Transcript of Trevor Noah Makes My Brain Hurt

This is a very deep conversation that You said you don't like small talk?

No. No. But people but

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a when we promote the podcast, we've got

a picture of Trevor Noah, and we'll put a little

clip, and people are like, I'm gonna listen to this 1. It's gonna be so funny. I

mean, we can still make jokes.

I love to think, but more important, I love to think about things that make my head hurt. I like really difficult, complicated things that there's no obvious right or wrong, which means I love people who make me think about those things. And 1 of the best people who does this is Trevor Noah. You may know Trevor from The Daily Show and is a stand up comedian and best selling author. What I love him for is for his intensibility to think about things and see things that the rest of us don't see.

This episode is intense and it'll definitely make you think and it'll definitely make your head hurt in a good way. This is a bit of optimism. Trevor, always a joy to see you and sit down with you. Always fun, my friend. I've never sat down with you ever ever ever and not learned something or had my perspective changed about something because of that insane mind that you have that I so It's

a lot of pressure on our conversations now. I feel like 1 day we should hang out and not talk about anything new or interesting. Just so we have, like, a, you know, we don't have to be a pressure.

We don't like small talk.

I actually I actually like small talk.

Do you?

Yeah. You know why? Because, maybe like a few years ago, I read on how important small talk is and how in society we have diminished the value of small talk, but we don't realize that small talk is what connects us as people and big talk is what separates us. So if you have the foundation of a lot of small talk, you find similarities, you exist in the same realities. But then if you only have big talk, then you it's like large ideas.

So when you go, man, the weather, the other person goes like, yeah, I can't believe how beautiful it is. And you're like, I know. Right? Or you go, the weather. It's just it's been raining.

When is it gonna stop? I know. Right? In that moment, it's the craziest thing ever. You have literally created reality that you share, and now it's easier to say, how do you plan to vote?

It's wild.

So so it greases the skids?

Yeah. It does. So I actually like small talk now.

You and I haven't spent a lot of time together. No. I think socially, outside of, like, seeing each other at conferences and things, we've only ever actually hung out once and it was spontaneous. It

was. Yeah.

We weren't we had no plans. That was a crazy day. I I guess it was I've I've texted with you. I've never called you in my life. Yeah.

You've never called me in your life.

I'm not a big caller. No, you're

not a big caller. And I don't know if I was driving home and for whatever reason I decided to call you.

Yeah.

And out of the blue, I called you. And I'm like, hey. What are you doing? And you said, I'm sitting here at this hotel in Los Angeles. And I had just driven past that hotel, turned around, and we had a cup of coffee.

That's the only time we've ever hung out.

Yeah. And it was a great hang.

And yet, I feel I feel like you're a kindred spirit. I I love spending time with you, and it's not because of small talk. It's because every time I see you, we waste no time and go deep. And if other people happen to be at the table, they'll join in. So this is going against the the small talk thing.

Yes. I can't speak how you feel, but I feel close to you because we always go deep and we find commonality in the deepness, and we abandon the small talk.

But I think it's because we are of a tribe. So I think that's where small talk is crucial for people. Small talk is not necessary for everybody, but it's crucial when you don't know whether or not you're in the same tribe. So from our get go, I was told by somebody, a mutual friend. He said, you have to meet Simon.

You're gonna love Simon. You and Simon. Wow. You 2 together. So and I trust our mutual friends.

So I was like, oh, yeah. I mean, let's see. If he says that we would get along, we'll get along. So it's like, oh, I'll meet this person. And I assume that you know enough about me because we're friends that I will get along with this person.

And so now when we meet, I don't now waste time. If I met you in a different way, I think I would have been a little slower to just jump in with you because I'd be like, I don't know. Talk is

I look. I understand the purpose of it, and maybe I'm sometimes socially awkward in groups and introverted. I'm not good at small talk. And I start with, like, my opening is a yes or no question, which is been here before? Yeah.

And then and then my mind goes blank. Panic starts to happen.

Do it. I'm the same as you. So I genuinely love doing the things that I'm not good at, and then trying to get comfortable in the spaces that I'm uncomfortable. And so what I will actively try and do like, my first instinct when I walk into a room is to find a corner. Yeah.

That's my first instinct.

Or find somebody I know or

a corner.

Either 1 of those is fine.

A corner immediately Agreed. And then I and then I enjoy the room from there. You'll find me by the buffet because

I can disappear and just

fill up a plate.

You're just going to rooze the food. I don't know. I'll fill up a plate.

Oh, okay. Okay. But if you just go stand there in the buffet.

Just my buddies, it gives me something to do that doesn't look like I'm awkwardly trying to not engage. Yeah. It looks like I'm just trying to get food. Okay.

Which I

see that. Yeah. Yeah. And then I can sit down and eat. Yeah.

That's so that's my instinct. Yeah. Yeah. But I but I realized over time, I was, like, okay. I asked myself a question.

I was, like, alright, Trevor. Why are you uncomfortable? I was, like, well, I I I'm uncomfortable because I assume that people don't wanna talk to me, and I assume that I'm taking up unnecessary space, and I assume that these people will reject me, and I assume and I assume and I so based on all those assumptions, I through a lot of therapy and I guess a little bit of introspection, I started realizing I'm making assumptions about how the world sees me before the world has told me how it sees me. Yeah. So I just take a moment to see if the opposite is true.

And then what I try to do as much as possible, which is hard, and you and I do talk about this, is I don't make it about the outcome. So I don't go, if I go speak to people, they will like me. Mhmm. Or if I go speak to people, I'll become friends with them. I just walk in and I think to myself, alright.

Try your best. Just have a small talk conversation with this person. And I'll walk in and I'll go, wow. Those are really cool shoes. And the person's like, oh, thank you.

Thank you. And then I'm like, why did you choose those shoes for this outfit? And then they'll go, oh, well, you know, it's actually funny or and you'll be shocked at people and they and you you get into the world and you're like, oh, this is an interesting party. You know, I'm awkward. And then they'll be like, oh, I have fun here.

I know it it's amazing how the world is not oftentimes what you think it is. It's just what you've told yourself it is. Because I I always wonder what it's like for somebody like you. People consume so much of you, whether it's your writing, whether it's your videos, whether it's like, I wonder how many times people don't give you the opportunity to stop or have a middling conversation because they just jump straight into, like, a conversation with your work,

which is actually as an introvert, it's actually been very helpful. Oh, you like that? Yeah. It's been very helpful because I'm no longer required to start conversations, and people are very nice when they when they come up to me. But what's interesting and you've just touched upon this, which is they have assumptions about who I am, what I like, what I do, how I may live my life, because they judge me through my work.

