish those opportunities, right? So, hey, I'm making my sales calls, not, oh, a lot of people said no. But oh man, I've got more to do. And look how many nos I got. That means the next one might be a yes. So for example, if I told you whatever goal you might have, if I, you know, I tell you I traveled into the future and I know that you have only 5 more failures before number 6 is gonna be a success. If you're looking for love, go on 5 more dates, 6th one you're gonna find your soulmate. Uh, 5 more leads and the 6th one you're gonna close a deal of whatever it is. If I knew. 5 more failures and then you're gonna have the 6th one's gonna be a big success.
Would you avoid failure?
No, I'd run to it.
You would? Yeah, exactly. You look forward to it. Come on, let's fail so we can get to the success. Well, that's reality. And if you believe that, it becomes your reality. If you believe that failures are an opportunity, you're going to try more. You're gonna persevere. You're gonna stay more motivated. And guess what? You're going to get lucky more often.
I know that you, you give a case study of the lady who launched solid core, and she had exceptional entrepreneurial alertness, and it allowed her to see opportunities where most people wouldn't see an opportunity there at all. Can you tell us about that story?
Sure. Ann Mallom, uh, she's, she's an amazing story. She's an amazing example of the power of beliefs and the power of attention specifically. So, um, she, uh, was in Philadelphia. Uh, she was working for some job she wasn't too happy with. And she, one day she ran by this homeless shelter, this homeless mission. And then she ran by it again. It kind of became part of her routine. And for years she would just run by this homeless shelter and didn't do anything about it. Like many people today, you know, we see someone suffering, eh, just the way it is, right? Someone's on the street, it's probably a drug problem, nothing you can do. Okay, I, you know, that's someone else's problem. Well, one day, one of these men at the homeless shelter Makes a joke and says, is all you do run all day? And she jokes back, is all you do stand there all day? And then they start having a little rapport. And the next day they have a little bit more of a conversation. And then this is something she never did before. She never had this conversation with, with a person at a homeless mission.
And then they started forming a bit of a relationship. And then after a few days of this, she stops in her tracks and she asks herself, how come I'm the runner and they're homeless? Why can't we all be runners? And so she has this crazy idea of what would it be like to run with homeless men? And that's exactly what she does. She forms a group called Back on My Feet that teaches, uh, home, uh, unhoused people how to get back on their feet, how to get their life back in order, first by starting with physical fitness. Now, she's not trying to fix homelessness as a systemic issue. We're all very aware that homelessness is not, uh, you know, fixable just with running shoes. That it involves, you know, unaffordability of housing, it involves mental health issues. There's lots of issues to homelessness. But she wasn't worried about all that. She just wanted to help people in this one mission in her neighborhood. She wanted to do something for them. So she looked for agency, the third power belief, something that she could actually do something about. She used the power of attention to notice potential in these men, that she saw something that everyone else discounted, this potential.
and then she anticipated that they might change. And so what did she do? The first session, they got together, I think it was about 9 guys, and they went on a little jog. And it turns out that that little bit of, of, of hope that, that they saw that, hey, I could do something. I can set a difficult goal and, and do it. And day after day, they started to change. They would talk to each other about what they're going through. They would be a little bit more vulnerable. They would exchange different opportunities. And this organization now, several years later, is, is still up and running. I think it's in 8 different cities and they have run together collectively millions of miles together. Now, that experience that Ann had where she saw potential where others did not transferred into her next act when she went to Los Angeles and she saw a little fitness studio and she thought it was super cute and pink and very LA. And so she got inspired and she took elements of that fitness studio. And her next venture was to start a fitness company where it was called Solidcore, where she opened up these studios that nobody saw an opportunity to, to open.
And she sold that company a few years later. What was interesting about this, she sold it for over $100 million. And what's fascinating is she totally called her shot. The day she started the company, she wrote down on a piece of paper, I will sell this company for $100 million. And that's exactly what she did. Now, was that a fact? No, it was a belief. And I'm sure she had all kinds of other predictions that she didn't tell me about that maybe she didn't accomplish. That's not the point. It doesn't matter if it's true because beliefs are tools, not truths. Because writing it down and saying, I will do this, allowed her to see it. It became a possibility. And when you can see it, you can do it. And so she's a wonderful example of, of how these beliefs can become a reality. Based on, on your beliefs, on your perception.
That's such a good story. It's such an inspiring story. I know that you have a whole chapter on, in your book about relationships. And initially when I saw that, I was like, well, how do relationships really relate to beliefs? But then I soon understood that really you're also perceiving people and making judgments on people. And a lot of these judgments will stick on people. Just, it's like, you know, the concept of first impressions, you know, you, you meet somebody for the first, 20 seconds and that's the impression you have, uh, indefinitely with that person, no matter what they do or how they change.
True.
So help us understand, um, relationships, perceptions related to relationships, and how we can make sure that we're also seeing people in their reality or in reality.
Absolutely. So I'll start with a, a little story, a personal story. It's a little difficult to relay, but I think it, uh, it conveys the point. That, uh, this happened with my mom and talk about relationships and difficulties. So, uh, my mom a few years ago had her 74th birthday and, um, I wanted to do something nice for her. I want to get her some flowers and I was in Singapore at the time. She was in Central Florida where I grew up and it was a bit of a challenge to get her flowers for her birthday. I had to stay up late and talk to the florist and figure out what had arrived on time and make sure that the flowers wouldn't wilt by the time they arrived at her house and all that. I went to bed at 1 in the morning. I patted myself on the back. I said, Nir, you did a good job. You're a good son, right? You did a nice thing. I woke up the next morning. I called my mom on her birthday and I said, hey mom, happy birthday. Did you get the flowers I sent? And she said, yes, I did.
Thank you very much. But you should know the flowers arrived kind of half dead. You shouldn't order from that florist anymore. To which I got very offended. and I said something to the effect of, well, that's the last time I buy you flowers. And, uh, that went over just about as well as you'd expect. And so, uh, after the call, my wife turned to me and she said, um, do you wanna do a turnaround on this? A turnaround? And I said, no, I do not wanna do a turnaround. I don't wanna do your touchy-feely hocus-pocus, uh, you know, mumbo-jumbo. I need to vent because venting is what we've been taught to do, right? When somebody makes you mad, You're not supposed to keep your feelings to yourself. You're supposed to let 'em out. You're supposed to vent. You're supposed to tell people how you really feel. Well, it turns out that's not true. That venting is one of the worst things you can do because venting does nothing more than cement this effigy that we build of people. Because we don't see people as they are. We see our beliefs about people. We don't accurately, especially the people you know the best in your life, you know, that's so like him or she always does that or, We see people as we believe they are, not as they truly are.
And we see this all the time. You know, people who, the longer they stay married, the worse they treat each other, right? When they first fell in love with each other, they treat each other nicely. Or maybe they, you know, I've seen this with some of my friends, they treat strangers super well, but the person they love more, they're supposed to love more and be more loyal to than anybody else in the world, they treat poorly because they don't see that person anymore. They see this patina that they've built over the years because of their beliefs. So anyways, I knew that, that venting was not going to be helpful, and instead I did a turnaround. Now, what is a turnaround? This technique comes from Byron Katie, so she deserves credit for it. And she developed these 4 questions that help us evaluate the usefulness of our beliefs. And, and it turns out that this practice is actually thousands of years old. It goes back all the way to, to Aristotle. So she gives us 4 questions. The first question is, is this belief true? Okay, so I wrote down my belief. My belief was. My mother is too judgmental and hard to please.
And that was my belief. My, my, in that instance, my mother was clearly too judgmental and hard to please. Are you, are you gonna back me up, Holo? Is that, is that right?
Uh, yeah. I mean, it seems maybe, maybe.
Come on.
Maybe I'll be convinced.
I was absolutely convinced, right? Yeah. And I did, that's why I didn't want, you know, to, to do this exercise. I wanted someone to acknowledge that I had been wrong, that like, who says that to their son who gets them flowers?
She should just be thankful and say thank you.
Yeah, exactly. Just be thankful. So, okay, question number 1, easy peasy, right? Obviously, is it true? Yeah, it's true. She was clearly— she did— she was in the wrong. I was in the right. But here's the second question. Second question is, is it absolutely true? Is this belief that my mother was too judgmental and hard to please absolutely true? Is there no possible interpretation? Absolute means 100%, without exception, every single time. There's no possible way she wasn't being too judgmental and hard to please. Well, I'm honest with myself. I mean, maybe, maybe I could come up with a reason. Maybe she was, uh, uh, trying to just help me, right? But she didn't want me to get scammed by this florist. Well, okay, maybe there's another explanation.
Okay.
Reluctantly, I, I agreed. The third question, third question is, who am I when I hold onto this belief? Who do I become? What do I act like? How do I feel? And by the way, If this doesn't resonate with your mother, you know, this is a business podcast. Think about it with your employees, your boss, your coworkers. You can do this with any relationship or any, any challenge for that matter. So the third question is, who do I become when I hold onto this belief? When I believe that my mother is too judgmental and hard to please, I'm short-tempered, I'm, uh, not very kind, and frankly, I'm not myself, right? I regretted what I said to her. Now the fourth question: who would I be without that belief? Well, if I had a magic wand and I could tap my brain and all of a sudden this belief would dissolve, I'd probably be nicer. I'd be more myself. I wouldn't be embarrassed by something I said and later regretted. So what we established with just 4 questions is that that belief may not be true, it wasn't serving me, and I would be better without it.
So now it cracks open a possibility because remember our immune system, our psychological immune system hates changing our beliefs and the beliefs that we think we are most certain about, particularly about other people. That's just the way they are. Those are the beliefs we most need to examine, or even more so beliefs about ourselves. Those are the really, really hard ones to change. And if you feel resistance, if you say, well, no, that's, that's not something I wanna evaluate. I don't wanna think differently. That's probably the beliefs you need to be most conscious of that you most need to explore. So now we do a turnaround. Okay? A turnaround. The idea behind a turnaround is not to change your beliefs, not to change your beliefs, to collect a portfolio of perspectives, a portfolio of perspectives. Because right now I only had one belief. My belief was my mother is too judgmental and hard to please. It's the only perspective I had. Now what you do is you do a turnaround to create more potential beliefs, to see if any of those might be more helpful. Because remember, beliefs are tools. Not truths. So we don't wanna just use a tool just because that's what we've always used, right?