And, for example, people think that I've read every book and that I read every book. Right? And they talk to me with that assumption. They're like, anyway, this book, I'm sure you've read it, you know, they'll literally say that to me. And the thing that I held a lot of shame for for many years, and I never was public about it until pretty recently is I read no books.

I have seriously bad ADHD. I've started a lot of books. I finished 1 book, excluding having to read my own because I had to. But I've only read 1 book cover to cover my entire life and that was Da Vinci Code, which is so good. But I struggle to read.

And so people just assume because I'm I write things and I talk about things that I just voraciously consume books.

Yes.

And I hear people talk about, like, with incredible judgment, like, people who don't read or, you know, know and then I'm, like, Yeah. You know?

Yeah.

I'm curious what misperceptions people have about you because of

you

the persona that you they have of you.

I'll say this. Everyone's assumption of me is based on the world that they know me from. So I've I've realized I don't have a common assumption. So South Africans, I think, have, like, the best idea of who I am as Trevor because their understanding of me was formed through, like, a sort of natural relationship. I hosted TV shows in South Africa.

I I did stand up comedy. I, you know, was in interviews or what. So people had an idea of who this person is.

Did you have fame in South Africa before you came here?

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like, I always tell people, I go like, South Africa is my country in that way.

I'm I'm lucky that I have that as my country. They have, like, a, like, a solid idea of me. A lot of Americans knew me only as Daily Show guy. Mhmm. So they had this fixed assumption of me.

Some still do, and I've learned this by meeting people. It always come in the form of, like, a backhanded ish compliment, but which I still appreciate. You know, someone will come up to me with a firm handshake, and they'll go, you know, I, I didn't expect to enjoy, anything you said because, I don't agree with a lot of your politics. But I, I gotta say, I I I really enjoyed your your piece. It was it was good.

It was that was really good. Thank you. And I'm like, oh, thank you very much. I'm glad you enjoy I'm even I'm even Yeah. I'm even impressed that as a person, you are able to see beyond what you thought you'd like.

Compliment. Yeah. Yeah. So so there's some people who see me as, like, a just like a hyper partisan political person who only exists in 1 world. Mhmm.

You know? 1 of the craziest ones that happened to me is I was in Miami. I was in a strip club for a friend's bachelor party and some guy in the strip club walks past me and he he looked at me in the eye and then he's like, Donald Trump, 2034. That's literally what he screamed at me. And then he looked at and I could see he was looking at me Yeah.

Like he thought it was gonna shatter my world. Yeah. And I looked at him, and I was like, and? And he said, do you hear what I said? Trump 2024.

I was like, okay. And he said, yeah. What do you think about that? I said, my friend, we are in a strip club right now. The last thing I'm thinking about is a presidential candidate.

And I said, and you need to ask yourself what your priorities are if you're thinking about Donald Trump while you are in a strip club. I was just like, what are you doing? And I but then I understood. I was like, alright. You you've distilled me to this.

So I think people have

They must perceive you as being partisan?

Some people think I'm only political. Some people think I'm only partisan. Some people people think I'm only comedian. Some people think I'm only but

what about your personality? Like It it still depends. Like, people like I said, like, the fact that people think I

Some people think I'm only argumentative. Some people think I'm only affable, but it all depends on where they've seen me.

Because the other frequent 1 that I get is people think I'm very organized. Like, if you come to my house I

can see that though.

If you come to my house, my house is much like my brain, which is it's filled with shit. I love art and I like, if there's an empty wall

Yeah.

I'm filling it. Like, there's no empty walls. There's color, there's stuff, there's piles. I'm not organized. A friend of mine used to call me a surface abuser.

If if there was a horizontal surface anywhere near me, I would fill it. And it not necessarily in an organized way, like, papers you get a lot piles of papers, you know, bowls of things. So, like, my dining room table, I go through these phases where it gets to the point where you can't see that I have a dining room table, and I'm, like, I hate this, and I, like, clean everything. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah.

That that means that's common footage.

People think I'm people think I'm super super organized, and I just think it's really funny, like, the impression that people have of me judged through the work. Yes. And I wonder if you have the same experience, which is I think that's part of the appeal that people have for my work, which is when they discover that I'm not Ivy League school educated, read everything like a book a day, you know, that I'm actually more normal and average, that I think that's 1 of the reasons I think people relate to it, which is I'm I'm not that thing that they think that I am. And I wonder if that's the same for you. I I actually think it's

the other way around for me, funny enough. So I think what'll happen sometimes is people have and this is not this is not unique to me. People have a misconception about comedians. I think a lot of people do. So a lot of people think that comedians are, like, nonstop goofing clown people.

Do you know what I mean? They think we're just, like, walking around from room to room like In reality. It's that's It's depression. That's what they think. Yeah.

It's a navigation of depression. I'm sorry. It's a navigation of depression.

A lot of a lot of depression. Yeah.

So what it is, funny enough, is so people will will meet me sometimes and they'll be like, someone once said to me, they were like, you're a lot more fun on TV. And I said, yes. I'm I'm sitting in an airplane right now. We're all quiet. You think I'm just gonna be turning to all the other passengers and be like, let me tell you about the time.

No. We're on an airplane.

Anybody here from Cleveland? Cleveland? Exactly.

You know what I mean? It's it's

This is the the funny thing about show business. Right? Which is they associate your character with who you are.

Yes. And it's like But it's what the thing is it's 1 side

of you. You're a comedian.

It's 1 side of you.

So they want you to be funny all the time.

Yes. It's 1 side of you.

Yeah. Yeah.

And I try to explain this to people who even if they are curious enough to ask the question, they go, hey. You're a lot more quiet than I thought. You seem a lot more introspective, or you seem I go, yeah. Because what I'm expressing is the culmination of what I've consumed, but I need to consume. So I spend most of my time quiet.

I spend most of my time observing. I spend most of my time listening, actually.

My experience of you the few times we've hung out is you're exactly the same publicly and privately. And it's 1 of my favorite things about you,

which is In terms of my personality.

When I see you on TV Yeah. Or on a stage, I'm like, that's what he's like off the stage and off the camera. I I hope so.