A, a carpenter doesn't say, oh, I've used a hammer before, so everything I do I have to hammer. No, sometimes you use a screwdriver, sometimes you use a wrench, sometimes you use a saw based on the job, which one's helpful. So to do a turnaround, we ask ourselves if the exact opposite could also be true. So what's the exact opposite of my mother is too judgmental and hard to please? My mother is not too judgmental and hard to please. Could that be true? Could be true. Yeah. Like maybe she was just trying to, to be helpful, right? It could be that maybe she wasn't being too judgmental and hard to please. Okay. That's one. That's perspective number 2. Let's go deeper. This is called a turnaround to the self. Instead of my mother is too judgmental and hard to please, could it be true that I am too judgmental and hard to please? Could that be true? Well, in my mind, I had rehearsed that when I did this nice thing for her, I expected her to give me effusive praise. I wanted her to tell me how nice I was that I did this for her.
And when that praise didn't come, I lost it and I lashed out. So who was being judgmental and hard to please? Maybe I kind of was, wasn't I?
Yeah.
Right? And now there's a fourth perspective. I am too judgmental and hard to please towards myself. That when I put all, all this effort and things didn't work out exactly as I planned, I took it to mean that I was incompetent, that I was a bad son, that I wasn't capable of doing this very simple task of ordering her some flowers. And so what had happened, this is called a misattribution of emotion. We do this all the time, that we feel something, and as soon as we can see someone to pin it on, That's the person who's causing that discomfort. But really it came from me cuz I felt bad that I had messed up somehow. So I was being too judgmental and hard to please towards myself. And I can't help it if the florist delivers crappy flowers, it happens, right? That's okay. I won't order from them again. But I lashed out at her because I felt bad about what I had done, that I took blame that I didn't deserve to take. So which one of those four perspectives is the truth? Which one is a fact? None of them. All of them.
It doesn't matter because beliefs are tools, not truth. The one belief that I had, that my mother is too judgmental and hard to please, that only had one solution. There's only one way out of that. She had to change so I could be happy. Not gonna happen. Okay, that happens all the time in business, right? That, that jerk said this and this. How could they do that? Well, what you're essentially requiring is that they have to do something so I can be happy. If you hold your breath, you're going to suffocate. That doesn't happen very often, right? Rather, with those other 3 perspectives, whether they were true or not, gave me more peace, allowed me to be myself. I could act the way I was proud of as opposed to a way I regretted. And that's the goal. Is it true? It doesn't matter. What matters is, does it make me better? Does it make me treat others better? That's how we use these beliefs in our relationships.
I think that's really powerful, especially for entrepreneurs, whether you're dealing with employees or, you know, another business partner or even your spouse. Um, so I just wanna recap that to the audience. So when you, when you do these turnarounds, you wanna think, uh, to the opposite, to the other, and to the self. Those are the three kind of perspectives that you wanna think about. So you have a portfolio of perspectives. That's, that's what a turnaround is.
Exactly. To the opposite is, is the exact opposite is true. My mother's not too judgmental, is, and hard to please. To the other, I am too judgmental and hard to please. And to the self, I am too judgmental and hard to please towards myself. And then you could do, you know, variations. It's not going to all be the same. I do, I literally do this type of exercise 6, 7 times a day. Whenever someone annoys me or I'm feeling like I'm not being myself or I'm saying something that I might later regret, now I catch myself and I can, I can act in, in with, with, with more patience, with more calm, more rationally than just letting my feelings control me through my beliefs.
You have this second power of belief called anticipation, and we touched on it a bit, but I wanna go deeper in terms of how brand is impacted by anticipation, like what we can do as entrepreneurs to build a brand where people expect certain things and will pay more for it and things like that.
Absolutely. Yeah. So one of the most fascinating studies that I came across was a study that found that, uh, Wine. Well, let me, let me set up this, I'll tell you all about it. Okay. So they took, they took people and they put them into an fMRI machine and fMRI machine measures blood flow in the brain. Okay. And when they were in this machine, they gave them a squirt of wine. They said, this is a cheap bottle of wine, $5 bottle of wine. Okay. Tell us about it. What do you think of this $5 bottle of wine? Uh, you know, it's a little harsh on the finish. I don't know. It's okay. Right. Okay, great. Now we're going to give you an expensive bottle of wine. You ready for it? Okay. And they're sitting in the fMRI machine. They get this little tube. That squirts an expensive sample of wine in their mouth. And now they report, oh, you know, tell us what you think of this, this wine. Oh, this wine is very complex. It has hints of oak and cherry and, uh, what, you know, all the things that wine snobs say. Of course, the trick here is, you know, there's a trick.