Yeah. I'll tell you why though for me. There's a thing that I experienced a very long time ago when I was first starting comedy and stand up and all of these things where this was in South Africa. I bumped into some people who were comedians, and they were popular, and they were really funny, and they were they're like a nice guy image and all of it. And then I met them even in the comedy industry, and I was like, wow.

What a mean asshole. Like, what a like, the way they treated people. But, like, this person was like, well, it's me, you know, the good guy. And I was just like, wow. What a, that sucked.

Mhmm. And beyond the moral judgments of it, I remember thinking to myself, it must suck to have to constantly pretend to be someone and then have to act like the person you're pretending to be. That's what I often think to myself. And so then what I thought was even for, like, my comedy, I wanted to be able to get on stage and even tell the audience, I'm having a terrible day. But not have them go, woah, this is not we signed up for.

But my goal was and still is to give you the best version of Trevor when I'm on stage. What you see of me on stage is, like, that's how I'm at my best when I'm with my friends making everyone laugh. That's how I am with, like, a group of people where we're thinking and going through crazy concepts and idea. That's the best of me. So what I aim to do is sort of aim for the best of me.

And then if I don't hit it, I don't hit it, but it you you get on the same striving. Yeah. So I don't I don't exist as as 1

You have an uncanny self awareness. You notice the patterns and the absurdities in your own life. When you talk about them out loud, sometimes they're funny, sometimes they're interesting. But I think what they do is the ways in which you found to navigate life or understand yourself are also valuable to us, and they're valuable to your friends because you're seeing things that the rest of us are missing. So, like, what are some of the lessons that you've learned that have helped you navigate the world that you think have have had value in the lives of of your friends or of others?

I think the biggest thing I've learned that has given me the most reward has been consideration. I'm not always able to execute on it, as in, like, I I I don't always make the best decisions. I don't always make the right decisions. Sometimes I don't know at the time or sometimes I do. But I I do know I always work from the place of consideration.

Explain what that means or give an example.

When I was growing up, my mom drilled into me through her actions as well, not just through her words, that we were always to consider others. Always. Always. Always. Always.

Always. So, like, everywhere my mom went on, like, the routes that she would drive to work, to church, to you name it, every single homeless person knew her in, like, a wonderful way. They give her a nickname. They'd be like, oh, Mamzo, which means like like, hey. It's like a a a a nickname version of, like, mama, you know.

I was like, hey, Mamzo. Hey. How are you? Hey, Mamzo. Hey.

I need shoes. Hey, Mamzo. Hey. And they, like, know her. They, like, know her, and they know her in, like, a human way.

It's it's it was really interesting to me. But she would just consider we would be lucky enough to eat out at, like, you know, because we didn't always when I was growing up, but sometimes we would. And she would say to me, stop eating. She'd be like, you're full. She said, let's save that.

We this is a lot of food. We can give this to, the guy on the way home. And we would do that. And I'm just a kid watching this. Do you know what I mean?

Mhmm. And she would go there's an old man who's our neighbor. His grass his grass is getting too long. We must we must go help him cut the grass. And I was like, this lady is insane.

We're gonna cut somebody else's grass. We're just doing this. He didn't even ask us, by the way. He didn't even seem to appreciate that we were going to do it, by the way. And I remember that that this 1 really sticks with me prominently because she said to me, I said, why are we doing this?

Like, genuinely, what what are we this is just torture. And she said, by considering others, you're you're also able to consider yourself. And she said, if this man doesn't cut his grass, you you know what's gonna happen? There's gonna be rats in his yard. And she said, and do you know where the rats go?

They're gonna come to our house as well. And so she said, I'm cutting his grass for him, but I'm also cutting his grass for us. And so we can live in a world where we say we don't cut grass for other people, Or we can live in a world where we say if I'm able to, I'll cut their grass so that I also don't experience the rats. And so she said, so we are able, so I'm gonna cut that grass. And I was like, oh, I still don't know about this.

But and you know this, I mean, better than most people, but the modeling that a parent showed, like, the things they show you, for good or bad, you learn. Mom's very loud and very big and but she knows that. You know, she knows that she's even embarrassing for me when, you know, when I'm like a kid in high school, she's like, oh, your mother embarrasses you. Even that for me I think was a was a a beautiful thing to experience as a child because it showed me that she at least considered how she was affecting me. Now she didn't change it, you know.

Yeah. She was like, oh, you must be so ashamed. Oh, you'll look at your mother. I come in. I'm dirty and the the car is horrible and, oh, you must be so ashamed.

Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. She wouldn't change it. But at least I knew Yeah.

Yeah. She was aware.

Yeah. And so I I think that for me has been the biggest thing.

That's a nice 1. The alternative is so funny. I'm just sort of playing the cutting the grass example, which is, you know, we don't help the neighbor cut the grass. The rats come, and then we scream and yell and call the authorities so that he'll deal with his rat problem. Yeah.

And the irony is is, like, a little bit of generosity, a little bit of kindness to your mother's point of view Yeah. A little bit of consideration. Yeah. And this is a theme that comes up almost every time you and I talk, which is community. Yeah.

And that's all that is. I think it's funny when people have less in lower income neighborhoods, people sit on the front porch and raise each other's kids. Yeah. And then as soon as you have wealth

You move in.

You move in the backyard, and you sue your neighbor because their branches are hanging over your fence. It is amazing how when you have less, community is survival.

Yeah. It is. Right?

Because both parents have to go to work, and we can't afford childcare, but we can rely on the neighbors. Whereas when you have all the luxuries and you can afford all of the help, you don't even know the names of your neighbors because you don't need to. Yeah. If we look at the society we live in now, where we feel so closed off from everybody, because this has become the American dream, which is to go to the backyard and block everybody else off.

Mhmm.

We become so insular that we now are desperate for that feeling of community and belonging, and we're sort of struggling to find it and looking for anywhere to get it. Yeah. And you see it on the political left and on the on the political right, whether it's anti Israel or anti vaxx, like, I'm gonna latch on to anything I can that makes me feel good about belonging to some sort of community, and and you get all the feels. I feel like my life has purpose, and I'm making good friends, and I'm sacrificing, and all these things, but for the fact that it won't last. Like, these aren't lifelong commitments to something.

Okay. So here's what I here's what I think it is. I don't think that those things are unnatural. I don't think that it's 0 sum. I don't think it's gonna be 1 or the other.

People will always have their politics. People will always gravitate towards certain issues. People will always form and find different alliances and allegiances. This is the human experience. Right?

I think the thing that's different now is we have fewer spaces where we blend all of those worlds into something else. Does this make sense? So I think 1 of the things we're losing as time moves is we're losing communal community spaces

Yeah.

Where A place

to come together.

Us being part of it.

Church.

Yeah. But even not church, because I'm saying church is like also an extension of it, in my opinion. I think it what it is is it's a space where people are allowed to be and are expected to be regardless of how they think or regardless of what they choose, because the choice has sort of been made for them. Mhmm. Okay?

Mhmm. So I often think to myself, 1 of the greatest gifts and curses a person can get is the ability to leave their hometown. Mhmm. Because you leave your hometown and now you choose to go live somewhere else. When you've chosen to go live somewhere else, you're now going to encounter other people who've also chosen to go but didn't choose to live next to you and you didn't choose to live next to them.

And so now you go, I hate my neighbor. I wish they would move. I hate my neighbor. I need to move. I hate this neighborhood.

I need to get out. I hate this neighborhood. I wish they would change it. But you exist in a state of constantly wishing for the thing or the people around you to change because you believe it's possible.

Right.

But there's very few people who have that same expression about, like, where they're from from.

Oh, that's such a great insight.

Do you understand? Home is home. You just go like, this is what it is. So you go, where are you from? From a little town in the middle of wherever.

And I go, like, what you go, like, oh, yeah. Jimbo. Yeah, man. Jimbo's like this, and he's like that. And, actually, oh, Mary.

I don't like Mary because she's always saying these things to my mom. You don't wish

for them to move. You don't

wish You don't even You don't hear people say that. Oh, I wish Mary would move. Move where?

Oh, this is Move where? This is such a great insight. Wait. Wait. Move where?

Which is the blessing and curse of of basically what an urban center is. Yeah. Because Which is there's too much choice.

Yes. And the main thing is you have been told there is a choice of community. And I think what it does is it fundamentally undermines our belief or our ability to understand that you can coexist with people you don't agree with. Right. Because now you cannot exist with them.

Right.

Right? So I I say this to my friends all the time, and and I think you know this about me away from mics and cameras. I encourage friends to bring up the things that they don't agree about because your friends you trust, your friends you love, your friends are a community that you know want the best for you.

Yeah.

So I think it's important to have discussions where you don't agree because then you can always fall back on the things that you do agree on. Yeah. Right? You can have what I call like healthy fights. And so I'm still friends with my friends who are pro Israel.

Some people don't like that about me. They go, like, how could you? Then I go, like, yes, but also how could I not? Then I'm also friends with my friends who are pro Palestine. And then my pro Israel friends are like, how could you?

Then I go like, I understand why you say that, but I go how could I not? Because I fundamentally believe genuinely, whether it's at the level of leadership, whether it's at the level of you in your life. Mhmm. If you cannot find a way to exist despite the things you're disagreeing on and because there'll be many of them and some are like, the most extreme and then some aren't. So please don't get me wrong.

I'm not saying it's I'm not talking about kumbaya. Mhmm. I'm just saying there are many things where you sort of have to accept. And so when I was growing up in South Africa, and we were living at my grandmother's house in Soweto, black people couldn't leave Soweto. It wasn't like a thing.

This is the southwestern township. This is where you've been put by the apartheid government. You cannot leave it. So what do you do? You live.

You know your neighbor always plays music loud on a Saturday morning when they're cleaning their stoop. Oh, man. You just know this. Mhmm. Maybe you complain once or twice, but you, like, know this.

You know every Friday night, there's gonna be a bunch of guys who drive cars that have loud exhausts. They're gonna do this every Friday. They get paid. They get drunk. They do this.

And the weirdest thing happened. You you knew that you didn't like it, but you also accepted the reality that you were in. And I found it was, like, in a weird way, more tolerable. You know what I mean? People even tolerated each other and then found a connection with each other.

You could even tell shit to that person. Like, I hear you come with your, you know ah, man, on Friday, I don't look forward to seeing you. I'll be like, ah, baba, don't talk about my car like that. Why you you're just like, yeah, man. You guys with your cars or you with your radio or you with your and I don't know how to explain it, but there's something necessary in fact, in my opinion, in being able to say to somebody, these edges of yours, they don't work with mine.

But, I also have to learn that other people have edges.

So now it raises the question, how do we create that community?

I don't know that we can anymore. I think

the thing the thing that you had in common is there's a shared enemy, right, which is apartheid South Africa.

No. But I I I take it away. I don't even think people thought that, to be honest with you. No.

I don't think it's conscious. I don't think we think, Yeah.

But I'm saying even That's what I'm saying. Let's take the word enemy away. What we shared is we didn't have a choice, Simon. This is so that's why I'm saying enemy away.

Okay. Okay. Okay. Stated a different way. Yeah.

Yes. What you shared is you didn't have a choice.

We shared this non choice. And so and so when given no choice, you have to make it work. If a plane crashes and everyone survives and everyone's on this island,

you have to make it work.

We cannot now say how did you vote in the midterms? Right. Hey, man. It doesn't matter right now.

We have to make it work.

I need you to get those coconuts. Right. I need you to help us build a raft.

So what is it about our current society that we don't feel we have to make it work? Because it's not like you can just sort of execute half the country and be like, oh, finally, they're gone. You know? Short of half the country moving to 1 part, the other half moving to another part.

Yeah.

Like, what is it about the current society that we don't feel like we have to cooperate.

That's what I mean. It's the gift and the curse. We've got the choice. It's impossible to go back from choice.

It's and and it's 1 of the great dynamics. Ignore the apartheid government. You can't No.

No. No. I but remember

There was a there was a confining Yeah. Exactly.

So there was a confining water is a power. Yeah. Water is a con the ocean is a confining factor. We are the people of this land. And then someone builds a ship, and it's like, well, now do you wanna be the people of this land?

Because you can go somewhere else. And then what happens? Someone goes like, I'm gonna go to this America because I don't like how the English are treating you.

So what's that's a wetter neighborhood like now that people can leave and travel? Do they are they as tolerant as they used to be?

Now what's interesting is I would argue and I because I don't spend as much time there anymore since my grandmother passed, I don't think that it's the same, but I still think a lot of it is the same because now the thing that's forced people is class and income. So still many people are forced.

So the confining forces changed.