There's always a trick. It's the same wine. The only thing that was different was that they told them one was cheap and one was expensive. Now, not only did people report that the expensive wine tastes better, Right. That's not that surprising. Their brains actually experienced the wine differently. So we could see areas of their brain activate differently, showing us that they actually did perceive the more expensive wine as tastier. They weren't lying. They weren't making it up. They actually were experiencing it differently. And this is where people really misunderstand the point of advertising. People think advertising is just to build awareness. Okay. Hey, come to Joe's cafeteria or come, you know, come to my dry cleaner or whatever. Like come to my consulting business. That's not the only reason we advertise. That advertising in fact shapes the experience itself. Why do you think Coca-Cola, why have we all seen thousands, maybe hundreds of thousands, maybe millions of ads for Coca-Cola? How many times have you seen an ad for Coke in your life? Again and again. We know about Coke. Why do they keep advertising it to us? Because they are building an experience once we consume it.
When we think we're supposed to feel a certain way when we consume a product, we actually do because we expect it. So this is this loop that first you have a belief. What is that belief that, that, that you have about this product? What do you anticipate to happen? That's the second step. Then you feel that thing that you experience, and then the most important step, you confirm it. So when wine people get together and they talk about, you know, what do they do? They like to drink with each other and they talk about tasting notes and they read what editors think and they get all these— they are actually shaping the experience in real time and confirming it for next time. And so that loop, we can use that for all kinds of products and services and we shouldn't take it for granted. You know, we shouldn't discount the amazing impact that expectations and anticipation can have. On our customer's actual experience with our product or service.
So what are some actionable things that we can do when we're developing our brand to kind of play into this anticipation belief? Like, what do we— like, is it the way that we price it? Is, is it like our messaging? Like, what do we do?
All of that. All of that. Don't just chase the competition. That's the worst thing you can do. People do this all the time. Well, what's everybody else doing? Let's do that too. And we think that our competition knows something we don't know, and they're just as blind as you are. What you really want to do is to shape, is to consciously be aware of what do we want our customer to anticipate and then incept that, that feeling. Uh, we, we know that when, uh, there's a couple of great examples. We know that when people were given a putter, golfers were given a putter, that they were told this putter was used by a very famous golfer. I don't know who they told them, some, somebody famous, Tiger Woods or something. He said, Tiger Woods used this putter. They golfed better. They actually did better, fewer strokes on the golf course because they believed that there was some kind of anticipatory response to this special type of putter. So it turns out we, we really do, uh, act differently based on how we anticipate a product will, will, uh, will affect us.
And this placebo effect also transcends to our own health, right? You were talking about absolutely. Yeah. Us actually believing if, if, you know, We will live longer if we believe that, you know, it's possible to live longer, that aging isn't a negative thing. We actually live longer. Also same thing with illnesses.
We live longer, 7.5 years. Yeah. With illnesses. Yeah. With steroids. It turns out when they did a study and they gave men a steroid, they said, hey, here's a steroid pill. It's an amazing new drug in that if you take this pill, you're gonna build lots and lots of muscle. They gave them this pill, they gave a control group nothing, and they put them on a workout regimen. It turns out that the men who took the steroid gained more muscle despite the fact that it was a placebo. There was, it was completely inert. There was nothing in the steroid, and yet these men got stronger. They actually built more muscle mass. How? It's not magic. It's not that the brain made the muscle. You know what happened? They worked out a tiny bit harder. They actually did something differently. So placebos aren't magic. Placebos don't cure disease, right? They don't cure sickness. Sickness is a physical malady. They change the perception, right? The, the illness, sickness is in your body, illness is in your brain. And so placebos are incredibly effective at shaping our experience, and we can leverage that power of placebo, right? If, if a placebo steroid can actually build muscle, maybe it's a good investment to buy a little bit more expensive running shoes if you're trying to take up jogging.
Or maybe, you know, taking that vitamin C is not really gonna cure your cold. But it might actually cure some of the symptoms. It might make you feel better, even if it's a placebo effect.
What's the danger of labeling ourselves having a certain, uh, mental illness or sickness? Like, let's say a lot of people are on this kick of, I have ADHD, right? What's the problem with having these identity beliefs?
Mm. Okay. So now we're into the power of agency, the third power of belief. And, uh, one of the best demonstrations of the power of agency is what happens when we sap our agency through what we call a nocebo effect. So we have placebo effect. Placebo effect is, comes from the Latin, I will heal. A nocebo effect is I will hurt. It's the opposite of the placebo effect. And to demonstrate this, let me tell you about Mr. A. Mr. A was in a, is, there was a study where he was anonymized. Mr. A had a breakup with his girlfriend. He took it really hard and he took a, a bottle of antidepressants and he swallowed all the pills and he wanted to commit suicide. The last minute after he swallowed the pills, he decided he wanted to live. He rushed over to the neighbor's house. The neighbor rushes him to the emergency room. This is not a riddle, by the way. There's no, this is no riddle. It is a study. This really happened. He's rushed into the emergency room. He collapses on the floor, and the last thing he says before he passes out, he says, I took all my pills.