That's why I said forget the force.

I understand. But there's still a confining force.

Exactly. It

went from government policy to a

to a social economic to social economic. Yeah. So now people cannot the people who cannot afford to move out of Soweto still live in Soweto, and the people who have left have left. And just from my little anecdotal experiments and my anecdotal experiences, they're lonelier, they are sadder, they feel more isolated, they feel less purpose, they're caught up in, like, a a drive that never ends, but they've just got and it's amazing to see. They have more than every generation that came before them.

Yeah. And wow, Simon. They are like, oh, it's and it's amazing to see. And and I think this is the thing that's tough is, like, you can't undo getting something. Right?

I grew up religious and what I loved about the Bible is whether you think it's real or not, the stories are fantastic. They truly are. Once you have eaten the apple in the Garden of Eden, you cannot unsee that you are naked. And that's, like, almost what God, like, tells Adam and Eve. He's like, oh, you guys messed up, man.

Before this, you didn't know you needed clothes.

Right.

And now you will spend every day thinking I am naked. And he's like, that's why I didn't want you to eat the apple, but you guys ate the apple. This is the the paradox of choice.

Yeah. The temptation is to conclude that it's money. The temptation is to say, but once you have wealth No. But I think that it's more like the the absence of struggle. In the cases, there's some sort of hardship that and in all of the

Let me let me think about this.

Plane crash example, Soweto example So it's like as hardship is relieved and choice is a a relief of hardship, then for some reason, our ability to cooperate and put up with each other seems to go down.

So I I will agree with 1 part of it. I still come back to I don't even think it's hardship. I think it's just the constraining factor. Here here's why I say this. Let's say there is an island of mega rich people and they go hang out together and they're on this mega rich island and they do whatever they wanna do.

Right? It's the mega rich. They're having a great time. If they are confined or constrained in some way, they will find the same thing and they do find it temporarily. So if you you've maybe been to them.

I've visited them on occasion, but, you know, you get these places where people go to these, like, golf resorts and it's like, wow, what is this place? And in that place, I have found people have a different level of community, a different level of enjoyment, a different level of you know it's like people buzzing around on golf carts and people meeting, and there's only the 4 restaurants. And all you can do is choose from 1 of the 4. And so you just rotate. Yeah.

We'll do the Spanish place on Monday and then we always love doing the Italian place on Wednesdays and

I'll have the eggs again.

Exactly. Again. Yeah. Because all of a sudden you're constrained. So there's this weird thing that happens.

I even think about it for my life as I go, the great curse is gonna be the choice. The great curse is gonna be knowing that you can choose. So how do you create artificial constraint for yourself to help yourself? Because I don't think it's about hardship at all. I think you can have a good time together, but if you cannot change the people or the situation, it changes your ability to appreciate or get along with the change or the situation.

So there's a story about a a shoe salesman in Los Angeles in 19 fifties. I can't remember his name, but he was a very successful entrepreneur who owned a whole bunch of women's shoe stores.

Yeah.

A journalist asked him, what's your secret? And he said, 2, not 3. And they're, like, what do you mean? He goes, woman comes into my store, I'll bring her a pair of shoes. She'll try them on.

And she'll say, could I see that pair, please? And I'll bring her a second pair of shoes. And she said, could I also see that pair, please? And she and he'll say, which 1 would you like me to take away? Oh.

Because what he found Wow. Is when they had a choice of 3, they bought none. And when they had a choice of 2, they bought 1. Oh, I love that. Right?

2, not 3. Too much choice is overwhelming.

Oh, man. I need I need to apply that to my life. You see, that's brilliant. I love it when people find the the nexus of what of how you're supposed to do it, because I understood it as a concept, but that's a it's a nice way to think about it for anything, really. Yeah.

And so what I've started doing in my life is I've added constraint, right? And I didn't even realize it until we're talking right now, which is like I've got all these options on the table, pick I mean it doesn't matter what it is.

Yeah yeah yeah, I know what you mean.

And what I'll start doing is I'll start pairing them off. I'll be like, okay, between these 2 okay, get rid of that 1. Okay, between these 2 okay, get rid of that 1. Between these 2 and the choices become really easy. And then I get to the final 2, I'm like, oh, it's obvious, it's that 1.

Whereas I'm looking at 6 or 5 or 4 or 3, and I'm like, but this 1 gives me this, and that 1 get and I'm playing them off and doing sort of, you know That throws a car.

I love that.

But it's it's you know the trick of the flipping the coin? Yeah. You know, I don't know, should I do this or that? And you, like, flip a coin.

Yeah. And you accept fate's decision.

Well, the question is do you wanna flip again? It's whether you're satisfied with the coin flip or not. And it works every time when people are stuck between a choice, and you force them to flip a coin. You say the coin decides. And if they're happy with what the coin decides, they go with it.

Is what they're If they're unhappy, then obviously go with the other 1.

Yes. Because I think to that point, because we are so terrified of making the wrong choice, and rightly so by the way. Mhmm. If you're living your life well, you don't wanna make the wrong choice. No.

That's why, you know, when you book something, you go sort by price. Because you're like, okay. I'll make it a price choice because the world has told me that price is the most important. But if they added other ones, I mean, like Google Flights does this. Yeah.

They'll go, oh, here's duration. Then you're like, oh, well, time is more important to me than the price. Yeah. And another 1 will be like, sort by best value. And you're like, okay.

I'll go for value. What is the price relative to what it normally costs, etcetera? But they at least give you something to give you, like, a clear distinction. I know

they look at the first view because that that's whatever your hierarchy is. Yeah. This idea of constraint is really important. So the question is is, like, how do we add constraint at a social level, at a societal level, in order to help people better find community or at least get along? And maybe that's not possible.

That's the problem. I think it happens naturally whether we like it or not. It's the unnatural natural order of

it. But it seems not to have be happening right now.

Yeah. Because exactly your last 2 words. Right now. We love everything right now in life. Everything is right now.

Right? People think this and I don't agree. I think it's always goes to where you're zooming in and where you're zooming out. Like genuinely, where you're zooming in and when are you zooming out. Right?

Because I think of like everything, whether it's markets or whether it's countries or whether it's the world or whether it's yeah. It's it's terrible, but it's the best it's ever been. But it's it depends on and I will never minimize someone's experience because it's the moment that you're in. The moment that you're in is the most important moment for most of us. And then the larger thing is how you aggregate all of the moments and what you think of or how you remember them.

So when I think of the right now, I go let's use an example, which is a crazy example. I'm acknowledging this. But let's look at the UnitedHealthcare CEO who was assassinated. Mhmm. I found it fascinating, and I'll throw all the disclaimers out there.

So let's just say this is me using, like, what I like to call, like, my lab hands. Yep. I'm thinking of this more like a This is a this is a thought experiment

Yeah. Not not a social commentary.

Yeah. Forget forget all of it. I just go, like, wow. What a crazy moment where 1 person was killed, and I would argue most of the country Mhmm. Was united in in their joy, elation Or at least frustration.

Or at least being quote unquote fine with it. Schadenfreude or whatever you want. Weird.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But I I think to myself, wow. What just happened here?

Yeah. I'm willing to bet if you asked let's say we did a cross section or, you know, we we selected people from all walks of life who are happy or fine or celebrated or whatever it was. We asked those people, hey. What are you, what are you happy about here? What are you or let's do it this way.

You said to them separately, do you like it when people get killed? They go, no. No. No. I'm I'm I'm willing to bet all of them would say no.

100% against murder. Yeah. And you go, like, do you like it when people don't like how the world is going and so they shoot someone? They'd be like, no. No.

No. No. No. That's chaos. That's anarchy.

No. No. No. No. No.

No. No. No. And if you broke this incident down into many different things, they would basically say no to all of it.

100%.

So then I found myself asking, what was it about the collective action that brought so many different people together in a country where we're constantly told people are not together?

Mhmm. Right?

We're always told America's more polarized than ever. America's more polarized than ever. Hack up, but why weren't they polarized about this?

And what's your conclusion?

My conclusion is everybody is experiencing the same constraints. Whether you are a rich person

Yeah.

Or whether you are a poor person, the health care industry in America

Yeah.

Has constrained you

Yeah.

To living in a world where you don't know whether you're gonna be able to pay for the next bill Yeah. Where you don't know if you'll go broke because of an incident. You don't know if you'll have Or

even just the even just the frustration of being forced to jump through hoops Jump

through hoops. Yeah. It doesn't matter who you and imagine that. Even a rich person goes, ah, the health care industry. And so in a way, in this moment, because of this action, we got to see how that constraint works.

You're like, oh, because everyone is constrained to this.

Yeah.

They are all then having the same experience. They're coming together in ways that nobody thought people could be. And again, as I say, I'm not, like, happy No. No. No.

I understand.

No. No. Of course. Of course. It's But you like it.

Wow. Observation. But the the the the last time I saw this happen and again, it's an extreme example, but it's just data, right, was after September 11th. After September 11th, there was this big concern that the the Muslim world hated Americans. So that we there was research done.

They went to the moderate average Arab on the street

Oh, yeah.

In Egypt, in Jordan. And they asked them, what do you think about September 11th? A huge, huge number. They said, I think what happened was a part. I think it's terrible.

And then they added, but I understand it. And that's the part that I found very scary, which is the minute that a rational person can rationalize an abhorrent behavior, there's something under the surface that it has to be addressed. But I understand it. And this is what's happening now with this assassination, which is, I think murder is horrible. I think that his family loss is horrible, horrible, but I understand it.

Yeah. And it's that part that we need to explore. And we all know what it is, which is what's happening in the insurance industry in the United States has become so unjust and so unbalanced that we are able to rationalize and let go of our ethics and morals because of this. The opportunity is to somehow understand how it got to this place and try and back away from it. Because the last thing we want is for these unjust experiences to happen in the world and and then your vigilante justice is the only way to calm.

Because what it is, it's frustration. It's the schadenfreude. It's an alleviation of frustration. Like, I can't solve this problem. I'm still stuck in this problem.

Yes. But I feel like I got some relief.

Yes. Which is a horrible thought. But it but is it though? I'll and he think of it okay. Let's flip it the other way around.

Horrible we I think we keep saying that because we don't want to be Yeah.

But let's flip it the other way around. This is again what this made me think about. What are laws? What are laws fundamentally? If not, how a society wishes constraints on yeah.

We agreed upon constraints on our behavior. Laws are fundamentally a fence that we build around a yard that we should all

live in. To agree to. Yeah.

So we all go where's the fence? Yeah. For everything. Where's the fence for the speed limit? Where's the fence for shooting a person or not shooting?

Where's the fence for food?

If I go outside that fence, I know there's a consequence.

We and And we agree on the fence. Right?

Yep.

Then what happens? Because of how power isn't equally shared, because of how some people are able to manipulate it, all of a sudden, somebody's jumping over the fence and you're like, hey. And the person's like, yeah, well look how big I am. Yeah. I'm a corporation.

And you're like, yeah, but we agreed on the fence. And they're like, yeah, well I I didn't break the fence, I just climbed over it. And you're like, I mean, yeah, but we we the whole point of the fence is that you're not supposed to get over it. And they're like, no. No.

The law says I'm not allowed to break the fence, but I can climb over the fence. And then what happens to the people? If they can't do anything within the fence Yeah. They then go, okay. Look.

You get over the fence. I can't get over the fence. Yeah. And then 1 person, this kid, allegedly goes Yeah. Actually, you know what?

I'm just gonna break the fence. Yeah. And so then people go, actually, in a weird way and this is what's so complicated for people to understand, especially people if they're in, like, power or whatever. Because of how close it is to them, they panic. We're gonna live in a world where where where there's just chaos and and do you know why so many people agreed with it?

Because it wasn't chaos. Mhmm. I think that's what a lot of people are missing. Mhmm. And I'm not saying I'm for it, but I'm saying No.

I understand.

We miss it if we don't realize it wasn't chaos.

You and I are not. We're trying to understand Yes. Why people understand. Why people understand.

Yes.

And we're trying to understand why people are fine. Yes. Or at least able to rationalize it away.

Yes. Because I go, they are in many ways going, if this had happened to anyone else or to anything else, we would then apply the rules in the but just like a legal system,

how we respond

to the situation will change depending on how the person has responded. People missing is is that he's he's not a person's responded.

People are missing is is that he's he's not a he's not a father or a husband. He's a symbol.

Yes. And an active participant. And it's more than just a symbol.

You But

but You're the CEO. But the people feel Yes. A moral rebalancing. Completely.

Yeah. Completely. And this is why I say in the same way, funny enough.