I took all my pills. The doctors and nurses rush him into the operating room. His, they connect him to the heart rate monitors. His heart rate is plummeting. His blood pressure is dangerously low. He's passed out. And they look at the pill bottle and they try and figure out what did he take? What medicine did he take that caused him to have these overdose symptoms? and doesn't say what medication he took. They just, it just says it's an antidepressant, but doesn't say what type of medicine. What it does have is a phone number because Mr. A was in a clinical trial for these antidepressants. And so it didn't say what the medicine was. They call the phone number, they say, what, what, what was in this medication? We need to treat this person. He's just had an overdose. They look it up on the computer and they see Mr. A was in the placebo group. That in every medical trial you have the medicine, the actual active ingredient, and then you have to have the placebo group to see if the medication is more efficacious than the placebo, right? That, that's the only way you get a medicine approved.
It has to be better than a placebo response. Well, he had taken an entire pill bottle of nothing. There was nothing that could have caused that physical reaction. And yet here he was sweating and convulsing, low blood pressure, low heart rate, passed out. Why? It wasn't the, the pills, it was his mind that he had the message that he had done something that should cause these symptoms. And that's exactly what happened. Within 15 minutes, Hala, they told him, hey, you were in the placebo group, there's nothing in these bottles. Within 15 minutes, his heart rate stabilized, his blood pressure back to normal, and he was revived. He walked out. Now, that's what happens when we take these pills that we think are gonna have some kind of magical effect on us, and oftentimes they, they do have an incredible physical effect. Turns out we have these psychological placebos, these non-medical placebos when it comes to our labels, that when we label ourselves as, well, I'm not a morning person, I'm too old, it's too late, I can't do that, I'm a Sagittarius, I'm an ENTJ, I'm a whatever. When that becomes our label, it also can become our limit.
Because I, and I have ADHD, I've been diagnosed with ADHD, and here's what I used to do all the time. Every time I was distracted, and look, everybody gets distracted. You don't have to have ADHD to get distracted. Everybody these days gets distracted by one thing or another. But every time I got distracted, I would say, oh man, that's my ADHD again. Right? And people say something similar, even if you don't have it, that I'm having a senior moment, or I'm not a morning person, or whatever the case might be. We say these things to ourselves. And what happens instantly when I refocus my attention in terms of my limitations? They become true because now I'm not thinking about the thing I was actually working on. I'm thinking about my limits and I'm conforming to those limits. So that's where we have to be very, very careful. Not that there's anything wrong with these diagnoses. Obviously ADHD is real. It's, it's something that we have to manage. We have to find ways to overcome, which is what Indistractable is all about. But having that, that as a map is very useful. So if you have a diagnosis, if you have a label that says, okay, I have this, this thing that makes what I'm trying to do a little bit more difficult than for the normal, for the average person.
Now it's a map that can lead me to behavioral tactics that I can change. It can help me navigate my path to changing my behavior. Wonderful. It's a map. When it becomes an identity, that's when we get into trouble. Because it's unnecessary, right? We, we think it's a fact, but it's nothing more than a belief. And so to constantly reinforce our limitations, we are putting ourselves in a cage of our own creation. So having a diagnosis as a map to guide us, very helpful. Having an identity of around our limitation can be very harmful.
Yeah. And I can imagine that if you go around saying you have an identity, um, other people will start telling you you have that identity too. Like I can, I'm always late, right? Like I'm always, I'm somebody who's like always running behind, always late. And because people know that, like, they'll tell me, I'm late, even if I'm on time, you know, they have to mention how I'm usually, oh, you're early, but you're usually late. Right. So you can't even win in those instances. Right. So it's, it's important not to let other people label you. Yeah.
Yes. I would strongly invite you get rid of that label and don't let people tell you that anymore because you will conform to that label.
Yeah.
Rather, you can, you can use a liberating belief. You can turn it around. I'm not someone who's old. Like, how could it be who you are? Were you— is, is that your biology? No, it's made up. And in fact, the more you believe it, the more it becomes true. But you can also believe a liberating belief. You could also believe a different behavior, uh, uh, belief that can help you modify your behavior in, in different ways. But we, you don't wanna keep reinforcing this limitation.
Well, Nir, uh, I'm really excited about your book. It comes out in March. Um, so I think everybody should go grab a copy of, uh, Beyond Belief. Uh, before we go, I end my show with 2 questions that I ask all of my guests. Uh, the first one can be related to everything that we just talked about today. So what is one actionable thing our young improfiters can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?
Okay. I want you to, to tell yourself that you are, no, 2 things. Number one, that you don't perceive reality as it actually is, to have more humility. So that's something you can practice every single day. You, you don't see things clearly, and that's a good thing because acknowledging your uncertainty gives you more intellectual humility to see other perspectives. That's one thing you can do every day, be more intellectually humble. The next thing you can do is to realize and to reinforce that you are far more capable than you think you are. You have not even touched the surface of your potential. Just like those rats who gave up and died after 15 minutes and then something was unlocked and they could persist for 60 hours. The same secret is, is within you. You are capable of far, far more than you believe.
I have to say, like, this made me realize like I've really gotta look at my beliefs, my team's beliefs, and make sure that like everybody is able to, you know, believe in things that even might not seem so possible. Um, and having that belief itself is gonna give us the stamina to achieve the goals that we need. So I feel like that was like—
You wanna do one right now? Do you have a few minutes? We can, we can try and tackle one of your limiting beliefs if you want. Do you tell that to yourself that, that I am always late? Is that one of your beliefs?
Oh, that is definitely like, if I could think of like one, my most negative thing that like I believe, or that my, you know, boyfriend and sister and everybody believes about me is that I'm always late.
Okay, you want to try it?
Yeah, let's do it.
Let's do it. Okay, so I'm— I am always late. Is that something you do believe about yourself?
Yes.
Okay. All right, so first question: is it true? You kind of answered that. Yes.
Yeah, I think it is. I think it's true in a lot of instances. In a lot of instances, yeah.
Okay, second question: is it absolutely true?
No, because it's like, not like I'm always late. Like, I'm not late to meetings. I'm not late to, like, you know, I'm not always late. I'm just—
okay.
Yeah, yeah. I'm not always late.
All right, beautiful. Very good. Look, question number 3: Who are you when you hold on to that belief? What do you feel? Who do you become when you think to yourself, I am always late? How does that affect you?
Uh, it makes me nervous. Anxious, uh, because it's like I stress over not being late because I don't want people to keep saying I'm late. So it makes me more anxious, which actually slows me down. Okay. And I would say that it makes me feel, uh, you know, I'm a very accomplished person, so it makes me feel like less accomplished or, or smart enough, you know, if I can't even be on time, right?
Wow. Okay, so it makes you feel unnecessarily incompetent, it makes you feel inferior, It surprisingly takes time. It slows you down, right? The thing you need least if you're running late is to actually be slowed down. Amazing. Amazing. Look at all the negatives that come from this label that you've attached. Okay, now let's say, okay, I have a magic wand. I can wave it over your brain and poof, that belief is gone. You never ever again think I'm always late. How does that feel? What would you be? Who would you become?
I would feel clear-headed to manage my time, hopefully in a way that I would be more on time, um, or I wouldn't give my excuse of like, I'm always late so I could just be late, you know? They expect me to be late anyway or something like that.
Interesting. Wow, that's— did you hear what you just said there?
Yeah, but that I'm like, uh, adapting to what everybody's telling me I am. There we go. Maybe I won't be late anymore.
The power of anticipation. People expect you to be late.
Yeah.
And so you're thinking in your head, well, people are expecting me to be late, so I'll just go ahead and be late. And now everybody says, you're always late. And then you start believing, I'm always late.
Yeah.
It's an invention. It's not true. It's just A belief, and it's a limiting belief because all those bad things we just talked about. Okay, so we've determined maybe it's not true. We've determined you'd be better off without it, uh, and that your life would be much, much better if, if you didn't have it anymore. Okay, so now let's do some turnarounds. Okay. What's the opposite of I am always late?
I'm on time. I'm always on time.
I'm on time. Okay. How could that be true? Give me some examples of how that's true.
I'm on time for meetings. I'm on time for interviews. I'm on time for Speaking engagements in front of 7,000 people. I'm on time for, you know, uh, webinars, uh, that I have to present. Like, I'm on time, especially when it matters. Uh, ah, I'm on time, especially when it matters.
So you went, okay, so now you had a previous belief that was, I'm, I am always late. By the way, that, that's an identity. I am are some of the two worst words in the English language because whatever follows I am you will become, right? I am always late. I am too skinny. I am too old. I am too fat. I am whatever. That becomes your, your reality. It becomes the truth. Okay. So you went from, uh, I am always late to I'm on time when it matters. Is that what you said?
Yeah. I'm on time when it matters or when I'm getting paid or when it's work related, I'm usually on time.
Okay. Fantastic. So now you have two beliefs, which is true, which is false, who cares? Which one is more motivating?
I'm on time when it matters.
Which one reduces suffering?
I'm on time when it matters.
Okay. Is there another turnaround you might be able to do from, I am always late? Is there another turnaround?
Maybe like, I, I care about other people's time, or I, or something along those lines, or like I'm caring about other people's time, or I don't know. I don't know. Uh, I don't know another one.
I'm late. I'm not on time for people who don't matter.
Hmm, that's kind of nasty.
Is it? Could it be true?
I think it's more of like, for— if I can just speak like without in the I ams, it's more about like, for me, I'm so busy that like I don't want— like if some— like To me, if I'm 10 minutes late for a dinner reservation with my friends, like that's not a big deal because it's like, it's just a fun thing and we're going to dinner. We don't, I don't understand why we have to, how it, why it has to be like military or gotta start at this time. I don't function that way because to me it's not work, it's fun.
Yeah. Cuz it's not important. You said earlier that if someone you really admire, if you say speaking in front of 7,000 people, you're on the dot cuz it's important.
Yeah.