Like, quote, unquote, that seems fair, which do you know the concept of ethical fading? No. So ethical fading is a concept where we're able to rationalize unethical behavior. And there's a few things that contribute to ethical fading. We see this inside corporations.

We see this

inside governments. So 1 of the things that contributes to ethical fading is sort of peer pressure. Like, well, everyone's doing it. I mean, if I'm not gonna do it, they're gonna do it, then they're gonna take advantage, and I won't. So right?

The other 1 is that's what my boss wants. It's what I need to it's what I need to do. The other 1 is sort of self talk, that rationalizing, like, I gotta put food on the table. Right. I gotta put food.

Like, I I have no choice. Right? And then there's a slippery slope. Well, he did it. Nothing happened to him, so

why can

I do it? And when cultures with weak leaders allow ethical fading to happen, what you do is you get Wells Fargo with people opening up fake bank accounts to hit their numbers.

Yeah.

They all know it's wrong. What you do is you get pharmaceutical companies who have patents on essential drugs raising the prices 500%, a 1000%, 1500%. What you get is insurance companies saying, we'll pay for your anesthetic up to 1 hour of surgery. Anything more than 1 hour, it's on you.

Like, knowing that most surgeries are not going

to be the hour. Like, they and they pull numbers out of their ass, and everybody knows it's wrong. It's unethical. But in weakly led companies, good people because we say things like, how can they sleep at night? They sleep fine.

Right? Like, good people are able to rationalize away unethical behavior. If we're really honest with ourselves and we peel away the onion from a lot of companies, and I think it's particularly egregious in public companies, Ethical fading runs rampant in America today.

Mhmm.

And I think what we're starting to see is a responding to that in the rise of populism and the rationalizing of apparent behavior, because we're seeing a rebalancing of you did something that's so unethical to us. 1 point on this side of the team. 1 point to the powerless. Right. Right?

And the question that we have to ask as a society is, yes, he'll go to jail and justice will be done because he went outside the fence, but we have to address the thing, but I understand it. If we don't, all the fears the executives have will all come true unless we actually address

the Yes.

But I understand it. But I Who's gonna do that?

I would also argue this though. And and maybe okay. Maybe I'll stop by asking you this.

This is a very deep conversation that You

said you don't like small talk? No. No. But people

but I but I put a you

know, we when we when we promote the podcast, we got a picture

of Trevor Noah, and we'll put a little

clip, and people are like, I'm gonna listen to this 1. It's gonna be so funny.

I mean, we can still make jokes. The so so here's the question I have for you. Do you think that this alleged shooter, do you think that that was an ethical fading?

No. I think the ethical fading happens on the side of the insurance companies. Okay.

So you don't think it's of the, like, the people who even, like, go, like, yes, we're fine with this or yes,

we're pro That's interesting. It's on both sides because we are rationalizing. We are okay. So the ethical fading is I mean, so No.

I'm asking. I I don't know.

I'm thinking. I I don't I'm not a 100% sure of the answer. So because the definition is our ability to do unethical things, make decisions outside of our ethical frameworks, rationalizing that they're okay. Right. And so I guess, yes.

So you see, that's that's where I don't think so. So so this is this is what this is what I mean. So this is this is what I've been wrestling with No. I know

you know why they

Okay. Go.

He knew what he was doing was illegal. He knew what he was

Okay. Yes. Yes. He had an awareness Yes.

That what he's about to do is illegal, which is why he took all the steps to hide himself. Whereas in the companies, there's literally a a miss like, no no no. Everything's fine. Everything's fine.

But they know. I argue So deep deep they know. I don't even think deep. I think shallow they know. Okay.

Here's why. Here's what I I think it is. Let's stick on the health care industry because this is, like, really where most people, I think, have a loathing, you know, where people what's brought people together. Let's take a step back from this story that was in the news. Let's look at, like, the opioid crisis where millions of Americans Died.

Died, lost family. We always forget, like, the secondary effects. Right? We always think of the earthquake. We forget about the aftershock.

Think of everybody who lost a family member. We know what that does to a family. A breadwinner disappears. What does that do to the kids? What happens when a community has breadwinners that disappear?

Right? And then we look at the people who benefited the most from it and what happened to them. Arguably nothing. Oh, they got they lost a little bit of money. Not all their money, by the way.

Not all their money. A little bit of their money. I always found it particularly interesting that El Chapo would be arrested and the US government would take all of the money that they could, all of it, and go like, yeah, it's ill gotten money. They wouldn't go like, well, El Chapo, some of this you earned from interest and some of this you earned from other ventures that aren't actually drugs. And some of they just go like, no.

No. We're taking all your money. But then for the Sackler family, they don't take all their money. They go like, alright, pay a fine. Do you know what I mean?

Pay a fine. Mhmm. Why not all their money as well? Look at what they did and look at how many people were affected. Not even jail?

And so what starts to happen then, I think, and this is what I think we have to grapple with as a society is beyond, like, the this is what I always try and talk to people in power about is I go, it is easy when you are close to power to assume that the actions of the powerless are devoid of morality because you have the levers of power and so power responds to you accordingly. Right? But when people live in a country where their health care gets denied, they pay insurance believing they will be insured and then only when they're on their deathbed do they get tricked out of it, people are like, what has happened here? And then the recourse is almost nothing. There's nothing you can do.

The difficult thing for us to grasp is when do we say that a person has done something wrong? I always think about this with history. It like blows my mind. The British did not think that the Americans were heroes. They did not think that.

Right? When Paul Revere and all these people are riding around on horses, the British aren't like, ah, these heroes man. These heroes. Do you know what I'm saying?

Yeah, it'll start terrorism.

The Spanish did not go like, Che Guevara. What a hero. Fighting for his people. Che Guevara doing his thing. You know what I mean?

History is littered with examples of people who did the wrong thing by the confines of what that current time agreed on. And then afterwards, the people were like, this was for the greater good. And so this is what this is why I say I'm wrestling with it. I'm wrestling because it is a complicated thing because I the 1 side of my brain as Trevor goes, hey, man. I don't want to live in a world where someone goes around shooting somebody because they feel like the thing doesn't work the way they would like it to and it's affected them.

And I don't want that. You know what I mean? And I would argue that's what a lot of, let's say, even gang violence is. You did me wrong. I'm gonna shoot you or, you know, the the mob Vigilante justice is not a thing we agreed to.