So maybe there's a revelation here you don't wanna, and I can feel the resistance, by the way, this is psychological resistance.
It's because I don't want my friends to think that they're not important, right? They are important. It's more of like, I don't align to, to being so military about fun plans, cuz then it's not fun anymore. Like it, if, if I'm rushing to get there, then I'm anxious and I'd rather like take my time and come in a good mood, you know? So that's kind of, okay.
Okay.
Yeah.
Super interesting. We've uncovered a new limiting belief.
Hmm.
Because people are telling you it's annoying them that you're not on time.
Yeah.
This is causing suffering.
It is. Right?
And so in your head, look at, look at what's happened here. Your brain so wants to fight this belief that you might be hurting people and causing suffering that you've created a new limiting belief that it's no big deal. When really what you just told me is you're only on time when it matters. So when you're not on time, it's because their interests don't matter. Just sit with that for a second.
Yeah. Well, that's not nice. No. Because I love my friends.
Of course you do.
Yeah.
Absolutely you do. And what, what, what is the whole point of looking at limiting beliefs? And the reason you say it's not nice is because your brain now has created a new belief so that you can keep thinking you are nice and your behavior is okay, even when you know you're not behaving in a way that's nice.
Hmm. Yeah.
Because if you're, if people are telling you in your life, hey, it's, it's kind of hurting me that you don't think I'm important. They see this, they know that you're on time for a 7,000-person event. And so your brain has manufactured a belief that What's the big deal? It's a casual event. I don't wanna be stressed. So you be stressed. So you miss me. So you think that you're not that important. So again, what's true? I don't know. That's not the point. The point here is to reduce suffering. And so if this is a constant thing that nags at you, that you think, you know what, I built a huge business, I'm doing amazing, I have so many friends, but This is an area of my life that's not that great. Like, I wish I could, I wish I could fix this. It could be something worth exploring to think, is that belief serving me? Is it worth serving me that it's, it doesn't hurt anybody when I'm late? What's the big deal? That could be a limiting belief. I don't know.
It's just worth exploring. And it could be helpful for me to tell everybody in my life too, like, hey, I'm working on this. Like, don't call me a late person anymore. Because even when I do good, I get told like, oh, you're early. What a surprise. Like, you know what I mean? It's like even when I, so it's like, it's also important for people in your life to know, like, hey, I'm working on this, so that they don't come back. Yeah, in that way.
I, I think that's, that's great. It's another limiting belief though. Why? Because if that doesn't happen, then I'll be resentful.
Yeah, then I have to do my own turnaround.
You're offloading. It's, it's because you keep telling me— I keep telling people, stop calling me late. Can't control that.
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
What you can control is your interpretation of that.
Mm-hmm.
Right? What you can control, what, what is in your control is being on time, which it sounds like you're, you're, you're, you're working on, which is fantastic. That's something that's important to you. It's one of your values to be seen as someone who's has personal integrity, right? If I show up on time, I deliver the goods on time, I pay my bills on time, I'm reliable, I have integrity. That's you. I know you.
Mm-hmm.
That's you. This is one weird quirk about your behavior, but 99% of you is someone who lives with personal integrity. You would've gotten this far if you didn't have personal integrity. So it's this weird little quirk, but asking others to do something to change and making that dependent on, well, I can't change unless they do, that's gonna be a long road. Yeah.
This was so helpful.
Is it? So what, what can you do differently, you think?
I think what I can do differently is in the moments where I know that I need to be somewhere, like dinner reservations, right? Like that's like my, the biggest thing that I'm like late for is like I'll come 15 minutes late to dinner or something like that. Tell myself like this, my relationships are just important as work. And so I need to treat this just as important as a work thing so I don't let them down, I don't let me down. And also so I start to establish this this new identity of somebody who's on time. And even if it means that they're surprised, if I surprise them enough times that maybe they'll stop believing that I'm somebody who's not on time, and I'll also believe in myself that I'm more on time.
Beautiful. And here's what's gonna happen. The more you do that, at first people will say, oh my God, look at you, you're on time. Wow, good for you. They'll dig into you and you know what you're, you're gonna be able to say? Is, yeah, I've been hearing that a lot lately. Thanks. And you know, you say that 2, 3, 4 times. Yeah, I've been hearing that a lot that I'm on time. Thanks a lot for acknowledging that. And then they're going to stop saying it.
Yep.
Because over time, you're going to prove it to yourself that this is something that you do. And they're going to stop saying it because now it's, it's, it's not, it's not funny anymore. Right? Like it's just, it's not, it's not interesting anymore because now your behavior has actually changed. And the most important thing is you're going to teach your brain a new belief that I'm not always late. In fact, I'm pretty much always on time. It's not the major, I mean, the minority of instances, almost always I am on time.
It's such a great exercise for anybody who has any sort of limiting belief, whether it's, you know, you believe that you're always late or everybody has different limiting beliefs. So I love that we went through this exercise.
Thank— well, thanks for being so vulnerable and being a good sport around this. Of course.
Of course. I really appreciate it. I think my whole audience knows I'm always late. This has, this has gotten brought up more than one time.