That's there's 1 side of my brain that says that is Trevor. Completely. Then the other side of my brain goes, yes. But we don't seem to have mechanisms that work effectively for when large bodies do these things. So what do we do?

Some would be like, oh, but the legal's but we've seen it doesn't work. So it's like, what do people do? And I think that's that's why I'm so interested in answering the question because I think CEOs of let's even just stick in the health care industry because that's where the thing is aimed, by the way. It's not like, I love how they're gonna try make it seem like it's CEOs. Yeah.

It's like, no.

No. No. No. No.

Let's let's be honest here. The CEO of Ben and Jerry's is fine. They don't have to get any extra security. None whatsoever. Don't try rope CEOs in.

Let's make it industry specific. Yeah. Yeah. Do you know what I'm saying?

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

This is like a Would you you you

this is like a dictator being like us world leaders, we have such a tough time getting the people and it's like, woah. Woah. Woah. Woah. Woah.

Woah. Yeah. Yeah. There's world leaders who know what

you Stalin said. Right? Which is the death of 1 man is a tragedy and the death of a million is a statistic. Right. And that's what we're dealing with here.

You're dealing with the emotions of a person with a name and a face Yes. And the emotion of that versus the statistic of how many people have suffered as a result. And you and it's very hard to compare 1,000 to somebody with a name and a face. 1 is emotional and the other 1 is rational. Yeah.

And I that's why I think it's important for us whenever those types of things happen. I think it's important for us. If we if we want to think of ourselves as thinkers, we have to then go, what is this actually telling us about society? Like, if I was a lawmaker in Washington, I'm thinking less about the fact that a person was killed, and I'm thinking more about why my population, for the most part, thinks that it was everything from understandable to great. Yeah.

That's what I would be thinking of. I'd go like, oh. Because the

people exactly. I think at the base level, I understand it.

Do you see what I'm saying?

Yeah. And I think so and, unfortunately, we we all understand it.

That's the thing. And now if I'm a CEO of a health insurance company or whatever, yes. As much as I'll think about getting security, the thing I would think is, like, woah.

How do we change with the way do business? Woah. Woah.

Woah. Woah. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Do I want this company to be a thing that the majority of a country wishes death upon?

Woah.

You have just defined politics in America, which is regardless of who you somebody voted for, if you just look at the way people voted, and if you don't understand why they voted for it, then you don't understand what has to be fixed in America. Yeah. The person who voted for Trump can say, I can tell you why I voted.

Mhmm.

And the person who didn't vote for Trump has to be able to say, but I understand it.

Yes. Because Or or even I would even say this, though. I sometimes pose it this way to people who who don't agree with that. They'll go, no. I don't understand how you could because they go because the the Democrats have a a more robust policy for doing that, and they're gonna bring the poor up.

So I go, okay. Let's do it another way then. Let's actually do it another way. I I don't force you to understand. Let's let's do it another way.

Would you agree that this person's concern is real? So now let's not say that they did or didn't do the thing. Let's not let's not say that you like because you'll go like, no, but it's not true. Do you agree that there are fewer jobs and people have fewer opportunities And the disparity is true. And they can't catch up with inflation and towns are, you know, falling into disrepair and they're becoming do you agree with that?

Yes. But I Trump's not gonna fix it. Ah, okay. Great. But at least now

Yes. Yes.

You may not

Let's call them

for the understand. Yeah. Yeah. But you do see that these things are real. And I think this is what we struggle with sometimes in life is we don't realize that issues are real.

Politics are an imagined way to solve the issues. Right? But the issue is there. Issue is like a pothole. It exists.

The politics is arguing about who pays for pothole or how we get to fix the pothole, but the pothole is very real. And so I think sometimes what we do is we don't spend enough time just acknowledging the pothole, and we spend more time arguing about why the other person thinks the pothole shall be filled filled with sand instead of concrete. But if we just spent a little more time on that, and I've said this to any democrat I meet who's in power or whatever, I go, why don't you just make your thing, like, irresistible? You know? It's the same way I would say, like, Americans as a concept of democracy.

Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, just make it irresistible.

That everybody wants it. Yeah.

You won't have to force you you know what's irresistible? Movies. Have you noticed that you don't have to go to any country and bomb it to force them to watch the Avengers? Have you noticed that? You know how you know this, Simon.

People bootleg movies. Exactly. They stick America has never had to fly to a communist country, to a socialist they've never had to fly to any of them.

Force them to watch movies.

DVDs on them and be like, you watch these movies. Those people have bootlegged them and translated them into their language without you forcing the why because that thing was amazing. Yeah. The film industry made something that was irresistible and if you make something that is good, people will want it. Right?

And So I Because Ben and Jerry's is good People will want it.

People will want it. And so I go, think of it like that.

Make everything good.

So I say as a democrat, if you are a democrat I go like, okay. Just find the states where you control. You you're the governor. Yeah. You are the senator.

Yeah. You are the mayors. You are the just make it yo yo yo yo. So then make your state Yeah. So irresistible Yeah.

That people are like, I want my state like that 1. I'm either going there or I like my state like that 1. Exactly. As opposed to saying, we could we could because I don't think that the 1 has to wait for the other. Mhmm.

And I think that's something that we take for granted is if the thing is good, people yo. People are always gonna come for a thing that is good. You don't have to force them to believe in it.

This is a perfect place to end this. This was good. And hopefully, we won't have to force anybody to come to it. The problem with talking to you is I never want it to end. I I have endless energy.

My brain hurts a little bit, and I really love it. It's like, you know, you go to the gym and you get muscle pain, you're like, oh,

it's much good.

You know? That's how my brain feels right now. I I I I and I absolutely love it.

Well, the feeling is mutual, my friend.

Every time I sit down with you, I said it at the beginning. I'll say it at the end. I absolutely absolutely love talking to you. You have an insight into how the world works and how people work clearer than most people in the world. Such a joy.

Such a joy. Such a joy.

It's really is. It's mutual. That's why I love sitting with you and,

No small talk.

Maybe yeah. I mean, a little bit, but, maybe maybe that's what makes our conversation so great is that at some point they have to end. And so that constraint

Constraint.

Is what keeps them being amazing. It's it's exactly.

If we did it all the time, it wouldn't be as fun. Thank you, my friend. Thank you. If you enjoyed this podcast and would like to hear more, please subscribe wherever you like to listen to podcasts. And if you'd like even more optimism, check out my website, simoncinnick.com, for classes, videos, and more.

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