And they wanna see this. It's, it's really important that successful people show that we all have these limiting beliefs. I mean, I wrote the book for me, you know how many limiting beliefs I have? Oh my God. You'll read all about them in the book. So many limiting beliefs. But our default state is always to go into what we know, what's comfortable. That's where we are safe because changing is hard. It means that we have to do something differently, that we're not perfect, but that's how we grow. That's how we get better.
Totally. So my last question to you is, what is your secret to profiting in life? And this can go beyond things that we talked about today, beyond business even. Just what is your secret to living a successful profiting life?
I think it's self-examination. I think it's the secret to a profitable life is a life lived with minimal regret. I, I don't wanna get to the end of, I don't wanna live a day, I don't wanna live a week, a month, a year, certainly not a lifetime saying, I could have done that thing. I could have changed that. I could have treated people better in some way, and I didn't. I don't want regret in my life. I mean, we're going to all have regrets, right? We make mistakes. But to know about something that I can change and not change it when it's possible, that's a missed opportunity. So to me, profiting in life is about living a life that is full of joy, is full of, uh, companionship, is full of helping others and limiting as much as possible the regret we have.
That's beautiful. Nir, where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do?
Thanks. Yeah, so my website is nirandfar.com. That's spelled like my first name, N-I-R and far.com. And we have a special gift, uh, for listeners. We have at nirandfar.com/belief-change. That's forward slash belief dash change. There's a 5-minute belief change guide that you can use every single day that gets you on this pattern. Again, this is a practice. It's repetition. That's how you change your Limiting Beliefs, and that's absolutely free. You don't have to buy a single thing.
Amazing. We'll put that link in the show notes. Uh, thank you so much for joining us on Young and Profiting Podcast.
My pleasure. Thanks for having me.
Yeah, fam, I really loved this episode. Nir always comes with the fire. He does such great thinking and he just always gives us something to really noodle on and really change our perspective. And today he gave us a deeper understanding of what truly drives performance. Information is abundant, especially in 2026. Advice is endless, but execution is rare. And the gap between knowing and achieving? It all comes down to belief. So here are 3 things I want you to actually take into your life and your business moving forward. First off, use Neer's Motivation Triangle. The next time you procrastinate on a sales call, a workout, a launch, pause and diagnose why. Define the behavior clearly. Define the benefit clearly, then examine the belief under it. Do you believe the effort will actually pay off? Do you believe you can execute? If you catch a sentence like "this won't work" or "I'm not ready," that's the actual obstacle you're facing. Replace that belief with a belief that supports your action before you go on to touch your to-do list. Secondly, run the turnaround exercise the moment you feel triggered. Let's say a teammate frustrates you or a partner disappoints you.
Write that belief down. Maybe it sounds like "they don't care" or "they always drop the ball." Then ask if that's absolutely true. Notice how you show up when you hold onto it. Then deliberately test the opposite. Turn it towards yourself. Ask where you might be contributing to this problem. It's not about blame. It's about agency. And that shift alone can change how you lead and how you build trust with others. Third, stop turning labels into limits. Nir said it all too well: "A diagnosis can be a map, but the moment it becomes your identity, it becomes a cage." Start noticing the phrases that shrink you, like "I'm always late" or "I'm not a morning person," and then swap those beliefs out for ones that give you ownership and get you moving again. Yeah, fam, you are so much more capable than you think. The persistence you admire in others is not reserved just for them. It's unlocked by what you choose to believe. And that choice is available to you right now. I believe in you, YAP fam. All right, gang, thank you so much for spending your time with me today. It genuinely means the world to me.
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Mindset is everything, but what if your beliefs are holding you back? Nir Eyal faced this painful reality when readers praised his work, yet still struggled to change their habits or act on a single piece of advice. It led him to a deeper truth: in a world overflowing with information, knowledge isn’t the problem; hidden limiting beliefs are. That realization led him to write Beyond Belief. In this episode, Nir returns with personal development tools to help you uncover and destroy the beliefs silently sabotaging your success in business, relationships, and life.
In this episode, Hala and Nir will discuss:
(00:00) Introduction
(01:56) Why Nir Wrote Beyond Belief
(05:56) The Rat Study: How Beliefs Drive Persistence
(10:31) How Beliefs Become Your Biology
(18:47) What Is the Motivation Triangle?
(24:30) How Beliefs Hijack Your Reality
(36:03) Building Entrepreneurial Alertness and Luck
(44:29) Reframing Beliefs to Improve Relationships
(55:05) The Power of Anticipation in Business
(1:01:02) The Danger of Limiting Identity Beliefs
(1:08:13) Live Coaching to Overcome Limiting Beliefs
Nir Eyal is a bestselling author, behavioral design consultant, and former Stanford lecturer known for teaching the intersection of psychology, technology, and business. His groundbreaking books, Hooked and Indistractable, have sold over one million copies in more than 30 languages, helping entrepreneurs and leaders worldwide. His newest book, Beyond Belief, reveals how to identify and replace the hidden beliefs that define our limits.
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